Well my friend, I have walked through alot even as a young child. My family would come to me for everything... I was the rock~!! It got to me when my mother had surgery she had an (AVM) on the brain, and 2 aneurysms .. She was 48 then.. Things got to me really easy after that... My son was born during all this, and right off, I knew something was not right. I struggling alone knowing my baby ... well anywho.. Years later we did our homework and did our part and fond out our son was Autistic... I've learned alot from him, and still am... I know he came here for me, and others when he's done with me... My trouble will be not letting him go~!!
But I know at some point god will guild me through all that down the road... And yes I do humor alot...LOL I even make my self laugh.. pretty bad huh~!!! LOL I enjoy being around fun ppl, (((+positive+))) I got away from the -negative-. I'm sorry to say it, but it's true. I needed to get away from my own family, and make a life for our son. It's all about him now.
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I will say, I do take things to heart very, very easy... I wont say nothing right off, it can take awhile or years before I say anything...lol If there a true friend, I will do everything in my power to save it...
But yes Kitty, be fun around me. I like it~!! I love to be entertained.. Ha-Ha~!!
Oh and a little heads up about me...lol My hubby calls me frenchy, as do all my friends... French I am..lol But also French as in dizzy... Ha-Ha~!! and also Gracie Rose. before my time. I guess I act like her from what my mother says...LOL So balancing is a good thing, But be your self.. I know I got tierd of tring to be something I was not.. And family didn't like the real me... I have a voice That don't keep quiet~!!...LOL The bashful me is sooo gone. *Smiles*
Kitty Cat wrote: hello nicole, meg and everyone,
i love this site.
nicole I do keep my friends laughing, especially at work.
I always have something to say, usually i'm a wise-ass. in a entertaing way of course. sometimes i kill myself.
I'm working on not being so funny all the time, thou it's sooooooooooo
hard. i was told that i use humor to deflect everything and that i'm either funny or waaaaaaaay to serious, it sounds strange to me. but it's all about growth, so am trying to balance out. I think it's a good thing to make someone smile who's sad, but my mentor tells me it's not a good thing all of the time. i think she's dry as a bone personally, but i respect her. so. what's one to do? i have made her crack a smile once or twice. but she'd die before admitting it.
what about you, my little shadow? are you funny or serious? do you ever use humor to deflect what's really going on. or are you good at facing hard things and walking through them?
anyone else care to answer that question? very curious.
with respect,
blackcat