Rhutobello wrote:I have read this thread today, and I would have stopped it long ago if I had read it before.
First and foremost.
This site is a voluntary site, which is free, which is open for all, which gives help to many, BUT CAN NEVER PLEASE ALL.
Since this is an voluntary site, and you haven't paid a cent to get into it, you have no claim to get any response to your request, IN FACT to do like donnyboy, who complain and tell negative thing about those who voluntary give of their time ,free of charge, is a good reason to Never get any response.
If one as with respect, treat the Readers with respect, and ask questions that are in such a state that they can be answered, then you have a great chanse to get response.
To ask question that in fact can't easy be answered, are harder to respond to, and if so, the member might try to ask in another way, or to move on to another free site, or if like this where it is a case for life and death, go to a professional who can give professional help, that be a psychiatrist or a Astrologer.
If everything is given in the Star, well then everything that happen to you, happen to you even if you know about it or not.
If you really want to change your life, then you must believe that the star have many path for you, and that YOU must try to make the best out of your life.
That is one of the reason you are allowed to take right, left or go straight ahead.....that is one of the reason why you can travel to Canada instead of Cuba....that is one of the reason you can be a doctor instead of an Cow driver.....it is called personal initiative....it is controlled by your free will and your ability to put up goals and work towards them.
Those who try this approach to life will not waste their precious time, and be in such a negative state of mind because a free site don't say what the star has in mind for them!
I think you've completely missed the obvious Mr.Rhutobello.
Everything you've said about personal will and initiative is very true.
But allow me question your personal perspective on the purpose behind this forum. Like you said this forum is completely free. Now let's take a step back and ask why is IT FREE? I'm sure this isn't a tough question, is it?
In my previous post, i have mentioned that i lost my job and further more i was not paid a dime towards the end of that month. Now how do you expect me to go and visit a professional astrologer who charges Rs.1000/- at the least(let alone visit a shrink who may charge even more!). And this is where this forum comes into play and that is why you have "freeloaders"(as you've so perfectly and indirectly coined) such as myself and amar1 ask for help as such.
Now in order to find an answer what would you suggest that amar and myself do as an alternative to asking help for on this forum?
a) Would you rather that i spend a whole week without eating in order to save up some money to make a professionals' payment?
b) Would you rather i sell my liver or a kidney to muster up some cash in order to set up an appointment with a professional?
But the real mystery is this - What does it take to move a few muscles in your fingers to post a reply saying that you've not been able to figure out what the problem is astrologically? I do not even expect you to defend astrology as i know perfectly well that no science is entirely accurate. Or is it a matter of pride? I'd like to also remind everyone who's reading this that kindness is not a sign of weakness.
Must "freeloaders" like myself resort to such methods to get your attention?
For someone who is 42 years my senior and with more experience, you have not understood that there are two sides to a story.
And my humble request to everyone who comes across this thread is that these are not the ramblings of a 23-year-old immature boy. If you go through it again then you'll notice that all i ask for is a little empathy and transparency.
