Is it allowed if I can have a reading about a person I care for.
GF,
The reading will not be directly about the person whom you care for (that would be third party, which is not allowed), but it will instead be about the probability/chance of you having a relationship with them within the next six months, as more than just a friend. This is definitely allowed.
I want to know how strong the chances are of having a relationship with this person more than just a friend and what clues can I have to improve that chances for the better of the both of us.
The chance of you having a relationship with this person within the next six months where you are each other's friend is good, but the chance of you having a relationship with this person within the next six months where you are more than each other's friend is not felt to be so good.
The main but not only reason for the difference between the two chances goes back to a Tarot reading which was given to you by MsNeptune on July 16th of this year.
http://mysticboard.org/vi ... 056#333056
The following paragraph is quoted directly from that reading, and I have underlined the most important part.
You are blessed to have an abundance of love in your life at the present time, although it may not be the romantic love you're looking for. It's important for you to focus on honoring relationships with family and friends now because that will help you cultivate the relationship skills needed to maintain long term happiness with your future partner. One of the main obstacles you've faced in your quest to find love is that people don't know you're single and looking. Putting yourself out there can be a bit uncomfortable but in not doing so your chances of finding a worthy partner decrease significantly.
So what both MsNeptune's and this reading which you are now getting from me are saying is that you have a repeated tendency to get ahead of yourself in your close relationships (put the cart before the horse), by wanting an intimate, romantic relationship, without first really getting to know the other person and making them your friend by being a true friend to them.
Instead of wanting to take enough time to develop your relationship skills at the friend level only, you appear to impatiently want to bypass the friend stage, and go straight for them as your lover. This is like you want to go to University before you have even finished primary school, although the lessons/relationship skills which you will learn as their friend will later prove invaluable to you if or when you both eventually do decide to become a couple/item.
This reading is saying that the next six months at least should be spent beginning and developing your friendship with this person. Does this person know that you care? Have you told them that you care and have you been out with each other on dates? Are you willing to first do the work of becoming their friend, then seeing if you have a future together as a couple before you go straight for the romance?
If not, why not?
If it is crystal clear to the other person that you want romance and commitment from day one and are not willing compromise and to first be their friend in both your words and actions, why should you be surprised that so many of you potential partners are scared off the whole idea? Or are you forcing the issue in an unconscious effort to avoid intimacy, and therefore also your vulnerability to having your feelings hurt again when that person inevitably disappoints you?
Because human beings are far from perfect, every friend or partner will disappoint you at some stage. If you are looking for a human relationship with a person who will never either intentionally or unintentionally disappoint you or hurt your feelings, try another species and planet. All this sounds very much like the same "window shopping but never stopping long enough to really get to know the person and just be their true friend" approach to close relationships which was mentioned in one of my earlier readings.
This is because you are window shopping for your relationships, having a brief look at the many different opportunities to form a new relationship, but never committing yourself deeply to any one of them and never staying long enough in each of them to take the risk of being rejected.
http://mysticboard.org/vi ... 657#331657
Is it also possible to know how this person relates/connected to me?
Absolutely! But the best way to find his out is for yourself, through first hand experience. Once again you are trying to do everything back to front, or in reverse order. You want to understand the nature and source of your connection, before you are willing to have the experience of the connection. The experience should come first, and from that experience you have a much better chance of discovering the nature and source.
Most people initially connect with each other because they have some interests and values in common. You do not always have to have all the same interests and values as each other, just as you do not both have to always have the same friends as each other. But shared interests or hobbies and a shared appreciation of your family being important to you is a good foundation to later build your relationship upon and around.
This is how most people progressively make friends with one another, or become just friends. How do you find out other than by going out on regular dates with this person what interests and values you both have in common? And if there are enough of them in common for you both to first build a lasting friendship upon? And if they have any undesirable habits of behaviour which you simply cannot live with or accept, no matter what interests and values you share?
First comes the learning experience of of developing friendship skills, from which there is the potential for something deeper to develop of the romantic variety. First comes the first hand practical experience, out of which may eventually also flow an increased understanding of the nature, depth and source of your connection.
First learn be your own best friend (self love),
EoT
Hiya EOT, 
