finding soulmate

[fisk_82]

Dear sir,

Where i will find my soulmate, what kind of person he is, and where i will get married? What i know, i'm getting older and older. Thanks for your kind answer.

[Youdah]

When I run a horary chart of your questions, I'm getting a definite yes, that you will find him and you will get married.  I'm having some problems getting a time line down, though.  Might just be me not seeing it.  But, I am seeing some things that you are needing to think about, and if you can resolve them, it will hurry this along.  This chart is showing that you have some conflicts between your heart and head, your intellect and your emotions so that sometimes you self-sabotage yourself.  Try to spend some time really thinking about what you want, and then don't settle for anything less.  Your chart is showing that you've gotten kicked around some, and been around people who have demoralized you, and as a result you aren't feeling that you deserve the things that you really want.  This can be serious obstacle with romance because it can cause you to settle for something less than what you want/need in a relationship.  I'd really suggest that you spend some time learning about yourself and giving yourself credit for the good person that you are.  No one, and I repeat, no one deserves anything less than to be treated with respect and love.  Respect yourself first by not tolerating bad behavior from others. The chart is showing that you have a really great personality.  Kindness, loving, imaginative, hard working, loyal, enthusiastic when you're interesting in something, etc., you have much to offer and to be proud of yourself for how you've handled things in the past.  

I think that when you get a better opinion of yourself, then you won't have any trouble finding your mate.  It's not that you've done anything wrong, or that you are lacking.  It's just that after you've gotten kicked around, you started to believe it yourself.  Expect better from others around you.  And if you are not treated as you wish to be treated, don't waste your time with them...move on.  

Other than those couple of things, I'm definitely seeing a relationship.  There is also indication of at least one child, and possibly a second.  The guy will be a bit older than you, and stable emotionally (that's why you must get your own emotions and opinion of yourself better).  you will be his second wife.  I can't tell if his first was lost to divorce or a widower, though.  It looks to me like you two will be great friends as well as the romance.  Don't expect a wild, passionate romance.  This guy will value friendship first...although the passion and romance will be there, too.

Here's some of the aspects and data, so you can look at it yourself.

Name: june 18, 2008
Born: 6-18-2008 at 9:14 AM TimeZone: GMT-6 [Standard Time]
Longitude: 090W30  Latitude: 40N30
Birth Julian Day: 2454636.13  GMST: 9:03  LMST: 3:01

NATAL  ECLIPTIC LONGITUDE AND EQUATORIAL DECLINATION :  

          LONGITUDE:    DECLINATION:    HOUSE:   RETROGRADE:
Sun        27 GEM 45       23 N 25        11          NO
Moon       26 SAG 42       27 S 28         5          NO
Mercury    13 GEM 01       17 N 59        10          YES
Venus      00 CAN 20       23 N 51        11          NO
Mars       22 LEO 19       15 N 17        12          NO
Jupiter    19 CAP 59       22 S 09         5          YES
Saturn     03 VIR 30       11 N 49         1          NO
Uranus     22 PIS 38       03 S 38         8          NO
Neptune    24 AQU 08       13 S 47         6          YES
Pluto      29 SAG 50       16 S 59         5          YES
Ascendant  24 LEO 36         N/A           1          N/A
MidHeaven  17 TAU 42         N/A          10          N/A

PLANETARY ASPECTS :

Sun       Opposite  Moon         Orb = 1° 03'
Sun       Conjunct  Venus        Orb = 2° 35'
Sun       Sextile   Mars         Orb = 5° 25'
Sun       Sextile   Saturn       Orb = 5° 45'
Sun       Square    Uranus       Orb = 5° 06'
Sun       Trine     Neptune      Orb = 3° 36'
Sun       Opposite  Pluto        Orb = 2° 06'
Sun       Sextile   Ascendant    Orb = 3° 08'
Moon      Opposite  Venus        Orb = 3° 38'
Moon      Trine     Mars         Orb = 4° 22'
Moon      Trine     Saturn       Orb = 6° 48'
Moon      Square    Uranus       Orb = 4° 03'
Moon      Sextile   Neptune      Orb = 2° 33'
Moon      Conjunct  Pluto        Orb = 3° 08'
Moon      Trine     Ascendant    Orb = 2° 05'
Venus     Sextile   Saturn       Orb = 3° 10'
Venus     Trine     Neptune      Orb = 6° 11'
Venus     Opposite  Pluto        Orb = 0° 29'
Venus     Sextile   Ascendant    Orb = 5° 43'
Mars      Opposite  Neptune      Orb = 1° 49'
Mars      Conjunct  Ascendant    Orb = 2° 17'
Mars      Square    MidHeaven    Orb = 4° 38'
Jupiter   Sextile   Uranus       Orb = 2° 40'
Jupiter   Trine     MidHeaven    Orb = 2° 17'
Saturn    Trine     Pluto        Orb = 3° 40'
Uranus    Sextile   MidHeaven    Orb = 4° 57'
Neptune   Sextile   Pluto        Orb = 5° 42'
Neptune   Opposite  Ascendant    Orb = 0° 28'
Neptune   Square    MidHeaven    Orb = 6° 27'
Pluto     Trine     Ascendant    Orb = 5° 14'

NOTE: The Ascendant is the first House Cusp.
     The Midheaven is the tenth House Cusp.

HOUSE CUSPS FOR THE PLACIDUS SYSTEM :
   HOUSE:       HOUSE CUSP:
     1          24 LEO 36
     2          17 VIR 07
     3          14 LIB 43
     4          17 SCO 42
     5          22 SAG 58
     6          25 CAP 56
     7          24 AQU 36
     8          17 PIS 07
     9          14 ARI 43
    10          17 TAU 42
    11          22 GEM 58
    12          25 CAN 56

ELEMENTS :
FIRE      Moon   Mars   Pluto   Ascendant    
EARTH     Jupiter   Saturn   MidHeaven    
AIR       Sun   Mercury   Neptune    
WATER     Venus   Uranus    

MODALITIES :
CARDINAL    Venus  Jupiter  
FIXED       Mars  Neptune  Ascendant  MidHeaven  
MUTABLE     Sun  Moon  Mercury  Saturn  Uranus  Pluto  

PARALLEL ASPECTS :
Mercury   PARALLEL Pluto      1° 00'

[fisk_82]

hello youdah,

thanks for your kind reply.... it's been a while since my last post in this forum
lately i don't have enough time to rest or do some chit chat :D... but really thanks for your kind answer

Warm regards,

fisk_82