Dearest Adrianna,
You doubly or triply (?) honour me in turn by your request.
It is bad luck about that Tarot reading, as long before I was able to get around to shuffling the deck a stream of thoughts began flowing through me on your behalf, in response to this question. Now I must warn you that whoever is sending me these thoughts has a wicked sense of humour and has a very down to Earth tell it exactly like it is (can be crude at times) approach to sending you these messages.
We often get the mistaken idea that our Higher Self (HS) or our spirit guide if you are a medium are holier than thou do gooders and all knowers, and are intensely serious and never enjoy a good laugh when it is appropriate to do so. This is definitely not the situation with your HS or spirit guide or perhaps departed family member on this occasion.
The question which immediately bounced back at me after asking yours was.....
Why shouldn't you have high hopes for the future and direction of this relationship, when all the signs should be telling you loudly and clearly that this could potentially be a relationship made in Heaven.
My inner guidance was most impressed right from the start by your belief that "he is the 'one' of the few 'ones' that is meant for me". Unlike many women asking for readings on this forum and from this reader you do not appear to share the belief that only one man in the whole world is meant for or would be good for you (your one soul mate), and that if you never met him or met him and then for some reason lost him, that the rest of your existing lifetime is wasted until you are born again.
Oh and the crude part I wanted you to be prepared for and not offended by is that this person feels that your guy is doing quite a good enough job of chasing your tail, without you having to do it yourself (thank God that we are all adults here, and therefore not easily shocked or embarrassed by such comments).
:smt005
And if it is emotional and spiritual growth that you are wanting more than ever before, then this man is the best person at the moment to share your journey of self understanding and self discovery with you.
If I did draw some Tarot cards for you and they supported my strong impressions that this man and your relationship with him had enormous potential to bring you true love and lasting happiness (although there will always continue to be challenges and conflicts of opinions between you when making decisions) would that be enough to convince you that you are being shown the green light of go straight ahead with him? Especially as he has already come out and told you that he also feels that you were meant to be together as a couple in love.
Or would it take MangoMom opening the Akashic Records and finding the same message to make you feel secure in yourself in knowing that the plan which the Universe has for your life necessarily includes either this man, or alternately another man who is very much like him in personality and interests?
Ask yourself what it would take short of God talking to you directly in the disembodied form of a booming voice coming out of the apparently empty sky to help you to finally recognise once and for all that the road to true love and lasting happiness is open and waiting for you to take the first few baby steps or leaps of faith with this relationship.
Often when something seems to be too good to be true it isn't, but your reading and the person sending you these thoughts clearly agree that this does not apply here.
I cannot accurately and reliably predict what the next six months covered by this reading holds for your relationship, as to a large degree your relationship continues to be a work constantly in progress, and what happens over the coming months will be greatly determined by what series of conscious decisions you and him make in the present moment. In effect, you are currently still in the process of creating what the future of your relationship should be like.
The future of your relationship with X is plastic or flexible. It can be modified or improved by what you do now in the present moment - your only true point of personal power to influence that future. It is not yet by any means predetermined, or set in stone. The only thing that can be said with any feeling of certainty is that the next six months of your relationship with him will undoubtedly include both its challenges (which you are more than capable of meeting) and opportunities (which you cannot afford to miss or ignore).
If you are able to condition yourself to view any obstacles placed in your path for your optimum growth and development as both a spiritual and human being as challenges and not always as problems meant to make you stumble or fail (easier said than done), then even more doors of positive opportunity will surely open up to the both of you than would have if you did not conditioned yourself, approximately before the middle of October 2012 (~ 6 months from now).
Blessings to you both,
EoT :smt008
The universe brought us together in the unlikeliest of circumstances. I wish to seek your assistance in seeing what the records have to say about the future of this relationship. 
) He's not perfect and our relationship isn't either - so far from it, but we seem to fit, like jaggered ends of a puzzle. Distance is a factor now - he in Australia and I in Malaysia but I feel that every relationship, even one's destined to be, has its set challenges that we must overcome and make decisions from. And yes - you are spot on. There is a form of emotional and spiritual growth that seems to be developing having spent time with him.
:smt005 