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- Mon Apr 06, 2009 3:16 am
- Forum: Aquarius - January 20 - February 18
- Topic: Aquarius - Likes / Dislikes
- Replies: 15
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If there's anything Aquarians dislike, it is probably facing their real selves. I notice that a lot of Aquas are always saying that they like being original, yet their originality is usually kinda...forced. Also, for such an unconventional sign they tend to be really dogmatic in their views; not goo...
- Mon Apr 06, 2009 2:58 am
- Forum: The Hug Exchange
- Topic: Numerology; another aspect of myself I can hate
- Replies: 18
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Numerology; another aspect of myself I can hate
I can't believe the weekend's almost over. I guess it wasn't COMPLETELY unproductive. I can
never seem to get anything done myself! Augh!
Today I returned back to obsessing over some 'sign' of greatness. This time it was through
numerology; an accident - we were at Barnes and Nobles and I saw an Idiot's Guide for
numerology. I got home and downloaded it...
A couple of life path systems have me pegged as a 2, not an 11. I don't feel really bad
because there are still quite a few (3/4 of the main systems) that have me as an 11/2. I've
know about the master numbers since I was a kid. When I was younger, I thought 11 was better,
but now I'm convinced that 22 is better. What I wouldn't give for some serious grounding in my
chart; then I'd be too busy rebuilding the world to care about all this crap.
Squares, aspects, trines, master numbers; I'm tired of it. I just wander around, looking for
some sort of sign that I am not an ordinary and useless person. Today I read a lot about soul
urges, and how having a 1 soul urge contributes to the "feeling" of wanting to be recognized,
or whatever. It made me feel very insecure and sad. I am a very poor student, and I don't do
much in terms of hobbies or physical activity. I had always hoped that somehow I would turn
things around, that I had a special purpose or something. Now I just feel ordinary. I have
failed to attend an exclusive university, and even when I was younger I was just getting by;
sure an honors student but never a very good one, you know? My younger brothers are already so
promising; you can just tell that things are in store for them, but what about me?
I've failed to realize the most basic concepts for my year in school. Last semester I ended
with a 2.3, and my cumulative is a 2.6. I presently weigh ~200 lbs; that's about 100 kg. I
have gained about 20 more pounds since January. I can't control myself, I cannot get my work
done and I don't know if I have a learning disorder or what. I have tried to take comfort and
move forward by likening myself to great people, but I always feel forced and fake. It makes
me feel sad because there is no one I can talk to about my problems, and people who are really
great never question themselves or even wonder if they will be special. I have a deep desire
to be recognized or even important or just good at what I do, and now I don't know if that is
even possible. Even if I was in the upper echelons of power I would feel like a complete
outsider, I would feel as though I didn't deserve it,like I was just twisting fate. What if I
somehow made it but things got messed up because God just wants me to be a normal and
unspecial and ordinary person? Everything else says that I have to learn servitude. That I
will be fulfiled by being a subordinate. I was a subordinate growing up and when I was around
friends and peers. I'm tired of being nothing. I always used to just tell myself that someday
I would get my chance, but I was born a loser. Even my mom said that I will never be the
center of positive attention. Why? I don't understand. In any stellium some stars have to
shine brighter. Why can't that star be mine? Just once, I'd like to feel relevant. I don't
know what I'm going to do with myself as a normal person. Maybe become a serial killer or a
terrorist or something. I don't know. I don't know what to do with myself, taking orders and
being billionth best all the time. I hate feeling competitive. Truly great people never
compete with anyone; they just come out on top. They don't even notice it. They just do. I
know that because I've observed people that are good at stuff. But what about me? Why did I
have to get left behind, me of all people. I know that I don't have a weird thinking style, or
good ideas or anything. I'm just normal and a bit lazy and mostly below average. I hate
'special' people. I really do...my brother, famous people, everyone. I hate them. I just live
on the outside. I can't accept being a nobody like everyone else can, and I;m not good enough
to rise to the top. I've never been noticed for anything. My whole life. Now school's almost
over. I have to go get a real job and get bossed around until I die. Why? Why me? I hate them.
Use to think that someday I would shine. Now I know that I'm just unrealistic 2 + 1 soul urge
to be unique or whatever. Maybe I'll be assistant head of a sales team, and that will be good
enough. I turned 20 this year. The only thing different about me is that I'm slower and
fatter and I get depressed more easily. None of my projects have come to fruitation. It's so
easy for me to feel bad. I can't make any of my ideas real, I never do anyhting cool or
exciting, and I'm just below (sometimes well below) average in everything that I do. I feel
like I'm trapped in an iron cage. Sometimes I wish I was dead so that I could escape this
frustration. There's nothing wrong with me other than a confusing refusal to conform. I'll
never be happy as a normal person. I'm so tired of internally fighting. I never get anywhere.
I can;t change myself unless I just want to become the perfect subordinate. The perfect
cheerleader. Who's gonna cheer me on? My whole life, no one's ever supported me.It's because
they all know I don;t belong in the spotlight. They know that I belong on the support team
with a fake smile plastered on my face, watching someone else lead my life. I wish I could
disappear and come back as someone else. I'll drive myself to suicide before I let other
people walk all over me and steal everything I've ever wanted. I live in a cage, pacing around
, repeating the same mistakes, same thoughts, same visions of grandeur. I don't know how to
materialize anything. I can' t do anything myself. Theres' nothing in my brain. I can't
perpetuate anything.
One of the worst parts is how the time just slips away from me. It's Hell. I can't think,
period. I don't understand anything. I'm just lost and searching for nothing / searching for
what I can't have. I hate myself; this self and the true one or whatever. I have to choose
between being behind and a nothing and being someone else's backup dancer. I'm tired of being
in the background, but now I know that's where I was born to be. Maybe I will just do
dangerous and stupid things for the rest of my life, hoping to die. I don't want to live a
long life. I don't want to stick around, year after year, watching others best me and rise
above me. I don't want to pretend all the time, being "happy to help". I'm never ^%&*%^&% happy
to help. Why can't people agree with ME? Follow MY lead? Go along with ME? Respect ME? It's
always the other way around; I'm expected to be ordered around by other people all the time,
like it's the natural order of things. I think it's unfair that you're not allowed to kill
yourself. You just get cast in some role and that's it. You're done. I don't want my role. I
want ot lead and create. I want to be the best. I want to be the best at all the things that
matter to me. There's no other way to live. You're going to be on earth for a long, long time.
Why the hell would you want to spend all your time underneath, boosting other people up,
kissing someone else's ass? Bent over til you die? Who would want that?
Why should I want that?
It's even worse because no one gets it. Every time I try to tell people about how I feel, they
just don't get it. They don't understand why I would want anything better for myself, as if
it's the most absurd thing in the world for me to want to be an important or even independent
human being. I hate all of it. I hate being alone. I hate knowing and not knowing. I wish that
I had been given the mindless complacency of the masses, or at least some sort of special
worth.
never seem to get anything done myself! Augh!
Today I returned back to obsessing over some 'sign' of greatness. This time it was through
numerology; an accident - we were at Barnes and Nobles and I saw an Idiot's Guide for
numerology. I got home and downloaded it...
A couple of life path systems have me pegged as a 2, not an 11. I don't feel really bad
because there are still quite a few (3/4 of the main systems) that have me as an 11/2. I've
know about the master numbers since I was a kid. When I was younger, I thought 11 was better,
but now I'm convinced that 22 is better. What I wouldn't give for some serious grounding in my
chart; then I'd be too busy rebuilding the world to care about all this crap.
Squares, aspects, trines, master numbers; I'm tired of it. I just wander around, looking for
some sort of sign that I am not an ordinary and useless person. Today I read a lot about soul
urges, and how having a 1 soul urge contributes to the "feeling" of wanting to be recognized,
or whatever. It made me feel very insecure and sad. I am a very poor student, and I don't do
much in terms of hobbies or physical activity. I had always hoped that somehow I would turn
things around, that I had a special purpose or something. Now I just feel ordinary. I have
failed to attend an exclusive university, and even when I was younger I was just getting by;
sure an honors student but never a very good one, you know? My younger brothers are already so
promising; you can just tell that things are in store for them, but what about me?
I've failed to realize the most basic concepts for my year in school. Last semester I ended
with a 2.3, and my cumulative is a 2.6. I presently weigh ~200 lbs; that's about 100 kg. I
have gained about 20 more pounds since January. I can't control myself, I cannot get my work
done and I don't know if I have a learning disorder or what. I have tried to take comfort and
move forward by likening myself to great people, but I always feel forced and fake. It makes
me feel sad because there is no one I can talk to about my problems, and people who are really
great never question themselves or even wonder if they will be special. I have a deep desire
to be recognized or even important or just good at what I do, and now I don't know if that is
even possible. Even if I was in the upper echelons of power I would feel like a complete
outsider, I would feel as though I didn't deserve it,like I was just twisting fate. What if I
somehow made it but things got messed up because God just wants me to be a normal and
unspecial and ordinary person? Everything else says that I have to learn servitude. That I
will be fulfiled by being a subordinate. I was a subordinate growing up and when I was around
friends and peers. I'm tired of being nothing. I always used to just tell myself that someday
I would get my chance, but I was born a loser. Even my mom said that I will never be the
center of positive attention. Why? I don't understand. In any stellium some stars have to
shine brighter. Why can't that star be mine? Just once, I'd like to feel relevant. I don't
know what I'm going to do with myself as a normal person. Maybe become a serial killer or a
terrorist or something. I don't know. I don't know what to do with myself, taking orders and
being billionth best all the time. I hate feeling competitive. Truly great people never
compete with anyone; they just come out on top. They don't even notice it. They just do. I
know that because I've observed people that are good at stuff. But what about me? Why did I
have to get left behind, me of all people. I know that I don't have a weird thinking style, or
good ideas or anything. I'm just normal and a bit lazy and mostly below average. I hate
'special' people. I really do...my brother, famous people, everyone. I hate them. I just live
on the outside. I can't accept being a nobody like everyone else can, and I;m not good enough
to rise to the top. I've never been noticed for anything. My whole life. Now school's almost
over. I have to go get a real job and get bossed around until I die. Why? Why me? I hate them.
Use to think that someday I would shine. Now I know that I'm just unrealistic 2 + 1 soul urge
to be unique or whatever. Maybe I'll be assistant head of a sales team, and that will be good
enough. I turned 20 this year. The only thing different about me is that I'm slower and
fatter and I get depressed more easily. None of my projects have come to fruitation. It's so
easy for me to feel bad. I can't make any of my ideas real, I never do anyhting cool or
exciting, and I'm just below (sometimes well below) average in everything that I do. I feel
like I'm trapped in an iron cage. Sometimes I wish I was dead so that I could escape this
frustration. There's nothing wrong with me other than a confusing refusal to conform. I'll
never be happy as a normal person. I'm so tired of internally fighting. I never get anywhere.
I can;t change myself unless I just want to become the perfect subordinate. The perfect
cheerleader. Who's gonna cheer me on? My whole life, no one's ever supported me.It's because
they all know I don;t belong in the spotlight. They know that I belong on the support team
with a fake smile plastered on my face, watching someone else lead my life. I wish I could
disappear and come back as someone else. I'll drive myself to suicide before I let other
people walk all over me and steal everything I've ever wanted. I live in a cage, pacing around
, repeating the same mistakes, same thoughts, same visions of grandeur. I don't know how to
materialize anything. I can' t do anything myself. Theres' nothing in my brain. I can't
perpetuate anything.
One of the worst parts is how the time just slips away from me. It's Hell. I can't think,
period. I don't understand anything. I'm just lost and searching for nothing / searching for
what I can't have. I hate myself; this self and the true one or whatever. I have to choose
between being behind and a nothing and being someone else's backup dancer. I'm tired of being
in the background, but now I know that's where I was born to be. Maybe I will just do
dangerous and stupid things for the rest of my life, hoping to die. I don't want to live a
long life. I don't want to stick around, year after year, watching others best me and rise
above me. I don't want to pretend all the time, being "happy to help". I'm never ^%&*%^&% happy
to help. Why can't people agree with ME? Follow MY lead? Go along with ME? Respect ME? It's
always the other way around; I'm expected to be ordered around by other people all the time,
like it's the natural order of things. I think it's unfair that you're not allowed to kill
yourself. You just get cast in some role and that's it. You're done. I don't want my role. I
want ot lead and create. I want to be the best. I want to be the best at all the things that
matter to me. There's no other way to live. You're going to be on earth for a long, long time.
Why the hell would you want to spend all your time underneath, boosting other people up,
kissing someone else's ass? Bent over til you die? Who would want that?
Why should I want that?
It's even worse because no one gets it. Every time I try to tell people about how I feel, they
just don't get it. They don't understand why I would want anything better for myself, as if
it's the most absurd thing in the world for me to want to be an important or even independent
human being. I hate all of it. I hate being alone. I hate knowing and not knowing. I wish that
I had been given the mindless complacency of the masses, or at least some sort of special
worth.