Has anyone ever had a paranoraml experience that helped them spiritually grow more?

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Has anyone ever had a paranoraml experience that helped them spiritually grow more?

Post by bewitchingbecca013 » Wed May 01, 2013 6:41 am

Hey everyone, im going to talk about something that I have been wanting to know for a long time now...and it involves a short story and a little explaining.  

Well first, let me say that last week I was hanging out with a friend, and we were busy talking, and randomly, she starts telling me that when she went to go get her certification for Reiki II,  that only one other person was getting certified, which was a man, probably in his 60s and she told me how he talked about how he was in love with, and in a serious committed relationship with a spirit....and no, it's not the spirit of a previous girlfriend or wife that has passed away. Im not sure how he met this spirit or how long this relationship has been going on, but my friend told me how open he was about talking about his relationship and how he spends all his time in his house with her.

Now when she told me this, I was ( and still am) in shock....I just can't beleive that there are others out there in the world that are currently or have gone through an experience that I have been through years ago. Im not as open about talking about my paranormal romance as this man obviously was. But when my friend told me this, I felt a strong urge to contact this man somehow and let him know what I have learned and have experienced, and I also want to help him in his situation.

This is where I will tell you about my experience...ok, it all began when I was 14, a bunch of friends and I were at the beach using an ouija board (it belonged to one of my friends. we also protected ourselves!). Basically we talked with a bunch of different spirits, and one took a liking to me, said his name was george, and was 15 (I learned other things about him and his family)...well from that moment on, he followed me around wherever I went and we became friends, then more than friends. We stayed together for quite a while, but I did not tell anyone about him because I was afraid people would think I was crazy..well I did tell one person, but she is good at keeping secrets and my other friends, overtime kinda forgot about that night we used the ouija board, but I will always remember.

Anyway, sometimes at night I would be able to see him out of the corner of my eye, I would feel 'cold spots', he would give me signs or messages (like certain words in a song on the radio, or certain cloud formations in the sky, license plates,etc. come to me in my dreams and talk with me through automatic writing) but one night, even though I beleived in ghost and beleived he was still around, I deceided for my own sanity that I needed some sort of proof that he existed lol, so I did my first ever E.V.P in my room and I got a recording of him laughing... I was so :D. I would spend all my time with him (whenever I wasn't out doing other things, sometimes I was just lazy haha...and my parents wouldn't let me date, so it was a lot easier for me to spend time with him) especially at night, I would always talk with him before I went to bed, it made me feel safe and comforted. However in time, even though I loved george & fell in love with him...I grew tired of him being a spirit and me..well, being in the physical...& I guess the realization just came to me that in order for me and george to be together some way in this life, (or even if that wasn't possible he would help me find a good guy that would take care of me the way he would) that I would have to kind of 'take a break' from george and live life and focus on myself. So that's what I did for  while. (i was 17-18 when i had that realization)

And years later (I was 21 at this time), I ended up meeting some friends online that I was able to talk with them about my situation with george (they were all understanding and spiritually gifted) and how I thought the best decision was for both of us to move on and find happiness even if it isn't with each other, but if it's meant to be it will happen because we would 'take a break' for a while. They sugguested that I send george into the light and they helped me learn how to do that, so that's what I did. I sent george, along with his friends and family into the light and I really cried afterwards. I figured the way we can all be happy and free and move on, is for me to send them into the light, and for me to move on with my life and really live for me (plus I did it because I figured after being stuck on this plane for many many years, they all more than deserve to go into the light and to be happy and be with more of there loved ones up above).

Im 23 now, I've been given a sign that they are all doing good on the other side and that they check up on me every once in a while :) I feel very blessed and honored that I have a 'spirit family' if you will, that loves me....and I still do think back to when I first met all of them, and I still do love george...if you love something, set it free, right? But my question is, why in the world did this kind of experience happen to me?? Why do these kinds of experiences happen to people? What could it mean? Did I do the right thing by sending them into the light? Please, im looking for real answers here and I appreciate any and all help, weather its advice, sharing of simular experiences or what not.

Before my friend told me about the simular experience the man is going through, I honestly thought that I was the only one who was going through something like that lol. Small world, eh? Well thank you for taking time to read this..I felt like it belongs in the paranormal section, because well my story and question is about spirits, but if anyone feels it belongs in another section and would do better in another area (like the psychic forums) please let me know.

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Post by eye_of_tiger » Sat Apr 05, 2014 10:02 pm


I feel that you never received a response to this only because it was so long, and many members who would otherwise have liked to have discussed this subject with you, were put off by it's length.

The posting was made in May 2013, but I think that it is too important just to be left unanswered like it is now.

If you are still interested in having this discussion could you please contact me through a private message?

Alternately if you are someone other than the author, but would like to contribute to this discussion, please feel free to do so.    



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Post by spiritalk » Mon Apr 14, 2014 12:05 am

There is a book called 'Hungry Ghost' that discusses cross spheres relationships.  

As individuals we are on the earth plane to learn lessons that help us understand and define our spirituality.  Getting caught up with spirit and ignoring the earth plane lessons is neither healthy nor right.  Sending spirit into the light allows them to find where they are and move on and progress.  All life is about progression.  You did the right thing there.

There is nothing progressive about a relationship, particularly a romantic one, that crosses the spheres.  There are too many things that hold it back from progress.  

And in the end it is usually a non-advanced spirit that interferes in the earth plane life and causes problems.
God bless, J

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Post by eye_of_tiger » Mon Apr 21, 2014 2:10 am

Hello J,

I have not encountered this yet on Mystic Board, but on one UK psychic website which I will not name here years ago I did come across a woman who not only believed that she was having a sexual relationship with a ghost/spirit/demon, but who actively encouraged it because she was painfully lonely and could not form and maintain relationships with men who were still alive.

When I politely and non judgmentally bought to her notice the potential dangers to her physical, mental, emotional, emotional and spiritual health of continuing to do this, I was quickly banned from accessing their forums by the owner. By the time that this ban was applied she had attracted several other lonely and sexually unfulfilled young women to follow her dangerous example.

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Post by Rohiniranjan » Mon Jul 21, 2014 10:30 pm

Dear EoT,

Dabbling in the psychic realm used to be forbidden in some societies and communities, and perhaps still is, although the 'reasonings' given for cautioning against such pursuits have become different!

Walking the periphery of physical perceptions (mundane realm) is rather enjoyable and uplifting and educational for many but it remains akin to walking on a razor's edge (metaphorically-speaking). It is not the razor's edge that is the cause of fear, but the individual walking on it! If the 'walker' is unbalance, there is the risk of falling into the crushing embrace of insanity! Asylums and similar (more humane) therapeutic establishments have repositories of such individuals.

The common link between the realm of the spiritual and that 'other' one is the channel of the mind known as the subconscious and unconscious zone! It is for a good reason that in the course of human evolution those zones have generally remained capped, during wakeful states and only allowed during sleep and dreams! Now a days, thanks to information rEVOLUTION, access is easier and hence 'dabbling' has replaced proper learning and the self-discipline and maturation that used to come with the heuristic package earlier!

As they wisely say, Caveat Dabbler (paraphrased)!

Love and Light,


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