Crying

jallious · Post by **jallious** » Thu Jan 04, 2007 3:40 pm

What If I'm crying in memory of someone I once loved? Could it mean simply that I miss them? I didn't think I did, ever, but maybe I do somewhere inside me.

Gypsybelle · Post by **Gypsybelle** » Fri Jan 05, 2007 3:42 am

Well, NewAgeDictionary.com says
"...Cry - Release of emotion not related to the action in the dream that caused the crying. Regaining emotional balance."

That's just one of the definitions...if you look it up anywhere else, usually it reads something about 'regaining emotional balance' and such.

Hope that helped.  :smt005

xmasbb · Post by **xmasbb** » Tue Jan 16, 2007 6:53 pm

There was something about that person that you miss - I doubt it was literal.  A closeness or freedom in a relationship that you now lack perhaps? Dreams are your soul trying to tell you something. What do you need that is missing? Sometimes it's a lack of simple touch or affection. You're repressing a need I think.

jallious · Post by **jallious** » Tue Jan 16, 2007 6:56 pm

I understand. I know what I'm missing now. I jsut wish I could get it from this relationship.

xmasbb · Post by **xmasbb** » Tue Jan 16, 2007 7:03 pm

Gramma says....You're pretty perceptive! That was FAST!!!  Finding what makes us feel whole is never easy and it's not up to anyone else to provide our missing pieces. Now the question is....Is this something that can be accepted or unacceptable? You are right on track. You have to trust your own feelings. It's never right or wrong to feel a certain way. It's the way YOU feel. Honor that.

jallious · Post by **jallious** » Tue Jan 16, 2007 7:05 pm

it hurts to say it...but no, it isn't acceptable. I don't know what to do, either, I don't want to break up with her, and I definatly don't want to make her sad.

xmasbb · Post by **xmasbb** » Tue Jan 16, 2007 7:30 pm

I can take rejection so much easier than dishing it out too. Is there anything more hurtful?
The answer is yes. Not being true to yourself is a dishonor to both of you. You know what you have to do. Be as kind as possible and move forward. Be truthful. Nobody could ask for more. The world could use more sensitive people.

jallious · Post by **jallious** » Tue Jan 16, 2007 7:37 pm

Alright...So that's...4 years of waiting for my break, and I'm still waiting for the real one. Have you seen my first blog? You should read it to see what I've been going through.
I know almost everything about my relationships..but it's only after they're over.

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