is it gonna work or not?

[tasneem]

my bf broke up with me after his family refused him proposing and now he is getting closer to my best friend:(


its really hard on me but i dnt knw weather to wait and see if he is gonna change his mind or not

are we gonna be together or not?  and i realy like him alot :(

[spiritalk]

There is certainly a lot of growing up to do for both of you.  If you would allow that the parents of either of you dictate your happiness it is not healthy for you.  

Nothing is predetermined to the point that he will be with you or not.  Relationships take creation and work.  The more you grow together, the better the relationship.  

But it does appear this boat has sailed because you did not make up your own minds.  This will continue as long as you allow others to make your decisions for you instead of standing up in your own truth.