Mystic Board

I don't know how to deal with being accused of things constantly..  In the begining I gave him reason to doubt but after 2 years and no progress I am started to think it's a waste of time. How do I overcome his suspisions without getting angry?

in all my charts and readings horoscopes number-scopes Aries seems to come up. Or it's ruling planet mars, or something that refers to Aries. Does it mean anything? Or Strengthen the influence of Aries characteristics?