This was precisely the point the reading was attempting to make, but it looks as though it was preaching to the converted.What you are saying is what I was concerned with about contacting them to ask them about the job. Didn't want to seem like I was pushing them too much and then get on their last nerve.
You are clearly ahead of it in already recognizing the need not to make them feel that they are being forced to take you on, just to stop you pestering them with constant emails and phone calls.
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