I'm kind of dealing with that right now. I just reconnected with an old friend from high school and he told me he had a confession to make. My friend told me that his girlfriend at the time told him that her brother knew that my ex cheated on me while we dating. Her brother and my ex are friends. Also, the reason why my friend's ex decided to tell him that was just out of spite (long story). Anyways, its been a year since me and my ex broke up. I shouldn't even let this bother me but I guess the shock of finding out and the dreams and gut feelings I had while we were together deeply hurt.
So, the next day I'm downtown trying to get to my class and strangely I see my ex's new girlfriend. I tried to keep myself focused and avoid eye contact, but I guess she recognized me. I had a feeling she knew who I was and to me she didn't look too happy. So I felt odd for most of the day. After finding all this out I'm surprised I haven't become mean. I've been told that when a person goes through tough situations (small or big), it changes them for the good or bad. After what happened, I find myself more considerate and helpful to others. To be honest, it feels great. I hope I can remain this way. I also hope I can get over this setback in regards to my ex...I'm going to stay optimistic
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