¿How can we unlock our true potential?

[kiefer]

Hi all!

It has been while since the last time I wrote her but I hope you all are fine.
The question that gives title to this post is related to a conversation I had  rreciently with someone I haven´t seen in a while.

The thing is he insisted that I had potential then and I still have it now to do better things in some fields, basically some things I studied some years ago but not only that he also talked about my potential as a whole new person, more secure of myself, more ready to face challenges, etc.

The thing is somehow I "feel" he's right, I have thought for some months that I always seem to lack "a little bit more" to a lot of jobs I have applied to this year, let alone getting in new personal relationships I had very good chances but I always managed to fail.

So, what I am asking is if any of you know some way of enhancing our inner abilities at every level, I would be very thankful with any suggest.

[Aegeus]

Their are plenty of crytals that help with that. I'm not sure this is the right forum for discussing that and I won't bother getting more specific unless interest is expressed.

Tapping into potential is largely about clearing blockages.

[FreedomPhenix]

We all have great "psychic" or intuitive potential, some of us just accept and enhance it more freely. Acceptance is the first step, removing self doubt is another great obstacle that needs to be overcome, and from there willingness to learn and gain a different perception of creation. This guide helpd me a lot... maybe it can help you with some clarity. I have several great resources and your welcome to message me for them.


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[sunmystic]

Hi all!

It has been while since the last time I wrote her but I hope you all are fine.
The question that gives title to this post is related to a conversation I had  rreciently with someone I haven´t seen in a while.

The thing is he insisted that I had potential then and I still have it now to do better things in some fields, basically some things I studied some years ago but not only that he also talked about my potential as a whole new person, more secure of myself, more ready to face challenges, etc.

The thing is somehow I "feel" he's right, I have thought for some months that I always seem to lack "a little bit more" to a lot of jobs I have applied to this year, let alone getting in new personal relationships I had very good chances but I always managed to fail.

So, what I am asking is if any of you know some way of enhancing our inner abilities at every level, I would be very thankful with any suggest.

Hi Kiefer,

Yours is an interesting challenge and one that most of us face daily

I guess the first thing one needs is a "goal". Something that one really wants. Without a goal one is like a sailing ship with no wind to move it.

The second thing that one needs is positive attitude about things in general. Otherwise one does not even try.

With those two things "inner abilities" just start waking up

And in an ideal reality one would have a good relationship with the Divine. The Divine can be very helpful with all sorts of things.

love,

sunny

[Aegeus]

"Intent precedes the ability to do"
- Henry Ford


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I must question the motivation for this rule, rather then assume it is what it seems. I do realize some make money off the adds on this site. Some of which have obnoxious noises when the cursor goes over them. Heaven forbid people should find other interesting sites and spend less time trafficing this site and making it a pricer advertizing place.

[sunmystic]

"Intent precedes the ability to do"
- Henry Ford


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pls note no links allowed in posts"

I must question the motivation for this rule, rather then assume it is what it seems. I do realize some make money off the adds on this site. Some of which have obnoxious noises when the cursor goes over them. Heaven forbid people should find other interesting sites and spend less time trafficing this site and making it a pricer advertizing place.

Living in a world full of rules is always an interesting reality

Aegeus, it would be interesting to have a look at your message board and see how you do things.

sunny

[kiefer]

Hi all again!

First of all, thank you all for your support and your ideas. I really think I should try to be more positive and believe more in myself amongst other things.

sunmystic, it's true that like you say a lot of people face this challenge daily but there's a thing that I didn't tell before that maybe can make this a little bit harder for me.

The thing is I had a traumatic experience a lot of years ago and I always thought that I had got over it quite well but this friend I met the other day told me that even if I think I had I still haven't dealt with it properly and that that situation has put my mind into a defensive state that kind of "cut my wings" at every levels: artistic, emotional, laboral, etc. In his opinion unless I get rid of that mental shields I'll never develop my true potential. To get things a little bit worse I suffered another traumatic experience of other kind some years ago that I still haven't been able to get over it and it seems to get worse instead of better with the time.

This friend suggest me something called bioenergetics but from what I have read about it, which still isn't a lot, the concept of going to talk with an especialist about this kind of things doesn't appeal a lot to me, that's what I ask your help for another alternatives that could help me with this problem.

[Aegeus]

"Intent precedes the ability to do"
- Henry Ford


"link edited

pls note no links allowed in posts"

I must question the motivation for this rule, rather then assume it is what it seems. I do realize some make money off the adds on this site. Some of which have obnoxious noises when the cursor goes over them. Heaven forbid people should find other interesting sites and spend less time trafficing this site and making it a pricer advertizing place.

Living in a world full of rules is always an interesting reality

Aegeus, it would be interesting to have a look at your message board and see how you do things.

sunny

There's a website me and some friends put together. It has free music we made for download. Some philosophy, and some add banners as it is a frees sire and thats what covers the fee. Their are links to things we think worthy of reference. I guess it could be updated. I am sure non of the adds have obnoxious noises when the cursor moves over it, though I do not frequent it enough to know.

I have had someone tell me the same thing just yesterday. That Their is stuff from my past which is still unresolved. It didn't bother me though, I already knew that, though I may have needed the reminder. I know I am far better then I was before. I have found crystals to help a lot.

[sunmystic]

Hi all again!

First of all, thank you all for your support and your ideas. I really think I should try to be more positive and believe more in myself amongst other things.

sunmystic, it's true that like you say a lot of people face this challenge daily but there's a thing that I didn't tell before that maybe can make this a little bit harder for me.

The thing is I had a traumatic experience a lot of years ago and I always thought that I had got over it quite well but this friend I met the other day told me that even if I think I had I still haven't dealt with it properly and that that situation has put my mind into a defensive state that kind of "cut my wings" at every levels: artistic, emotional, laboral, etc. In his opinion unless I get rid of that mental shields I'll never develop my true potential. To get things a little bit worse I suffered another traumatic experience of other kind some years ago that I still haven't been able to get over it and it seems to get worse instead of better with the time.

This friend suggest me something called bioenergetics but from what I have read about it, which still isn't a lot, the concept of going to talk with an especialist about this kind of things doesn't appeal a lot to me, that's what I ask your help for another alternatives that could help me with this problem.

Kiefer my heart goes out to you! And that is being honest. If I can help you in this topic, then I am willing too. I am just not a fan of PM's, Ok?

I am very psychic and can read between the lines of things. So just a few clues and we can have a look at things. I do not need anything that is really personal. Nothing that can not be said in public needs to be said and I will not say them either.

Kiefer, may I ask you this question, "What things do you like to do most?"

love,

sunny

[kiefer]

sunmystic

Thanks a lot for your help!

I'll try to be as detailed as I can without being too specific ok?
The first traumatic esperience was a near death one when I was very young, it was quite random actually since it could have happen to other person but it happened to me, thanks to a person that saved my life I'm here writing this but the friend I talked to recently said that even if I didn't show a (logical) fear soon after that experience it doesn't mean it isn't in me, it's just deeper in my mind making me avoid taking big responsabilities and I guess it could be that way.

The second traumatic experience is much more recent and is an emotional one, theorically is something that happens to a lot of people but the way it happened, the things I heard and felt and the hole it left in me is still far from cured and the fact that I think it'll never be completely cured doesn't help a lot either. It has made much more thoughtful than I was before, just a little bit too much if you asked me but at the same time it has left me careless about mostly everything.

Now, about your question, that's very related to what I wrote above, since that last thing happen I don't enjoy that much most of things I used to before but I enjoyed things that I never have tried before: basically attending to long live concerts with thousands of people around, somehow a concert is something that you can only live once it's like a photography it will never be the same twice and I like that "carpe diem" thing of it.
Other things I enjoy are watching movies, surfing the web, youtube, practicing contact sports (this one is also new), etc.

Hope it gives you something to analyse. Thanks a lot for your help again.

Aegeus
You can send me a private message with the link of that web if you want so I can have a look at it without breaking the rules of the forum.

About the unsolved past problems in my case I guess I really needed to notice it, I have been looking about crystals and they really look great, basically zodiac crystals and  some stuff about Crystal Healing, I don't know if these are ones you talked about. I have one doubut about them, Do I have to wear them in bracelets, necklaces or rings to be affected by them or is enouch to carrying them on the pocket or the wallet?
I would be very thankful if you could throw me some light in this.

[Aegeus]

I guess I'll pm to save trouble. When making a profile it has a space to put a web site. I put it their. I guess to be respectful I could put a reference to this site on our site, that is a reasonable rule. I still haven't bothered to get the pass word to edit the site, my friends worked on it I just gave ideas and input.

You don't even need to physically have the crystal to work with it. It's been described as a higher level or sorcery to work with the crystal energies remotely. How ever having the stones in physical proximity is a more direct form of contact. Some of them work best touching the skin, such as chrysocolla.

To answer your question what ever feels best for you is likely what works best. Weather that be having one under your pillow, wearing one around your neck carrying one in a pocket or charging drining water with them(note some are toxic such as malachite). I find the raw stones, uncut and unpolished to the the most powerful energy. I also find holding them and feeling them pulsing to be good for activating them programming them and connecting with their energy. They also need to be cleansed for them to function at their best.

I was born with a half collapsed lung, and I nearly died of asthma when I was four.

Smithsonite is a good one for healing traumas of the past. Some heal past traumas by re-experiencing the trauma in order to release it and clear the energy. Smithsonite is more soothing and calming then this.

Aventurine, Citrine, Blue Lace Agate, Malachite are also said to be good for trauma

I just looked that up. I was gonna say malachite anyway.

The stones you are most drawn to tend to be the ones you need, so trust your intuition in picking them and in working with them.

[sunmystic]

sunmystic

Thanks a lot for your help!

I'll try to be as detailed as I can without being too specific ok?
The first traumatic esperience was a near death one when I was very young, it was quite random actually since it could have happen to other person but it happened to me, thanks to a person that saved my life I'm here writing this but the friend I talked to recently said that even if I didn't show a (logical) fear soon after that experience it doesn't mean it isn't in me, it's just deeper in my mind making me avoid taking big responsabilities and I guess it could be that way.

The second traumatic experience is much more recent and is an emotional one, theorically is something that happens to a lot of people but the way it happened, the things I heard and felt and the hole it left in me is still far from cured and the fact that I think it'll never be completely cured doesn't help a lot either. It has made much more thoughtful than I was before, just a little bit too much if you asked me but at the same time it has left me careless about mostly everything.

Now, about your question, that's very related to what I wrote above, since that last thing happen I don't enjoy that much most of things I used to before but I enjoyed things that I never have tried before: basically attending to long live concerts with thousands of people around, somehow a concert is something that you can only live once it's like a photography it will never be the same twice and I like that "carpe diem" thing of it.
Other things I enjoy are watching movies, surfing the web, youtube, practicing contact sports (this one is also new), etc.

Hope it gives you something to analyse. Thanks a lot for your help again.

Aegeus
You can send me a private message with the link of that web if you want so I can have a look at it without breaking the rules of the forum.

About the unsolved past problems in my case I guess I really needed to notice it, I have been looking about crystals and they really look great, basically zodiac crystals and  some stuff about Crystal Healing, I don't know if these are ones you talked about. I have one doubut about them, Do I have to wear them in bracelets, necklaces or rings to be affected by them or is enouch to carrying them on the pocket or the wallet?
I would be very thankful if you could throw me some light in this.

Kiefer your problem is now solved. Because gentle change is best it will take alittle over one year for things to settle out and go away.

you are loved!

sunny

[kiefer]

Aegeus

First of all I'm very sorry about your lung and I'm glad that you could survive when you were a child, I was very close to die as a child too but the circumstances were very different. I hope your problems with your lung don't cause you too much trouble nowadays but anyway I wish you the best and all the encouragement that I can give you.

Thanks a lot for the link! I'll check everything out when I have more time.
About the crystals, we have searched at home and we have found a little malachite and onyx crystals that my mother has lost years ago. I just have read that adter each use of the malaquite it must rest in a quarz crystal to clean the bad energies it absorbs, I think you told about these in the last post right?

I'm going to do a little research in the shops of my area and see what crystals can I find and how to use them properly, thanks for all the information you have given to me.

Lost of love and the best of luck for you!

sunmystic

Thanks a lot for helping me with my problem!
I really don't know what to say, I mean I know I shouldn't ask too much but will I slowly feel the change in my mind then? Because if I have understood it well it was basicaly a psychological problem right? I'm really eager to take real control of my life again and let all the bad things that I created for myself out.

Lost of love and the best of luck for you too!

[spiritalk]

You were having a very interesting discussion, why not keep it to what you know as your own experience and NOT take it off this site?  I can not see such a confusion as to why links are not allowed?  There are always rules in life and in the end analysis it is seen why it is important to the effort.

If someone is truly interested in what you are doing elsewhere you can e-mail off site.  It only takes a little effort.

[sunmystic]

Kiefer I haven't actually done anything. Something has already happened in your life that will change things. I can't quite tell what it is or was though, just that it has happened.

love,

sunny