How to realize someone's inner self
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How to realize someone's inner self
we often draw conclusions and make hasty judgments about someone just by seeing his/her external behavioral pattern and personality that one flaunts. but how much do we delve into the individual who resides within? how can we develop the wisdom of analyzing someone's inner self that is unhindered and unchangeable with outer conditions?
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I've found the most effective way is to talk to them alone and offer then comfort when they are going through a tough time. Share similar pains, so to speak. No one likes to feel like they are suffering alone.
You can't save the world, but maybe you can save the one person who means the world to you.
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another very quick process is to anger them . the amount of anger corresponds to the amount of fear . and this again corresponds to how much he has to hide . the more he has to hide the more compromised he is. so anger is proportional to his sins . now this again is proportional to how much he is convoluted from his original self so you know the offset . his outer looks - this offset = his present state . it is all mathematics .
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hmm. now we have a theory to judge inner self.
firefly43210, i appreciate the way you have put it. but, there's nothing in it.
i guess there cannot be anything like inner self. people have thoughts. they go by them accordingly, just like instinctive animals. people talk a lot about inner self. but, i have seen many of such inner self conscious people forgetting the self of others around. inner-self searchers are thus selfish.
thinking about it from a spiritual aspect? who thinks spiritually these days? people attend prayers, with the concern how to monetize the recent plans or how to .... etc etc.
exceptions are there. but they do not really come to any forum to talk about the importance of inner self and all.
firefly43210, i appreciate the way you have put it. but, there's nothing in it.
i guess there cannot be anything like inner self. people have thoughts. they go by them accordingly, just like instinctive animals. people talk a lot about inner self. but, i have seen many of such inner self conscious people forgetting the self of others around. inner-self searchers are thus selfish.
thinking about it from a spiritual aspect? who thinks spiritually these days? people attend prayers, with the concern how to monetize the recent plans or how to .... etc etc.
exceptions are there. but they do not really come to any forum to talk about the importance of inner self and all.
I'm weird
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inner self is nothing but instinct , the subconscious .
do you think i meant something abstract when i use those words . know that a spade would always be a spade what ever way you look at it . and inner self would always be the instinct . the force that guides us from inside is instinct .
your conscious thoughts build an impression , an imprint on your subconscious .
they cause you to have what are called " complex " .
when you hit a complex a man gets angry .
and that tells , the man must have some guilt or better said - insecurity , in order to cover up something deep inside his memories , his subconscious mind automatically forms complexes .
that is sin , my friend .
the thing that torments us is just there in everyones memory .
do you think i meant something abstract when i use those words . know that a spade would always be a spade what ever way you look at it . and inner self would always be the instinct . the force that guides us from inside is instinct .
your conscious thoughts build an impression , an imprint on your subconscious .
they cause you to have what are called " complex " .
when you hit a complex a man gets angry .
and that tells , the man must have some guilt or better said - insecurity , in order to cover up something deep inside his memories , his subconscious mind automatically forms complexes .
that is sin , my friend .
the thing that torments us is just there in everyones memory .
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sin may be his own fault , may be someones others fault , may be some misfortune .
but still they sit there inside himself , deep in his subconscious , in the form of painful memories .
and haunt them .
and men crook himself , sacrifice his natural self in order to cope with those memories .
and the deformities so produced are called complexes .
anger reveals those complexes , which comprises the offset i talk about .
total amount of complexes = offset or deviance from original mental state.
but still they sit there inside himself , deep in his subconscious , in the form of painful memories .
and haunt them .
and men crook himself , sacrifice his natural self in order to cope with those memories .
and the deformities so produced are called complexes .
anger reveals those complexes , which comprises the offset i talk about .
total amount of complexes = offset or deviance from original mental state.
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Inner Self
A persons personality is expressed through his experiences and his sense perceptions. The inner self is not for us to know. It is only the expression of this inner self that we have the privilege to access.
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thx i never knew that!firefly43210 wrote:another very quick process is to anger them . the amount of anger corresponds to the amount of fear . and this again corresponds to how much he has to hide . the more he has to hide the more compromised he is. so anger is proportional to his sins . now this again is proportional to how much he is convoluted from his original self so you know the offset . his outer looks - this offset = his present state . it is all mathematics .
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I hav only little answer for this question ... One should be CANCER PISCES or AQUARAIUS .... all of them hav intutive abilities ... as for me i m cancer i can judge a person by his picture. My 90% judgement goes well and correct.
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