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I have two questions

Post by TheHangedman12 » Mon Jul 25, 2016 2:04 am

First is that I believe that I´ve had a traumatic expirience during childhood, I can´t really remember it. But I know that I´ve had memory gaps when I was in pre-school. I´d like to know if this traumatic expirience came from something I did to another person or something was done to me...

Second, is that I have an illness and I have recently come across an experimental treatment for this illness... It isn´t something that is practice, but I´ve been trying it out and it seams to be working... I´d like to know if I should look for some guidence to procced or should I go on on my own...

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Post by TheHangedman12 » Mon Jul 25, 2016 2:52 pm

forgot some things
Name: Gabriel
Date of birth: 21-09-85

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Post by eye_of_tiger » Tue Jul 26, 2016 1:36 am

Gabriel,

I have already given you a general reading on July 10th.

http://mysticboard.org/vi ... 117#342117

I have copied and pasted both your question and my answer for that reading to this thread, for your convenience. Could you please reread it, before we go any further with this new request? I have also underlined the parts of it to which I will be referring in this much more specific reading/advice.
QUESTION

"Am I headed in the right direction?" becomes "Am I heading in the best possible direction for me for the next six months?" As six months is the period of time thought to be covered by these readings.

ANSWER

YES YOU ARE, but because it is the best possible direction for you to take over the next half year expect that there will be challenges as well as opportunities. Actually when you think more deeply about it, challenges ARE opportunities. Opportunities for maximum personal and spiritual growth and development. Fortunately you have been provided with all the inner and outer resources (including people) which you will ever need to slowly but surely rise to and eventually, successfully overcome these challenges/opportunities).

Think of all these different resources like the individual tools in your own customized spiritual toolkit. If you never open your toolkit or you never experiment to find the best tool for a particular job or if you never learn to use each tool at maximum efficiency then what good are they to you? So open your toolkit, learn as much about the many different resources which are on offer to you, and learn to use each of them most effectively for any particular situation.

Allow your mind (logic) and your heart (intuition) to guide you in your exploration of and experimentation with these internal and external resources.  Learn positive lessons from your mistakes (if you will not give yourself permission to make mistakes, then you cannot learn anything which is important to you), then do not look back.
So now that you have read my quote, let us look at your two questions for this reading, one at a time (although they will be looked at in the reverse order).

I must at this point remind you of the rule that because I am not a qualified medical practitioner that it would be against the law for me as a reader to promote or comment about any form of medical treatment, whether it is conventional or experimental. Especially because I do not know the exact nature and seriousness of your illness, it would be irresponsible and criminally negligent of me to do what you are asking.

So what follows must only be seen by you as advice that any friend would offer to another of his friends, who feels in need of his help and guidance.
I have an illness and I have recently come across an experimental treatment for this illness... It isn´t something that is practice, but I´ve been trying it out and it seams to be working... I´d like to know if I should look for some guidence to procced or should I go on on my own.
Particularly as it is an experimental medical treatment, as your friend I would never recommend that you should go it on your own. It is one thing to say in general that you are already going in the best direction for you and that you need to learn from your mistakes learn through your mistakes, but if you are already suffering from a serious medically diagnosed physical, mental or emotional illness then any mistakes which you might make by continuing to treat yourself without proper supervision by a qualified professional this course of action could potentially have serious or even fatal consequences. But at the same time I would not want you to deny yourself of the chance that this experimental method will work when all the more conventional treatments have so far failed. The experimental treatment may turn out to be a useful resource or tool in your healing.

So if you have have already had your illness properly diagnosed by a qualified doctor (which I am not allowed to do) and all the conventional treatments which your doctor has recommended have so far failed, then he or she either needs to question the original diagnosis, recommend an alternate treatment based upon the new diagnosis or if everything else has failed recommend to you something less conventional and more experimental.

If you experimentally treat or medicate yourself without all of this having been done beforehand, you may begin to feel a little better for a while (possibly due to the placebo effect) but while this is happening the real reason for your symptoms is neither being recognised or properly treated., I am all for positive thinking and the healing power of prayer, but these should only be used in combination with a full treatment plan, AND NEVER AS A REPLACEMENT.

If as I believe that you are suggesting that a traumatic incident during your early childhood has possibly given rise to an illness which you are experiencing now that you are 30 years of age, I would suggest that you be properly and medically assessed for Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, as well as in extreme cases Multiple Personality Disorder (although the memory lapses would normally continue well into your adult years if this was the case).

I am not diagnosing either of these two or any other physical, mental or emotional condition. Only a qualified GP or specialist can do that, then recommend in private consultation with yourself as the patient with regards to what is the treatment which is most likely to safely relieve you of your distress. Not just treating the symptoms, but getting to the usually multiple causes behind you having the disorder in the first place.

Unsupervised you will only at best be treating the symptoms. If the symptoms get better it does not mean that the illness has gone away. Also if the symptoms get worse, this does not always mean that the illness is getting worse. In many healings the symptoms can temporarily get worse before eventually getting better. Worse symptoms may or may not mean that the illness itself is getting worse.

Now on to your first question.
I believe that I´ve had a traumatic expirience during childhood, I can´t really remember it. But I know that I´ve had memory gaps when I was in pre-school. I´d like to know if this traumatic expirience came from something I did to another person or something was done to me...
Whether you really had this traumatic experience or whether you believe strongly and often enough that you have had a traumatic experience (when it may have never happened), your subconscious mind cannot tell the difference between what is real and what is not. It is not the traumatic experience itself which decides how you will feel or behave from then on, or what illnesses or disorders you may take into adulthood. Instead it is the meanings which your mind gives to what happened (or what you believe happened) to you when you were at a preschool age that will determine what happens after that.

The traumatic experience (if it did happen as you only partially remember) did NOT come from something you did to another person, or something which was done to you as a baby. I also strongly doubt that it happened to you (if it happened at all) directly because you did something to another person or someone else did something to you in a past life existence and that both this traumatic experience and any illness which resulted from it are some form of punishment.

But yes indirectly the traumatic experience, or more exactly the meaning your mind gives to the experience may have resulted from something done by or to you in a past life as a lesson which you need to learn in this lifetime if you are going to grow and develop spiritually. Don't ask me why many of the lessons which we have to learn must be so painful and traumatic as this one obviously was. Bad things continue to happen to good people.  

Maybe after not having learned our lessons an easier way, the Universe must resort to extremes with the healing intention to get us to wake up to ourselves, but if this is the Universe loving us it is a tough form of love, and a rough lesson. This is not about the Universe, God or life getting their revenge upon us for doing something wrong or allowing something wrong to be done to us, but it it is mainly about helping us to better understand ourselves and not to continue to make the same mistakes indefinitely.
Learn positive lessons from your mistakes (if you will not give yourself permission to make mistakes, then you cannot learn anything which is important to you), then do not look back.
Life in general which may or may not include one or more traumatic experiences is continually helping us to learn positive lessons from the mistakes which we have made, either earlier in this lifetime or during one or more past life experiences.

I sincerely apologise that this advice which is NOT a reading is so long and complicated, and would be happy to explain any of the points which I have already made in a simpler form, if this is indeed thought to be possible. I cannot answer any new questions which were not in your original request. Please only quote those parts of the advice which you feel need to be further explained, as there will be limits to the number of responses which I can give you here.

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Post by TheHangedman12 » Sun Jul 31, 2016 10:50 am

Thank you, but I have said before, I´ve looked for advice from modern medicine and it hasn´t worked...

Anyways I don´t think it would or can...

Their many types of medicine and I believe thier all valid in thier own way...

As for something traumatic happening in past life, I believe you´re partly right, something happened to me this life too, I´m just no to sure what...

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Post by eye_of_tiger » Sun Jul 31, 2016 11:15 pm

Now that we know that you have first tried conventional medicine, this removes the legal requirement for us to ensure that our advice is not being used as a substitute for you getting an accurate diagnosis and proper medical/psychiatric/psychological treatment from a qualified professional.

What your Jungian psychologist is trying with you is experimental only in the sense that he or she is trying something which may not have been widely used before, but has been customized to your own special needs.

A qualified professional needs to balance the risk of trying this new approach with you against leaving your treatment unchanged, and he or she has evidently decided that this treatment's advantages outweigh its potential disadvantages.  

As I said previously in Australia Jungian psychology itself as a whole is regarded as part of modern medicine, and is not therefore seen as anything experimental or non conventional.

I am not invalidating alternative medicine and natural healing methods, as long as once again it is not used as a complete substitute for first trying more conventional methods. When used as a complement to conventional/modern medicine such therapies can make a significant positive difference to the quality of a person's life.

I am still of the opinion that only hypnotic regression therapy used by a psychologist who specializes in this area is likely to identify the nature and extent of any past traumatic experiences, during this lifetime and if necessary in one or more past lifetimes.

However I would be happy to be proven wrong about this, and wish both you and your psychologist all the very best in successfully identifying the trauma itself as well as treating its long term consequences for your mental and emotional health.

Under the proper care and supervision of your psychologist, I have no hesitation in advising you to continue to use this "experimental" method.

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