ravenfield wrote:Bandit81101 wrote:I don't know if my view of the "Dark" side of ourselves is the same as others. I have a friend whose life is stuck in their "dark" side, but its not an evil side by any standard. He calls himself the dead man, and that's what his dark side is. He gave up on life, love, happiness and the whole nine yards. The only one who even comes close to his heart is his son. He recognizes where he is, and has some wish to get back to the "light", but the dark is so familiar that he stays there and seems afraid and reluctant to venture out. He says the only way he can is if I "Go" inside his head and help him figure it all out. (Of course I won't do that, had a few bad expierences and swore off of that)
Hi Bandit,
I am sure not...Look my previous post...
i would like to ask you how would you help yor friend in his head? How to you cross to his dark side? Have u tried, that's why you wouldn' go? What di u find?
Sorry if i touched a very sensitive subject...I just want some closure....
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Thanks
He seems to think if I go into his head I can help him figure it all out. I have not been inside his head, but 2 of my other friends. Back when I was first learning about all of this. I was very visual and connected to both of them easily. There were other things, like reading them and such, and so we decided to give it a try and see if I could "Tour" their minds. Theirs were not good minds to tour, but hindsight is 20/20 as they say
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In the end, it was bad, and scary, and I couldn't find my way out. Luckily another friend happened along and helped me find the way, I can still remember the tears streaming down my cheeks. I realized that it was much more than I was able to handle, or know how to deal with. I was not ready then, and may never be, and so I decided that others heads was not a place for me to be. And I have stuck by that to this day
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Hope that helps clarify
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