Hey everybody! My name is Paul
I'm newly introduced to this science, and so far, I'm in love with it. I did some slight background research, and numerologically, I found out that I have some very powerful aspects to my name, personality, etc.
I'd appreciate a complete reading, if that's possible. Also, I've recently met this amazing person last month. His name is Anthony Hankins, born on July 26, 1985 at 12:01AM. If you can also analyze my potential for a relationship with him, I'd greatly appreciate it.
THANK YOU!
~Paul~
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Paul, your Life Path is 18/9
Paul, you are the philanthropist, humanitarian, socially conscious, and are
deeply concerned about the state of the world. You have great compassion and
idealism. You are a utopian, and will spend your life trying to realize some aspect
of your utopian dream, sacrificing money, time, and energy for a better world. It is
in giving that you will find much satisfaction.
You have a broad outlook on life. You tend to see the big picture, rather than the
minute details. You naturally attract people from all walks of life who can fit into
your larger plans and take over the areas you find uninteresting. The person with
a 9 Life Path is rarely prejudiced or accepts social biases of people. Instead, they
evaluate people on the basis of what they can do for the larger cause. They are
the true egalitarian.
Paul, you are imaginative and creative, especially at harmoniously arranging
the beauty already potential in the environment. These abilities can lead you into
such fields as interior decorating, landscape art, and photography. But because
of your strong social consciousness, you can be an effective politician, lawyer,
judge, minister, teacher, healer, and environmentalist. Vocations that require self-
sacrifice and have a clear social impact are common among 9s.
You are often disappointed by the realities of life: the shortcomings of others, or
of yourself. Somehow, you don't want to accept the imperfections of the world, a
feeling that drives you constantly to try to improve upon it. But rather than be
satisfied with your efforts, and those of others, you relentlessly push on, striving
for greater accomplishments. You are often unsatisfied with the results. In short,
you lack the perspective that would otherwise make it possible for you to enjoy life
more fully, and accept its natural limitations.
You have a controlled enthusiasm and the ability to finish what you start.
A key to your personality is the necessity of sacrifice. You have to learn to let
go of material possessions and relationships, the inherent lesson being that
holding on too tightly to anything causes pain.
Money comes to you through mysterious or unexpected ways: inheritance; the
benevolence of someone who was inspired by your work; or a lucky investment.
Conversely, if you pursue money for its own sake, after giving up on your larger
dreams, you're likely to find yourself empty handed.
The most successful and satisfying road for a nine is giving; sharing and
sacrificing for a larger goal, without expecting anything in return. Paul, your
greatest chance at success is to tie your personal fortunes to an endeavor that
makes the world a better place for others. Very often, this turns into a highly
successful and lucrative enterprise, providing amply for you and your family. Your
life rests on the axiom that the more you give, the bigger your reward.
You are romantic, but your love is more impersonal. You tend to be focused on
your dreams.
When you are not in harmony with your true nature, you can fall to moodiness,
or become aloof, and withdrawn. You can become timid, uncertain, and
ungrateful, putting the blame for your troubles on others or the world. You have a
gift for examining your life objectively, and at some distance. Be honest with
yourself. By openly facing your shortcomings, as well as your strengths, you
develop equilibrium. You are thus able to love and better understand yourself and
all of life.
Anthony, your Life Path is 20/2
The key word in your nature is peacemaker. Anthony, you have the soul of an
artist. You are extremely sensitive, perceptive, and a bit shy. These qualities are
both your strengths and weaknesses, for while you possess enormous sensitivity
to your feelings and those of others, that same sensitivity can cause you to hold
back and repress your considerable talents. Sensitivity and perceptiveness are
among your many fine qualities
Because you intuitively know what people want, or feel, you can be extremely
diplomatic and tactful. You are also patient and cooperative. You work well with
groups and somehow find a way of creating harmony among diverse opinions.
You enjoy music and poetry and require a harmonious environment.
You have an eye for beauty and a fine sense of balance and rhythm. You have
healing capabilities, especially in such fields as massage, acupuncture, physical
therapy, and counseling.
However, your sensitivity can also be your downfall. Anthony, your extremely
delicate ego bruises easily and can make too much of someone else's
thoughtless remarks or criticisms. Because you get hurt easily, you may tend to
withhold your own thoughts and contributions to the matter at hand. This can
cause you considerable resentment and anger.
Too often, you run from confrontation to avoid a battle.
When you employ your considerable inner strength, you will discover your
enormous power and abilities to direct difficult situations toward your own goals. It
is the awareness of your inner strength that will give you the courage to use your
own personal power when it is needed. You are a sensitive and passionate lover;
your perceptiveness makes you aware of your partner's needs and desires,
which you are able to fulfill with almost magical delicacy.
However, when you feel you have been mistreated or jilted, you can react with
devastating power, sometimes using personal criticisms vindictively. Your
awareness, diplomatic skills, and organizational talents give you the ability to
bring off difficult tasks. You willingly step out of the limelight to facilitate the
success of your endeavor. In truth, you are often the power behind the throne.
However, you do not always receive the credit you deserve for the fine work
you've done, or your role is underestimated and your accomplishments
overlooked. Rather than brood over your losses, you need to confront those who
would make less of your contributions and stand up for your accomplishments.
You need security and comfort, quiet settings, and the company of loved ones.
You are a perfectionist when it comes to your home and work environment.
Anthony, you have excellent taste which is obvious in your private surroundings.
You are a fine companion and possess a good sense of humor. Friends seek you
out for your calming and peaceful company. You are a safe haven to other
sensitive people, who recognize your compassion and understanding. When you
have found your niche in life, you have all the talents and intelligence for great
success. Seek out work that allows your sensitive nature to flourish -- be the glue
that binds others together.
Your Life Path's compatibility is 9 and 2
Paul and Anthony, your Life Path numbers are the most important numbers in
your charts, and, as such, their compatibility is very important to the well-being of
your relationship.
Whereas Anthony is open and easy going in matters of the heart, Paul is more
careful and perhaps distant. In fact, Paul knows that it is in part this care, this
need to maintain a safe distance, which has caused passed relationships to
crash. It is not easy for Paul to be deeply involved in a relationship and trust that it
is safe to act un-inhibited, unselfconsciously. On the other hand, it is natural for
Anthony to respond to the moment without first having to weigh possible
consequences. Anthony can be immediate, responsive and fearless like a child
and, just like a child, feel totally safe.
Always seeking the shelter of the inner world, Paul needs to learn to let go, to
surrender to the heart, if this relationship is to endure and grow.
You can give love and friendship left and right, Paul, there is no shortage of love in
you. On the contrary. The number nine is self-sacrificing and generous to a fault.
Maybe that is the way you release all the love in you. A problem exists only when
this love comes too close to the inner Paul. As long as there is some distance,
you feel safe. The moment someone attempts to step into your inner world, you
have a tendency to close the doors.
Anthony, you are very different. You will certainly invite Paul to share even the
deepest moments, without inhibition. But when Paul backs away from that,
Anthony, you may well respond with confusion, jealousy and resentment.
As you may have realized by now, the two and the nine don’t get along too well.
Although both are caring, loving numbers, the idealistic nine gives to the world
and to strangers, while a much more emotionally involved two focuses on one
person as the object of its love.
Interestingly, the two and the nine can form powerful alliances in other
circumstances, particularly in business. Between the two of them, they can
negotiate and influence just about anyone or anything. It is in matters of the heart
that their needs and desires are not very compatible.
All this can be countered, albeit with some effort. Paul, you would help yourself
and Anthony if you could “loosen up” a bit. Relax the constant vigilance and allow
yourself to be more responsive to the moment.
Anthony, you should try to understand that Paul’s need for some distance doesn’t
mean the love is not real, or not as strong as yours. If you are able to keep that in
mind, you’ll be able to build a peaceful, enjoyable relationship. A relationship, by
the way, that can also be very prosperous if you are smart enough to take
advantage of the powerful alliances the two and the nine allow for, especially in
the business world.
EXPRESSION
Your Expression number reveals your physical and mental constitution, the
orientation or goal of your life. Some numerologists refer to this number as the
Destiny, because it represents a lifelong target at which you are aiming. You
work at fulfilling this potential every day of your life. Thus, the Expression number
reveals your inner goal, the person you aim to be.
The Expression number reveals the talents, abilities, and shortcomings that
were with you when you entered your human body. Your name, and the numbers
derived from it, reveals your development, as well as the talents and issues you
will be working with during this life.
For those for whom reincarnation is an accepted philosophy, the vibration of
your full name can be seen as the totality of your personal evolution, the
experiences, talents, and wisdom accumulated over many life times. Every
experience, no matter how great or small, along this evolutionary path has
influenced your development, and brought you to your current state of being.
The Expression is your being; the Life Path is the major lesson you are
attempting to learn this time around. Time allows the gradual emergence of your
personality. By reading the Expression number below, you will come to
understand your basic nature and the abilities and issues inherent in your being.
Paul, your Expression is 12/3
Paul, you are optimistic, inspiring, outgoing, and expressive. People see you
as cheerful, positive and charming; your personality has a certain bounce and
verve that so powerfully affects others that you can inspire people without effort.
All of this upward energy is a symptom of your tremendous creativity. Your
verbal skills may well lead you into the fields of writing, comedy, theater, and
music.
Yours is the number of self-expression -- rich in imagination and spirit. But you
have to be careful not to scatter your talents. Your bane is that you often lack
discipline and order in your life. Avoid becoming a "happy- go-lucky" spendthrift,
escaping responsibility and commitment. You must learn to concentrate and
focus.
These are the keys to your success. You have great potential in the arts and
areas that requires creative solutions to problems. You are able to perform leaps
of imagination, providing unconventional ideas as if they suddenly descended
from above. Hard work and focus, however, are the foundation for a successful
future.
Though you possess great verbal skills, your mind tends to see life as pictures
rather than in words. Yet, you have the ability to think abstractly.
Creativity is a sensitive faculty that is often suppressed in childhood. If you lack
the confidence to pursue your ideas, you may divert your abilities into a scattering
of trivial pursuits.
To overcome this problem, you must make a choice. Paul, you have to limit
your field of vision and the number of activities you engage in, and bundle your
energies into a single thrust. Focus your life; choose the area that you love the
most, and commit. There, you will find success. And a great deal of happiness.
Love, romance, and money are within your reach. You are aided by your
friends and admirers. Often people appear out of nowhere to help you in key
situations. Paul, you have to learn to accept the involvement of others in your life.
You are not a loner, nor are you particularly independent. You are social -- you
need an audience and the support of others to fully realize your abilities.
On the down-side, you can be superficial, moody, and intolerant. You are
emotional and sensitive, sometimes presuming criticism where none was
intended. You can also be jealous and gossipy. Beware of becoming cynical and
sarcastic. These traits can suppress your natural creativity.
Be goal-oriented. This is a practical, step-by-step approach to your larger
ambitions. You possess the natural abilities to attain a high degree of excellence.
Anthony, your Expression is 11/2
Anthony, yours is the most highly charged Expression number of all. You are
like a lightning rod, attracting powerful ideas, intuitions, and even psychic
information like unpredictable bolts.
You are a powerful presence without any awareness on your part of having
personal power. You are a channel for higher vibrations. But in order to be
emotionally and psychologically at peace, you must learn to control that flow of
energy. You possess a bridge between the unconscious and the conscious. The
trouble is that the unconscious is an infinite resource, while consciousness by
definition is a limited arena. The two are therefore at odds until they can learn to
live in harmony with each other. This is where control comes in. Until you are
able to control the flow of energy from this infinite source, you may feel like a
victim of its whimsy, thrown about by emotional turmoil and nervous tensions.
Anthony, you have always sensed that you are different, but it was an
indefinable feeling. You are enormously sensitive and aware, especially as a
child. This made you vulnerable to all conflicts and painful situations. For most of
your upbringing, however, you did not realize that other people did not possess
the same sensitivity, nor did they see the same things you were seeing. This
caused a great reservoir of emotion that was dammed up behind an inability to
express your feelings, even to yourself. For this reason, most 11 Expressions
have a difficult childhood. Your extreme sensitivity made you very shy as a child.
This usually manifests in adulthood as hesitation and acute vulnerability. You are
very careful about sharing your feelings with others and choosing your friends.
You compensated for your sense of separation in childhood by creating an
elaborate fantasy world. You daydreamed more than other children. You have a
lively imagination and even in adulthood have a hard time separating reality from
fantasy.
Anthony, your challenge is to bring forth your primitive, earthy strength. You
need to be grounded in order to deal with your lightning bolts. The more you are
able to call upon your inherent human strength, the greater your capacity to take
advantage of your extremely sensitive awareness. Once this is accomplished,
your antagonist becomes your benefactor.
You are highly emotional and dependent upon relationships. Emotionally, you
go up and down with the fortunes of your love life.
You are idealistic, impractical, and at times disorderly. You are often
unrealistic in your expectations.
Your reasons for doing things are usually born of a mixture of logic, emotion,
and intuition, which can rarely be explained satisfactorily to your more rational
associates.
The 11 Expression is the number most dependent upon other core numbers in
your chart for insight into your vocation. The 11 charges every area it enters, but
it needs a grounding vocation and discipline to be effective.
A balanced 11 is one of the most unique and impressive of all people. It is
gifted with insight and illumination, which it can transmit to others. This makes
you a natural teacher in whatever area you enter.
Your Expression's compatibility is 3 and 2
More than any other number in your chart, your Expression number reflects who
you are as a person. Earlier, you read about the Life Path number and how
important that number is in your chart. However, the Life Path number reflects
“the path you walk on,” and should be seen more as a powerful influence than as
a part of your personality makeup. Your Expression number on the other hand,
reflects a deeper part of you. It is more difficult to overcome possible negative
traits you may have recognized in yourself when they are found in this part of the
chart, than when they are found under the Life Path description.
It can’t be emphasized too much how important it is to realize that numbers in
different areas of the chart affect you differently, even when it is the same
number. Sometimes, you may read something that seems to directly contradict
earlier statements. Yet, if you take the time to think about them carefully, you will
probably recognize that you, as a human being, are extremely complex and full of
the same contradictions. This is simply the way we are. You may be organized
in one area of your life, while chaos rules in another area. You may be tactful and
sensitive in one setting, and direct and confrontational in another situation.
Anthony, as a number two, you are not very well equipped to deal with criticism
and confrontations - - you are vulnerable and can hold a grudge. On the other
hand, Paul, as a number three, has an in-born ability to let negative criticisms
bounce off without letting them do much damage. That does not mean that Paul
can't be hurt, but simply that Paul does not allow little things to spoil the
experience. And that is exactly where a possible danger exists. A bit tactless at
times, Paul can occasionally put the foot in the mouth, without realizing that this
has a negative effect on Anthony. However, when “little things” grow into big
emotional issues in which even Paul is strongly affected, Paul will respond
passionately. Paul may even lose sight of the beauty and love that is the
foundation of your relationship, letting anger and sharp verbal skills do
considerable damage. Anthony will respond, perhaps with a few angry words,
but, more likely, by withdrawing. Thus, a hard kernel of resentment wrapped up in
confusion and sometimes hidden from view for a long time - since Anthony
doesn't think too clearly when emotions are in play and tends to walk away from
confrontations - may eventually become a source of such discontent that it will
take everything Paul has to offer to bring Anthony back.
On a more positive note, the combination of 2 and 3 is a very passionate and
strong one. So, as long as Paul keeps verbal impulses under control, and
Anthony has enough self-confidence to handle occasional criticisms, the
relationship has every chance of bringing lots of love and joy to your life.
Often, the combination two and three in this aspect of the chart also enhances
each other's creative juices. The sense of harmony and rhythm connected to the
two merges beautifully with the powers of expression so native to the three. Your
relationship is strengthened enormously by sharing creative interests, and that is
where you should concentrate your efforts.
Keep in mind that beauty and love lie at the bottom of your relationship, and that it
is in your own hands to gradually destroy or make them stronger day after day.
Discuss any issues - open and frank, but also with tact and sensitivity - as they
come up.
HEART'S DESIRE
Your Heart's Desire is the inner you. It shows your underlying urge, your true
motivation. It reveals the general intention behind many of your actions.
Consequently, it dramatically influences the choices you make in life. The Heart's
desire is seen as part of the larger picture, called the core numbers, which
includes the Life Path, Expression, Day you were born, and Personality. But
each points to a different aspect of you.
The Expression number reveals your talents and abilities, and your general
direction in life. The Life Path is the central lesson you came into the world to
learn. The Day you were born is very closely connected to your Life Path. It
reveals specific talents you possess, which will be helpful to you in dealing with
your Life Path. The Personality reveals how people tend to see you. It also
demonstrates what characteristics you are projecting to the world. The Heart's
Desire demonstrates the identity of the soul that joined the earth -- you, the
spiritual being.
Paul, your Heart's Desire is 7
Paul, you love knowledge, study, and insight. You value the gifts of your mind,
which you use to great advantage to penetrate the mysteries of life. You study
things in-depth. You search beneath the surface of things. You abhor shallow
judgments or opinions.
You have a natural gift for analysis and research. Once you have grasped the
facts of a subject, your creativity and abstract approach lifts your thinking beyond
the rudimentary to the philosophical. You have a theoretical mind, but rather than
indulge in fantasies or idle thought, you prefer to base your theories upon
scientific facts.
Paul, you enjoy mental and physical puzzles -- figuring them out, taking them
apart, and putting them back together.
Some people may perceive you as cool or aloof. You are somewhat
introverted; you may feel slightly removed and even a little different. The fantasy
of the hermit or monk engaged in a life of study and meditation appeals to you.
In relationships, you tend to keep things business-like and impersonal. You
prefer to talk about the facts of a given situation, rather than the cloudier issues of
emotions and personal feelings. You distrust feelings -- both your own and those
of others. The whole emotional realm strikes you as unreliable, and a bit
unnecessary.
Paul, your inability to fully understand the emotional aspect of life is your
Achilles heel. You are so rational that the unpredictability of the heart frightens
and surprises you.
Your challenge is to trust. You need to share your heart with someone. This is
a courageous step for you, but will result in enormous growth and satisfaction.
The advice here is to make a true connection with another human being.
Without it, you may marry out of convenience or to fulfill social expectations, but it
will not lead you out of loneliness. The more removed you are from people, the
more you risk isolation, bitterness, and a cynical attitude toward life.
This choice represents a true crossroads in your development. By sharing
yourself with others (without compromising your independence and need for
privacy) you can cultivate your enormous charm and share your understanding of
life. You are a natural teacher and advisor. And the wealth of knowledge you will
accumulate in life is meant to be shared with others.
This is not to say that you must compromise on your need for privacy or time
spent alone to contemplate life. These are natural aspects of your personality,
which are essential to your growth. These characteristics should not be
threatening to your spouse, but must be understood as fundamental to your
being.
Paul, you are blessed with a great reserve of intuition, which can be cultivated
by regular meditation and contemplation. Your "inner voice" is your greatest guide
and friend.
You are idealistic and have high expectations for yourself. Learn to balance
your serious nature with regular doses of fun.
Your intelligence and cultivation make you charming and distinguished in
appearance. As you get older and more comfortable with your identity, people are
naturally attracted to you. They see your wisdom, your deep understanding of life,
and the refinement you radiate.
Anthony, your Heart's Desire is 6
Anthony, your attention is directed to helping and caring for those you love. You
are exceedingly domestic. You love your home and family and work hard to make
both comfortable and secure. Your love for family and friends is a major source
of your happiness and sometimes unhappiness.
Your desire to help others is so strong that you often find yourself sacrificing
your own personal needs for someone else's. You can overdo it, becoming too
deeply involved in other people's lives. You risk interfering in personal matters
and or smothering those you love in too much affection. This can be especially
weakening to children, who never experience their own personal strength if an
adult is too protective.
You are extremely loyal and rarely let anyone down. You need to feel
appreciation for your giving and caring. You want to know that you are needed.
Anthony, you are generous and very forgiving. You are somehow able to
overlook the worst mistakes in another and find enough good in that person to
continue the relationship.
You are patient, warm, and sympathetic, sometimes to the point of
sentimentality.
You have a natural ability as a counselor and healer. You are an excellent
listener, compassionate and understanding. You are able to both sympathize and
empathize with a person's dilemma. Your challenge as a counselor is to be
adequately educated so that you can do more than provide a sympathetic ear or
shoulder.
You possess a great deal of artistic talent, though you may not have a lot of
confidence in your ability. Art gives you a great deal of pleasure and satisfaction.
You are especially sensitive to your environment and have a knack for creating an
artistic, healing, and harmonious atmosphere in your home or work space.
Anthony, your deepest intention is to love those around you, and be loved in
return. Six is the most loving of all numbers, especially in one-to-one
relationships. Your instincts are toward your family and friends. You envision a
beautiful and harmonious life with love as the basis for all social interaction. Your
love is returned manifold; people appreciate you and the love you give, and are
willing to go to great lengths to keep you close at hand.
Your Heart's Desire's compatibility is 7 and 6
Compatibility of the Heart’s Desire numbers is very important in a relationship -
few relationships last beyond the initial stage if the Heart’s Desire numbers are
not compatible.
A strange and not very common combination, the six and the seven have a kind
of love-hate relationship. While the six is strongly committed and motivated by
emotions and romance, the seven is an intellectual and somewhat secretive and
distant energy. On one side, Anthony demands physical and emotional
connection; on the other, Paul relies more on an intellectual bond. This has
nothing to do with love in its purest form, since no number is more capable of
loving than any other number. What happens is that each number expresses
love in a different way. Anthony’s six in this part of the chart is more influenced by
feelings and emotions and depends on expressions of love to feel secure and
comfortable in the relationship. Paul’s seven is more independent and enables
Paul to feel safe and secure in the relationship even when there is less sharing of
emotions.
Unless this fundamental difference is well understood and accepted, it can
become a problem in your relationship. Anthony may, at times, feel that Paul is
cold and aloof, as Paul needs a certain amount of distance, quiet contemplation,
daydreaming; an opportunity to be alone with the Self - and when Paul is in that
state of mind, even Anthony’s loving attention is experienced as an annoying
disruption.
As a result, it is not uncommon for this combination to develop a relationship that
can cause much unhappiness - and yet be unbreakable. Usually, this paradoxical
situation is quite obvious to those around you - and completely unrecognized by
you. Everyone around you will wonder why you stay together when you seem so
different on all fronts.
Of course, Anthony and Paul, the six and the seven also allow for happy,
long-lasting relationships. The key is simply to recognize the fundamental
difference in the way you express your love -- and you are both capable of that.
Anthony has to realize that even when Paul seems distant and cold, Paul’s love is
not diminished in any way. And Paul may have to accept the fact that Anthony
has to confirm the relationship regularly and does so by reaching out and
demanding attention.
PERSONALITY
Your Personality number is derived from the consonants of your full name at
birth. Your Personality is like a narrow entrance hall to the great room that is your
true nature. It is those aspects that you feel comfortable sharing with people at
the outset of a relationship. With time and trust, you invite others into the deeper
aspects of your nature; you reveal more of who you really are, in effect, your
Heart's Desire, Expression, and so on.
Your Personality number often serves as a censoring device, both in terms of
what you send out, as well as what you allow to approach. It discriminates in the
kinds of people and information you let enter your heart and mind. For this
reason, your Personality is usually much more narrow and protective in its
definition than the real you. It can screen out some of what you do not want to
deal with -- people or situations -- but it also welcomes those things that
immediately relate to your inner nature.
Your Personality number also indicates how others perceive you. No one can
be objective about himself or herself. Even our closest friends and relatives have
trouble describing how they see us.
Paul and Anthony, your Personality is 5
Paul and Anthony, you both have the same number in this part of the chart. The
following text therefore applies to both of you.
Paul, you are a stimulating person. You brighten social gatherings with your
fresh and original ideas. Your conversation tends to be sprinkled with novelty and
wit.
You have a quick tongue and charisma. You are probably an excellent
salesman. There is a lot of nervous energy within you looking for an outlet.
You love your freedom and you see this life as an ongoing adventure. You are
upbeat and optimistic. This is infectious for those you meet. As a result, you
inspire others.
You have a strong and attractive body, with good muscle tone. Your
movements are supple, graceful, and athletic.
Paul, your bane is that you love to indulge your senses with food and drink and
can easily gain weight. You have an appetite for anything that stimulates the
senses -- sex, food, alcohol, and drugs. Discipline is a necessity for you. The
negative side of a 5 Personality Number can give rise to an addictive personality.
You like to dress fashionably and can get away with more colorful clothes.
However, you should be aware of the value of quality and the power of modesty.
You are a little irresponsible and quick in satisfying your sensual urges. You
are attractive and that, coupled with your innate ability to promote yourself, makes
it easy for you to satisfy your desire for new and exciting relationships.
You have a kind of swashbuckling personality. People see you as the
adventurer that you are. They expect the unexpected from you, and when they
don't you often surprise them.
You have a quick and eclectic mind. You attract information from all directions,
but you can be a bit superficial, skimming over the surface of a wide diversity of
subjects. This may cause you to be a bit of a dilettante. You can get away with it
much of the time, but for your own success and happiness, you should try to
ground knowledge and deepen your understanding.
Paul, your versatility and adaptability make you capable of getting the most out
of virtually every opportunity in life. You decide quickly on a course of action and
your timing is usually good. You radiate with the potential for success, which
attracts others who can further you along your path.
Your Personality's compatibility is 5
Quickly recognized when two people first meet, not many relationships even get
started unless the Personality numbers are compatible.
Paul and Anthony, in this particular part of the chart, you both have a five, a
number full of contradictions, no matter where it is found. For example, the five is
sensual and freedom loving. It doesn’t like to be tied down in any way. The five
carries a tendency for indulgence, often expressed in sexual promiscuity,
overeating, or drug or alcohol abuse. Paradoxically, the five is also loyal and less
likely to cheat than any other number. The five will avoid commitment as much
as possible, but once committed it takes it very seriously.
Probably, you both recognize this within yourself and each other. You both take
your commitment very seriously and you are both willing to accept a lot from each
other. With your tolerant, easy going and flexible personality, you know how to
adapt to each other, allowing your partner more freedom than most couples. This
mutual understanding is just one of the many strong supports in this combination
that can thus weather many storms.
However, there is a dangerous side to this relationship, as there is to any other.
Paul and Anthony, the danger does not come from outside, but from inside. You
are both adventurous people who require change and variety in your lives. You
don’t like routine and often make a change. Even major changes, such as
switching career or moving to another town. Even when there is really no rational
need for this change.
It is this urge for freedom and adventure that can also be the source of trouble.
This tendency towards trying new things, experimenting with the boundaries of
life, is sometimes expressed in a somewhat wild life style that often includes
drugs or other vices.
In most partnerships, if one partner has a “wild streak” the other may be able to
put on the brakes. In your particular case, you may find yourself in a situation
where both of you have ventured into the danger zone and there may be no one to
put on the brakes.
Paul and Anthony, the key to a successful relationship for you is not hard to grasp
- just be yourself. You have much in common and all the ingredients are there for
a long and happy and probably fun-filled relationship. However, in order to prevent
a slow slide into a lifestyle that could eventually be quite difficult to get out of, you
must be absolute honest and use a healthy dose of self-criticism. When you see
yourself - or your partner - sliding towards some form of abuse, engaging in a
search for the pleasures of the flesh, do not hesitate to act promptly and honestly.
Be careful not to let your need for freedom and adventure push you in the wrong
direction. More than in any other number combination, discipline and moral
values are required.
Paul, you are the philanthropist, humanitarian, socially conscious, and are
deeply concerned about the state of the world. You have great compassion and
idealism. You are a utopian, and will spend your life trying to realize some aspect
of your utopian dream, sacrificing money, time, and energy for a better world. It is
in giving that you will find much satisfaction.
You have a broad outlook on life. You tend to see the big picture, rather than the
minute details. You naturally attract people from all walks of life who can fit into
your larger plans and take over the areas you find uninteresting. The person with
a 9 Life Path is rarely prejudiced or accepts social biases of people. Instead, they
evaluate people on the basis of what they can do for the larger cause. They are
the true egalitarian.
Paul, you are imaginative and creative, especially at harmoniously arranging
the beauty already potential in the environment. These abilities can lead you into
such fields as interior decorating, landscape art, and photography. But because
of your strong social consciousness, you can be an effective politician, lawyer,
judge, minister, teacher, healer, and environmentalist. Vocations that require self-
sacrifice and have a clear social impact are common among 9s.
You are often disappointed by the realities of life: the shortcomings of others, or
of yourself. Somehow, you don't want to accept the imperfections of the world, a
feeling that drives you constantly to try to improve upon it. But rather than be
satisfied with your efforts, and those of others, you relentlessly push on, striving
for greater accomplishments. You are often unsatisfied with the results. In short,
you lack the perspective that would otherwise make it possible for you to enjoy life
more fully, and accept its natural limitations.
You have a controlled enthusiasm and the ability to finish what you start.
A key to your personality is the necessity of sacrifice. You have to learn to let
go of material possessions and relationships, the inherent lesson being that
holding on too tightly to anything causes pain.
Money comes to you through mysterious or unexpected ways: inheritance; the
benevolence of someone who was inspired by your work; or a lucky investment.
Conversely, if you pursue money for its own sake, after giving up on your larger
dreams, you're likely to find yourself empty handed.
The most successful and satisfying road for a nine is giving; sharing and
sacrificing for a larger goal, without expecting anything in return. Paul, your
greatest chance at success is to tie your personal fortunes to an endeavor that
makes the world a better place for others. Very often, this turns into a highly
successful and lucrative enterprise, providing amply for you and your family. Your
life rests on the axiom that the more you give, the bigger your reward.
You are romantic, but your love is more impersonal. You tend to be focused on
your dreams.
When you are not in harmony with your true nature, you can fall to moodiness,
or become aloof, and withdrawn. You can become timid, uncertain, and
ungrateful, putting the blame for your troubles on others or the world. You have a
gift for examining your life objectively, and at some distance. Be honest with
yourself. By openly facing your shortcomings, as well as your strengths, you
develop equilibrium. You are thus able to love and better understand yourself and
all of life.
Anthony, your Life Path is 20/2
The key word in your nature is peacemaker. Anthony, you have the soul of an
artist. You are extremely sensitive, perceptive, and a bit shy. These qualities are
both your strengths and weaknesses, for while you possess enormous sensitivity
to your feelings and those of others, that same sensitivity can cause you to hold
back and repress your considerable talents. Sensitivity and perceptiveness are
among your many fine qualities
Because you intuitively know what people want, or feel, you can be extremely
diplomatic and tactful. You are also patient and cooperative. You work well with
groups and somehow find a way of creating harmony among diverse opinions.
You enjoy music and poetry and require a harmonious environment.
You have an eye for beauty and a fine sense of balance and rhythm. You have
healing capabilities, especially in such fields as massage, acupuncture, physical
therapy, and counseling.
However, your sensitivity can also be your downfall. Anthony, your extremely
delicate ego bruises easily and can make too much of someone else's
thoughtless remarks or criticisms. Because you get hurt easily, you may tend to
withhold your own thoughts and contributions to the matter at hand. This can
cause you considerable resentment and anger.
Too often, you run from confrontation to avoid a battle.
When you employ your considerable inner strength, you will discover your
enormous power and abilities to direct difficult situations toward your own goals. It
is the awareness of your inner strength that will give you the courage to use your
own personal power when it is needed. You are a sensitive and passionate lover;
your perceptiveness makes you aware of your partner's needs and desires,
which you are able to fulfill with almost magical delicacy.
However, when you feel you have been mistreated or jilted, you can react with
devastating power, sometimes using personal criticisms vindictively. Your
awareness, diplomatic skills, and organizational talents give you the ability to
bring off difficult tasks. You willingly step out of the limelight to facilitate the
success of your endeavor. In truth, you are often the power behind the throne.
However, you do not always receive the credit you deserve for the fine work
you've done, or your role is underestimated and your accomplishments
overlooked. Rather than brood over your losses, you need to confront those who
would make less of your contributions and stand up for your accomplishments.
You need security and comfort, quiet settings, and the company of loved ones.
You are a perfectionist when it comes to your home and work environment.
Anthony, you have excellent taste which is obvious in your private surroundings.
You are a fine companion and possess a good sense of humor. Friends seek you
out for your calming and peaceful company. You are a safe haven to other
sensitive people, who recognize your compassion and understanding. When you
have found your niche in life, you have all the talents and intelligence for great
success. Seek out work that allows your sensitive nature to flourish -- be the glue
that binds others together.
Your Life Path's compatibility is 9 and 2
Paul and Anthony, your Life Path numbers are the most important numbers in
your charts, and, as such, their compatibility is very important to the well-being of
your relationship.
Whereas Anthony is open and easy going in matters of the heart, Paul is more
careful and perhaps distant. In fact, Paul knows that it is in part this care, this
need to maintain a safe distance, which has caused passed relationships to
crash. It is not easy for Paul to be deeply involved in a relationship and trust that it
is safe to act un-inhibited, unselfconsciously. On the other hand, it is natural for
Anthony to respond to the moment without first having to weigh possible
consequences. Anthony can be immediate, responsive and fearless like a child
and, just like a child, feel totally safe.
Always seeking the shelter of the inner world, Paul needs to learn to let go, to
surrender to the heart, if this relationship is to endure and grow.
You can give love and friendship left and right, Paul, there is no shortage of love in
you. On the contrary. The number nine is self-sacrificing and generous to a fault.
Maybe that is the way you release all the love in you. A problem exists only when
this love comes too close to the inner Paul. As long as there is some distance,
you feel safe. The moment someone attempts to step into your inner world, you
have a tendency to close the doors.
Anthony, you are very different. You will certainly invite Paul to share even the
deepest moments, without inhibition. But when Paul backs away from that,
Anthony, you may well respond with confusion, jealousy and resentment.
As you may have realized by now, the two and the nine don’t get along too well.
Although both are caring, loving numbers, the idealistic nine gives to the world
and to strangers, while a much more emotionally involved two focuses on one
person as the object of its love.
Interestingly, the two and the nine can form powerful alliances in other
circumstances, particularly in business. Between the two of them, they can
negotiate and influence just about anyone or anything. It is in matters of the heart
that their needs and desires are not very compatible.
All this can be countered, albeit with some effort. Paul, you would help yourself
and Anthony if you could “loosen up” a bit. Relax the constant vigilance and allow
yourself to be more responsive to the moment.
Anthony, you should try to understand that Paul’s need for some distance doesn’t
mean the love is not real, or not as strong as yours. If you are able to keep that in
mind, you’ll be able to build a peaceful, enjoyable relationship. A relationship, by
the way, that can also be very prosperous if you are smart enough to take
advantage of the powerful alliances the two and the nine allow for, especially in
the business world.
EXPRESSION
Your Expression number reveals your physical and mental constitution, the
orientation or goal of your life. Some numerologists refer to this number as the
Destiny, because it represents a lifelong target at which you are aiming. You
work at fulfilling this potential every day of your life. Thus, the Expression number
reveals your inner goal, the person you aim to be.
The Expression number reveals the talents, abilities, and shortcomings that
were with you when you entered your human body. Your name, and the numbers
derived from it, reveals your development, as well as the talents and issues you
will be working with during this life.
For those for whom reincarnation is an accepted philosophy, the vibration of
your full name can be seen as the totality of your personal evolution, the
experiences, talents, and wisdom accumulated over many life times. Every
experience, no matter how great or small, along this evolutionary path has
influenced your development, and brought you to your current state of being.
The Expression is your being; the Life Path is the major lesson you are
attempting to learn this time around. Time allows the gradual emergence of your
personality. By reading the Expression number below, you will come to
understand your basic nature and the abilities and issues inherent in your being.
Paul, your Expression is 12/3
Paul, you are optimistic, inspiring, outgoing, and expressive. People see you
as cheerful, positive and charming; your personality has a certain bounce and
verve that so powerfully affects others that you can inspire people without effort.
All of this upward energy is a symptom of your tremendous creativity. Your
verbal skills may well lead you into the fields of writing, comedy, theater, and
music.
Yours is the number of self-expression -- rich in imagination and spirit. But you
have to be careful not to scatter your talents. Your bane is that you often lack
discipline and order in your life. Avoid becoming a "happy- go-lucky" spendthrift,
escaping responsibility and commitment. You must learn to concentrate and
focus.
These are the keys to your success. You have great potential in the arts and
areas that requires creative solutions to problems. You are able to perform leaps
of imagination, providing unconventional ideas as if they suddenly descended
from above. Hard work and focus, however, are the foundation for a successful
future.
Though you possess great verbal skills, your mind tends to see life as pictures
rather than in words. Yet, you have the ability to think abstractly.
Creativity is a sensitive faculty that is often suppressed in childhood. If you lack
the confidence to pursue your ideas, you may divert your abilities into a scattering
of trivial pursuits.
To overcome this problem, you must make a choice. Paul, you have to limit
your field of vision and the number of activities you engage in, and bundle your
energies into a single thrust. Focus your life; choose the area that you love the
most, and commit. There, you will find success. And a great deal of happiness.
Love, romance, and money are within your reach. You are aided by your
friends and admirers. Often people appear out of nowhere to help you in key
situations. Paul, you have to learn to accept the involvement of others in your life.
You are not a loner, nor are you particularly independent. You are social -- you
need an audience and the support of others to fully realize your abilities.
On the down-side, you can be superficial, moody, and intolerant. You are
emotional and sensitive, sometimes presuming criticism where none was
intended. You can also be jealous and gossipy. Beware of becoming cynical and
sarcastic. These traits can suppress your natural creativity.
Be goal-oriented. This is a practical, step-by-step approach to your larger
ambitions. You possess the natural abilities to attain a high degree of excellence.
Anthony, your Expression is 11/2
Anthony, yours is the most highly charged Expression number of all. You are
like a lightning rod, attracting powerful ideas, intuitions, and even psychic
information like unpredictable bolts.
You are a powerful presence without any awareness on your part of having
personal power. You are a channel for higher vibrations. But in order to be
emotionally and psychologically at peace, you must learn to control that flow of
energy. You possess a bridge between the unconscious and the conscious. The
trouble is that the unconscious is an infinite resource, while consciousness by
definition is a limited arena. The two are therefore at odds until they can learn to
live in harmony with each other. This is where control comes in. Until you are
able to control the flow of energy from this infinite source, you may feel like a
victim of its whimsy, thrown about by emotional turmoil and nervous tensions.
Anthony, you have always sensed that you are different, but it was an
indefinable feeling. You are enormously sensitive and aware, especially as a
child. This made you vulnerable to all conflicts and painful situations. For most of
your upbringing, however, you did not realize that other people did not possess
the same sensitivity, nor did they see the same things you were seeing. This
caused a great reservoir of emotion that was dammed up behind an inability to
express your feelings, even to yourself. For this reason, most 11 Expressions
have a difficult childhood. Your extreme sensitivity made you very shy as a child.
This usually manifests in adulthood as hesitation and acute vulnerability. You are
very careful about sharing your feelings with others and choosing your friends.
You compensated for your sense of separation in childhood by creating an
elaborate fantasy world. You daydreamed more than other children. You have a
lively imagination and even in adulthood have a hard time separating reality from
fantasy.
Anthony, your challenge is to bring forth your primitive, earthy strength. You
need to be grounded in order to deal with your lightning bolts. The more you are
able to call upon your inherent human strength, the greater your capacity to take
advantage of your extremely sensitive awareness. Once this is accomplished,
your antagonist becomes your benefactor.
You are highly emotional and dependent upon relationships. Emotionally, you
go up and down with the fortunes of your love life.
You are idealistic, impractical, and at times disorderly. You are often
unrealistic in your expectations.
Your reasons for doing things are usually born of a mixture of logic, emotion,
and intuition, which can rarely be explained satisfactorily to your more rational
associates.
The 11 Expression is the number most dependent upon other core numbers in
your chart for insight into your vocation. The 11 charges every area it enters, but
it needs a grounding vocation and discipline to be effective.
A balanced 11 is one of the most unique and impressive of all people. It is
gifted with insight and illumination, which it can transmit to others. This makes
you a natural teacher in whatever area you enter.
Your Expression's compatibility is 3 and 2
More than any other number in your chart, your Expression number reflects who
you are as a person. Earlier, you read about the Life Path number and how
important that number is in your chart. However, the Life Path number reflects
“the path you walk on,” and should be seen more as a powerful influence than as
a part of your personality makeup. Your Expression number on the other hand,
reflects a deeper part of you. It is more difficult to overcome possible negative
traits you may have recognized in yourself when they are found in this part of the
chart, than when they are found under the Life Path description.
It can’t be emphasized too much how important it is to realize that numbers in
different areas of the chart affect you differently, even when it is the same
number. Sometimes, you may read something that seems to directly contradict
earlier statements. Yet, if you take the time to think about them carefully, you will
probably recognize that you, as a human being, are extremely complex and full of
the same contradictions. This is simply the way we are. You may be organized
in one area of your life, while chaos rules in another area. You may be tactful and
sensitive in one setting, and direct and confrontational in another situation.
Anthony, as a number two, you are not very well equipped to deal with criticism
and confrontations - - you are vulnerable and can hold a grudge. On the other
hand, Paul, as a number three, has an in-born ability to let negative criticisms
bounce off without letting them do much damage. That does not mean that Paul
can't be hurt, but simply that Paul does not allow little things to spoil the
experience. And that is exactly where a possible danger exists. A bit tactless at
times, Paul can occasionally put the foot in the mouth, without realizing that this
has a negative effect on Anthony. However, when “little things” grow into big
emotional issues in which even Paul is strongly affected, Paul will respond
passionately. Paul may even lose sight of the beauty and love that is the
foundation of your relationship, letting anger and sharp verbal skills do
considerable damage. Anthony will respond, perhaps with a few angry words,
but, more likely, by withdrawing. Thus, a hard kernel of resentment wrapped up in
confusion and sometimes hidden from view for a long time - since Anthony
doesn't think too clearly when emotions are in play and tends to walk away from
confrontations - may eventually become a source of such discontent that it will
take everything Paul has to offer to bring Anthony back.
On a more positive note, the combination of 2 and 3 is a very passionate and
strong one. So, as long as Paul keeps verbal impulses under control, and
Anthony has enough self-confidence to handle occasional criticisms, the
relationship has every chance of bringing lots of love and joy to your life.
Often, the combination two and three in this aspect of the chart also enhances
each other's creative juices. The sense of harmony and rhythm connected to the
two merges beautifully with the powers of expression so native to the three. Your
relationship is strengthened enormously by sharing creative interests, and that is
where you should concentrate your efforts.
Keep in mind that beauty and love lie at the bottom of your relationship, and that it
is in your own hands to gradually destroy or make them stronger day after day.
Discuss any issues - open and frank, but also with tact and sensitivity - as they
come up.
HEART'S DESIRE
Your Heart's Desire is the inner you. It shows your underlying urge, your true
motivation. It reveals the general intention behind many of your actions.
Consequently, it dramatically influences the choices you make in life. The Heart's
desire is seen as part of the larger picture, called the core numbers, which
includes the Life Path, Expression, Day you were born, and Personality. But
each points to a different aspect of you.
The Expression number reveals your talents and abilities, and your general
direction in life. The Life Path is the central lesson you came into the world to
learn. The Day you were born is very closely connected to your Life Path. It
reveals specific talents you possess, which will be helpful to you in dealing with
your Life Path. The Personality reveals how people tend to see you. It also
demonstrates what characteristics you are projecting to the world. The Heart's
Desire demonstrates the identity of the soul that joined the earth -- you, the
spiritual being.
Paul, your Heart's Desire is 7
Paul, you love knowledge, study, and insight. You value the gifts of your mind,
which you use to great advantage to penetrate the mysteries of life. You study
things in-depth. You search beneath the surface of things. You abhor shallow
judgments or opinions.
You have a natural gift for analysis and research. Once you have grasped the
facts of a subject, your creativity and abstract approach lifts your thinking beyond
the rudimentary to the philosophical. You have a theoretical mind, but rather than
indulge in fantasies or idle thought, you prefer to base your theories upon
scientific facts.
Paul, you enjoy mental and physical puzzles -- figuring them out, taking them
apart, and putting them back together.
Some people may perceive you as cool or aloof. You are somewhat
introverted; you may feel slightly removed and even a little different. The fantasy
of the hermit or monk engaged in a life of study and meditation appeals to you.
In relationships, you tend to keep things business-like and impersonal. You
prefer to talk about the facts of a given situation, rather than the cloudier issues of
emotions and personal feelings. You distrust feelings -- both your own and those
of others. The whole emotional realm strikes you as unreliable, and a bit
unnecessary.
Paul, your inability to fully understand the emotional aspect of life is your
Achilles heel. You are so rational that the unpredictability of the heart frightens
and surprises you.
Your challenge is to trust. You need to share your heart with someone. This is
a courageous step for you, but will result in enormous growth and satisfaction.
The advice here is to make a true connection with another human being.
Without it, you may marry out of convenience or to fulfill social expectations, but it
will not lead you out of loneliness. The more removed you are from people, the
more you risk isolation, bitterness, and a cynical attitude toward life.
This choice represents a true crossroads in your development. By sharing
yourself with others (without compromising your independence and need for
privacy) you can cultivate your enormous charm and share your understanding of
life. You are a natural teacher and advisor. And the wealth of knowledge you will
accumulate in life is meant to be shared with others.
This is not to say that you must compromise on your need for privacy or time
spent alone to contemplate life. These are natural aspects of your personality,
which are essential to your growth. These characteristics should not be
threatening to your spouse, but must be understood as fundamental to your
being.
Paul, you are blessed with a great reserve of intuition, which can be cultivated
by regular meditation and contemplation. Your "inner voice" is your greatest guide
and friend.
You are idealistic and have high expectations for yourself. Learn to balance
your serious nature with regular doses of fun.
Your intelligence and cultivation make you charming and distinguished in
appearance. As you get older and more comfortable with your identity, people are
naturally attracted to you. They see your wisdom, your deep understanding of life,
and the refinement you radiate.
Anthony, your Heart's Desire is 6
Anthony, your attention is directed to helping and caring for those you love. You
are exceedingly domestic. You love your home and family and work hard to make
both comfortable and secure. Your love for family and friends is a major source
of your happiness and sometimes unhappiness.
Your desire to help others is so strong that you often find yourself sacrificing
your own personal needs for someone else's. You can overdo it, becoming too
deeply involved in other people's lives. You risk interfering in personal matters
and or smothering those you love in too much affection. This can be especially
weakening to children, who never experience their own personal strength if an
adult is too protective.
You are extremely loyal and rarely let anyone down. You need to feel
appreciation for your giving and caring. You want to know that you are needed.
Anthony, you are generous and very forgiving. You are somehow able to
overlook the worst mistakes in another and find enough good in that person to
continue the relationship.
You are patient, warm, and sympathetic, sometimes to the point of
sentimentality.
You have a natural ability as a counselor and healer. You are an excellent
listener, compassionate and understanding. You are able to both sympathize and
empathize with a person's dilemma. Your challenge as a counselor is to be
adequately educated so that you can do more than provide a sympathetic ear or
shoulder.
You possess a great deal of artistic talent, though you may not have a lot of
confidence in your ability. Art gives you a great deal of pleasure and satisfaction.
You are especially sensitive to your environment and have a knack for creating an
artistic, healing, and harmonious atmosphere in your home or work space.
Anthony, your deepest intention is to love those around you, and be loved in
return. Six is the most loving of all numbers, especially in one-to-one
relationships. Your instincts are toward your family and friends. You envision a
beautiful and harmonious life with love as the basis for all social interaction. Your
love is returned manifold; people appreciate you and the love you give, and are
willing to go to great lengths to keep you close at hand.
Your Heart's Desire's compatibility is 7 and 6
Compatibility of the Heart’s Desire numbers is very important in a relationship -
few relationships last beyond the initial stage if the Heart’s Desire numbers are
not compatible.
A strange and not very common combination, the six and the seven have a kind
of love-hate relationship. While the six is strongly committed and motivated by
emotions and romance, the seven is an intellectual and somewhat secretive and
distant energy. On one side, Anthony demands physical and emotional
connection; on the other, Paul relies more on an intellectual bond. This has
nothing to do with love in its purest form, since no number is more capable of
loving than any other number. What happens is that each number expresses
love in a different way. Anthony’s six in this part of the chart is more influenced by
feelings and emotions and depends on expressions of love to feel secure and
comfortable in the relationship. Paul’s seven is more independent and enables
Paul to feel safe and secure in the relationship even when there is less sharing of
emotions.
Unless this fundamental difference is well understood and accepted, it can
become a problem in your relationship. Anthony may, at times, feel that Paul is
cold and aloof, as Paul needs a certain amount of distance, quiet contemplation,
daydreaming; an opportunity to be alone with the Self - and when Paul is in that
state of mind, even Anthony’s loving attention is experienced as an annoying
disruption.
As a result, it is not uncommon for this combination to develop a relationship that
can cause much unhappiness - and yet be unbreakable. Usually, this paradoxical
situation is quite obvious to those around you - and completely unrecognized by
you. Everyone around you will wonder why you stay together when you seem so
different on all fronts.
Of course, Anthony and Paul, the six and the seven also allow for happy,
long-lasting relationships. The key is simply to recognize the fundamental
difference in the way you express your love -- and you are both capable of that.
Anthony has to realize that even when Paul seems distant and cold, Paul’s love is
not diminished in any way. And Paul may have to accept the fact that Anthony
has to confirm the relationship regularly and does so by reaching out and
demanding attention.
PERSONALITY
Your Personality number is derived from the consonants of your full name at
birth. Your Personality is like a narrow entrance hall to the great room that is your
true nature. It is those aspects that you feel comfortable sharing with people at
the outset of a relationship. With time and trust, you invite others into the deeper
aspects of your nature; you reveal more of who you really are, in effect, your
Heart's Desire, Expression, and so on.
Your Personality number often serves as a censoring device, both in terms of
what you send out, as well as what you allow to approach. It discriminates in the
kinds of people and information you let enter your heart and mind. For this
reason, your Personality is usually much more narrow and protective in its
definition than the real you. It can screen out some of what you do not want to
deal with -- people or situations -- but it also welcomes those things that
immediately relate to your inner nature.
Your Personality number also indicates how others perceive you. No one can
be objective about himself or herself. Even our closest friends and relatives have
trouble describing how they see us.
Paul and Anthony, your Personality is 5
Paul and Anthony, you both have the same number in this part of the chart. The
following text therefore applies to both of you.
Paul, you are a stimulating person. You brighten social gatherings with your
fresh and original ideas. Your conversation tends to be sprinkled with novelty and
wit.
You have a quick tongue and charisma. You are probably an excellent
salesman. There is a lot of nervous energy within you looking for an outlet.
You love your freedom and you see this life as an ongoing adventure. You are
upbeat and optimistic. This is infectious for those you meet. As a result, you
inspire others.
You have a strong and attractive body, with good muscle tone. Your
movements are supple, graceful, and athletic.
Paul, your bane is that you love to indulge your senses with food and drink and
can easily gain weight. You have an appetite for anything that stimulates the
senses -- sex, food, alcohol, and drugs. Discipline is a necessity for you. The
negative side of a 5 Personality Number can give rise to an addictive personality.
You like to dress fashionably and can get away with more colorful clothes.
However, you should be aware of the value of quality and the power of modesty.
You are a little irresponsible and quick in satisfying your sensual urges. You
are attractive and that, coupled with your innate ability to promote yourself, makes
it easy for you to satisfy your desire for new and exciting relationships.
You have a kind of swashbuckling personality. People see you as the
adventurer that you are. They expect the unexpected from you, and when they
don't you often surprise them.
You have a quick and eclectic mind. You attract information from all directions,
but you can be a bit superficial, skimming over the surface of a wide diversity of
subjects. This may cause you to be a bit of a dilettante. You can get away with it
much of the time, but for your own success and happiness, you should try to
ground knowledge and deepen your understanding.
Paul, your versatility and adaptability make you capable of getting the most out
of virtually every opportunity in life. You decide quickly on a course of action and
your timing is usually good. You radiate with the potential for success, which
attracts others who can further you along your path.
Your Personality's compatibility is 5
Quickly recognized when two people first meet, not many relationships even get
started unless the Personality numbers are compatible.
Paul and Anthony, in this particular part of the chart, you both have a five, a
number full of contradictions, no matter where it is found. For example, the five is
sensual and freedom loving. It doesn’t like to be tied down in any way. The five
carries a tendency for indulgence, often expressed in sexual promiscuity,
overeating, or drug or alcohol abuse. Paradoxically, the five is also loyal and less
likely to cheat than any other number. The five will avoid commitment as much
as possible, but once committed it takes it very seriously.
Probably, you both recognize this within yourself and each other. You both take
your commitment very seriously and you are both willing to accept a lot from each
other. With your tolerant, easy going and flexible personality, you know how to
adapt to each other, allowing your partner more freedom than most couples. This
mutual understanding is just one of the many strong supports in this combination
that can thus weather many storms.
However, there is a dangerous side to this relationship, as there is to any other.
Paul and Anthony, the danger does not come from outside, but from inside. You
are both adventurous people who require change and variety in your lives. You
don’t like routine and often make a change. Even major changes, such as
switching career or moving to another town. Even when there is really no rational
need for this change.
It is this urge for freedom and adventure that can also be the source of trouble.
This tendency towards trying new things, experimenting with the boundaries of
life, is sometimes expressed in a somewhat wild life style that often includes
drugs or other vices.
In most partnerships, if one partner has a “wild streak” the other may be able to
put on the brakes. In your particular case, you may find yourself in a situation
where both of you have ventured into the danger zone and there may be no one to
put on the brakes.
Paul and Anthony, the key to a successful relationship for you is not hard to grasp
- just be yourself. You have much in common and all the ingredients are there for
a long and happy and probably fun-filled relationship. However, in order to prevent
a slow slide into a lifestyle that could eventually be quite difficult to get out of, you
must be absolute honest and use a healthy dose of self-criticism. When you see
yourself - or your partner - sliding towards some form of abuse, engaging in a
search for the pleasures of the flesh, do not hesitate to act promptly and honestly.
Be careful not to let your need for freedom and adventure push you in the wrong
direction. More than in any other number combination, discipline and moral
values are required.
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