hi this picture was taken in the new january 2012

[spiritalk]

Your energies are certainly all over the place and very unfocused.  To accomplish good things in life we need to focus our energies and go for the accomplishment of one thing at a time.  

Relationships are always frought with turmoil when we do not focus our energies on peace and love.  We are reaping what we have sown when chaos seems to rein in relationships.  Try sending a little love and that is surely what will come back - perhaps not the first instance, but eventually that is your reward.  And you will feel better about yourself in the whole situation anyway.

When we look too hard for a man in our life, we can be creating a backwash of energy that is actually taking them away.  Be a good friend and you will find lots of good friends.  Do not be intense about relationshps and jump in, allow them to unfold like a flower.  And remember they can be just as delicate and require a light hand in all things.