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Sibling relationship reading please

Post by Bandit81101 » Tue Mar 11, 2008 2:00 am

I have 4 siblings, and have had little problem with 3 of them.  Of course we had our ups and downs, we are siblings and the whole teenage thing etc etc.  But my youngest brother and I hit heads so badly it really upsets me.  I was curious as to our compatibility, and what is seen for us.  I remember years ago we used to be close, but he has become a completely different person and it doesn't mesh well at all.

His bday is sept 6th, 1994
mine is march 30th, 1980

any insite or help would be greatly appreciated. (and I know the first thing you'll say is he's 13, but I don't think that's it.  He isn't this way with any of our other siblings)

Thank you :)
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Post by Rhutobello » Wed Mar 12, 2008 8:40 am

It seems, according to the question for comp and given dates, that this is a nummerology question more then a psychic question, and I move it to that forum.

If a generell psychic  reading was in your mind, please state it and I will move it back :)

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Post by drrnwynbchnbrgr » Sat Mar 15, 2008 11:54 pm

sept 6 1994 is a 2 life path  /march 30 1980  is a 6 life path  very compatible  from a scale a b c d  they are concider  a .....

next step  numbers making up your date of births  1,4,6,9  verses 1,3,8,9  in general  we are looking at what energy one can give to the other  in this case there are a sharing of numbers

next step is to look at   personal years cycles  both are in a 7 year cycle  your compatible in all cases   from the information that you have given  

your problems are not a result of incompatible numbers from this stand point.. your full name of birth for both would be the next step and looking closer at your strengths and weakness  coming from both your name and date of births    .this didnt give you a answer to your question but its a start   ....the date of birth and full name at birth  can give us what is know in some forms of numerology as arrows of weakness using a three by three grid of the numbers present     your brothers 20/2 life path which accounts for 40 percent of a his makeup is a highly sensitive number vibration  which i feel is where some of the problems are coming from .the expression number accounts for another 30 percent  coming from the full name .  

a total reading of both of you is highly adviced  to get to the root of the problem  


sorry that i couldnt be of more help

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Post by Bandit81101 » Sun Mar 16, 2008 1:52 am

drrnwynbchnbrgr wrote:sept 6 1994 is a 2 life path  /march 30 1980  is a 6 life path  very compatible  from a scale a b c d  they are concider  a .....

next step  numbers making up your date of births  1,4,6,9  verses 1,3,8,9  in general  we are looking at what energy one can give to the other  in this case there are a sharing of numbers

next step is to look at   personal years cycles  both are in a 7 year cycle  your compatible in all cases   from the information that you have given  

your problems are not a result of incompatible numbers from this stand point.. your full name of birth for both would be the next step and looking closer at your strengths and weakness  coming from both your name and date of births    .this didnt give you a answer to your question but its a start   ....the date of birth and full name at birth  can give us what is know in some forms of numerology as arrows of weakness using a three by three grid of the numbers present     your brothers 20/2 life path which accounts for 40 percent of a his makeup is a highly sensitive number vibration  which i feel is where some of the problems are coming from .the expression number accounts for another 30 percent  coming from the full name .  

a total reading of both of you is highly adviced  to get to the root of the problem  


sorry that i couldnt be of more help
Thanks for that much :)  I will state our info and see where that leads up.

9-6-1994 Ryan Wesley Fradella
3-30-1980 Toni Marie Fradella

Thanks much again :)
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Post by drrnwynbchnbrgr » Sun Mar 16, 2008 5:05 am

toni below is a relationship compatibility reading that i ran on the information that you posted ,the report does shed some good insight into your question  indirectly, the report is more set up for marriage, are couples.. but i feel it will still address your question and answer it better than i can in my own words  and will not take me as long to do as pen and paper would  forgive for my laziness , i hope it helps  


Ryan, your Life Path is 20/2  
 
   The key word in your nature is peacemaker. Ryan, you have the soul of an
artist. You are extremely sensitive, perceptive, and a bit shy. These qualities are
both your strengths and weaknesses, for while you possess enormous sensitivity
to your feelings and those of others, that same sensitivity can cause you to hold
back and repress your considerable talents. Sensitivity and perceptiveness are
among your many fine qualities
   Because you intuitively know what people want, or feel, you can be extremely
diplomatic and tactful. You are also patient and cooperative. You work well with
groups and somehow find a way of creating harmony among diverse opinions.
   You enjoy music and poetry and require a harmonious environment.
   You have an eye for beauty and a fine sense of balance and rhythm. You have
healing capabilities, especially in such fields as massage, acupuncture, physical
therapy, and counseling.
   However, your sensitivity can also be your downfall. Ryan, your extremely
delicate ego bruises easily and can make too much of someone else's
thoughtless remarks or criticisms. Because you get hurt easily, you may tend to
withhold your own thoughts and contributions to the matter at hand. This can
cause you considerable resentment and anger.
   Too often, you run from confrontation to avoid a battle.
   When you employ your considerable inner strength, you will discover your

enormous power and abilities to direct difficult situations toward your own goals. It
is the awareness of your inner strength that will give you the courage to use your
own personal power when it is needed. You are a sensitive and passionate lover;
your perceptiveness makes you aware of your partner's needs and desires,
which you are able to fulfill with almost magical delicacy.
   However, when you feel you have been mistreated or jilted, you can react with
devastating power, sometimes using personal criticisms vindictively. Your
awareness, diplomatic skills, and organizational talents give you the ability to
bring off difficult tasks. You willingly step out of the limelight to facilitate the
success of your endeavor. In truth, you are often the power behind the throne.
However, you do not always receive the credit you deserve for the fine work
you've done, or your role is underestimated and your accomplishments
overlooked. Rather than brood over your losses, you need to confront those who
would make less of your contributions and stand up for your accomplishments.
You need security and comfort, quiet settings, and the company of loved ones.
You are a perfectionist when it comes to your home and work environment. Ryan,
you have excellent taste which is obvious in your private surroundings. You are a
fine companion and possess a good sense of humor. Friends seek you out for
your calming and peaceful company. You are a safe haven to other sensitive
people, who recognize your compassion and understanding. When you have
found your niche in life, you have all the talents and intelligence for great success.
Seek out work that allows your sensitive nature to flourish -- be the glue that binds
others together.


Toni, your Life Path is 15/6  
 
   Toni, you possess great compassion and seek to be of service to others. You
have concern for the weak and the downtrodden. You are a healer and a helper to
others. You are capable of giving comfort to those in need and will frequently offer
a shoulder for others to cry on.
   Your task in life is to develop the tools necessary to be truly helpful to others,
rather than to simply be a sympathetic ear. You must find the balance between
help and interference. In the same way, you must learn the delicate art of the
counselor who knows when to leave the struggle to others and when to avoid
taking away the necessary experiences and lessons of life.
   You are naturally balanced. Therefore, you are well equipped to support and
ground others in times of trial.
   It is in your nature to take on responsibility -- you often fill the void left by others
-- and do not turn away from personal sacrifice. At times, you may feel
overburdened by the travails of others. However, the love others bestow upon you
is your well deserved reward.
   Toni, you try to maintain harmony within the family or group, balancing and

fusing divergent forces. You seek marriage and are often a wonderful parent,
offering warmth, protection, and understanding to children.
   You are generous, kind, and attractive. You are often admired even adored
which baffles you. You are humble and yet you carry a deep pride. You move well
and gracefully, but will have to work to stay in shape. Seek out physical exercise
and limit the sweets and dairy you crave to keep yourself from becoming plump
and round.
   When young, you must be careful not to choose partners for the wrong
reasons. Do not let sentimentality influence your decision, especially those
involving the choice of a spouse. You need to be needed, but must learn to
discriminate between those you can help and others who are made weaker by
your care.
   After all, it is in your nature to be attracted to the weaker brothers and sisters
among us.
   The temptation, and the danger for you, is to think of yourself as the savior of
the world, carrying the burdens of others on your shoulders.
   Toni, you are blessed with musical talent, as well as in the visual and
performing arts. However, your creativity may well be suppressed due to your
willingness to sacrifice, or your inability to fully appreciate your talents. This is not
to say that you cannot excel in these areas; on the contrary, you have the talent,
and with effort you can make a success in a number of artistic fields.
   You also have enormous talent in business. You are blessed with a great deal
of charm and charisma, which you use effectively to attract the people and
support you need.


Your Life Path's compatibility is 2 and 6  
 
Ryan and Toni, your Life Path numbers are the most important numbers in your
charts, and, as such, their compatibility is very important to the well-being of your
relationship.

Two and six are considered the most loving numbers of all.  However, their love
expresses itself in different ways.  Ryan, your two, in this part of the chart, reveals
sensitivity, awareness of emotional forces in yourself and others, and an ability to
recognize the subtle and often hidden motives in others.  Toni, your six points to a
powerful urge to care and protect, to shelter those you love and to comfort them.  
In fact, one of the few traits a six has to guard for is not to smother others with its
love.  
Ryan and Toni, this combination forms a strong foundation for any relationship,
but in particular for a romantic one.  You both love easily and without holding
back.  You are not afraid to reveal your feelings.  However, it is only in the strength
of their love and their need for sharing and giving that these two numbers overlap.  

In many other respects, they are very different and, sometimes, even opposite.  
Ryan, your love is one of feelings and emotions driven by the need for
companionship, security, and comfort.  It is intuitively aware of the fragile nature
of life and therefore has a tendency to be somewhat needy and insecure.  A
negative expression of this insecurity is jealousy, perhaps even towards people
Toni may have a business or friendship relation with.  If Toni gives too much time
and attention to someone else, Ryan may have some difficulty in accepting that.  
Toni, on the other hand, can be oblivious to the subtle signs that something is
brewing underneath the surface.  Toni feels comfortable in a romantic relationship
and does not share this kind of insecurity.
Although Toni is not particularly afraid of romantic competition, Toni’s demons
also show up in this relationship.  Where Ryan requires attention and emotional
contact to feel comfortable, Toni may tend to spread attention around in search of
other people’s approval and gratitude.  Like a parent with grown children, Toni
reaches out to take care of, and comfort others, as a way to fill a space that can’t
be filled.  By doing so, Toni may forget who and what is really important, a trait
typical to the six.

More often than not, neither the occasional jealousy nor envy of the two, nor the
aimless mothering of the six, can do more than put a dent in this relationship.  
The two and the six are very compatible and the likelihood of a crash is smaller
than in most other number combinations.


Ryan, your Expression is 35/8  
 
   Ryan, you have the power and potential to achieve great things.  It is both your
challenge and your birthright to gain dominion over a small part of the earth.  
Whatever your enterprise, you strive to be the best and most successful in your
field.  You are highly competitive and will not rest until you are satisfied that you
have bypassed the opposition.  You enjoy challenges and rivalry.
   You are a realist and a visionary planner.  Money and authority are available to
you if you are willing to discipline yourself -- generally an inborn talent -- and
persevere in the face of the considerable obstacles in your path.
   You are dynamic and have a talent for efficiency.  You understand the larger
picture, see the broader challenges, and know how to marshal your collective
resources to address the problems.  You delegate responsibility well; it is best for
you to leave many of the details to others.
   Ryan, you are a great leader of people and an outstanding judge of character.  
You are demanding of those who work for you, often putting things in no uncertain
terms: do it my way or don't do it at all!
   At the same time, you don't hesitate to reward the faithful and hardworking
employee.  You are not a particularly tolerant leader; too much tolerance violates
your sense of efficiency.  You go directly after your goal with courage and
tenacity.
   You have a natural understanding of money, authority, and power.  You are
able to struggle consistently after your goal.  Eventually power falls to you.  Within
you lies an innate balance between the higher and lower characteristics of man.  
Your challenge in life is to balance your higher ideals and your understanding of
the hard realities of the earth.
   Much effort will have to be put out and many ups and downs experienced
before you reach the level of success you desire.  Life will probably test you many
times with obstacles that seem insurmountable.  But in reality, these are merely
opportunities for you to learn how to use power and authority in the face of
difficulties, and to find out just how much power lies within you.
   It is crucial for your success that you balance the material and the spiritual.  
You have chosen a path that requires balance between giving and taking, reward
and punishment, action and reaction.  Despite the obstacles on your path, you
are a true survivor.
   When focused exclusively on your desire for results and success, you can
become stubborn and intolerant; you can be driven by excessive ambition,
causing you to be exacting and without perspective.  Be careful of your alcohol
consumption, a danger-zone for you.  Ryan, you can be a social drinker, mixing
business with pleasure -- a dangerous cocktail.

   An excellent manager, organizer and administrator you have talents in many
areas of life.  Entrepreneurs, executives, bankers, brokers, negotiators, gamblers,
coaches, collectors, heads of institutions, builders, art dealers, manufacturers,
promoters, military officers, police detectives, smugglers, engineers, pilots or sea
captains.
   You have been entrusted with special gifts, the use or abuse of which has an
immediate and often physical effect upon you and those around you! Use these
gifts for the good of mankind and accept your own good fortune with gratitude.  
This is your rewarding stage in your evolution.  Yours is a life time of harvest

Toni, your Expression is 28/1  
 
   You are a natural leader, independent and individualistic.  Toni, you are
extremely ambitious, original, and courageous.  You employ new and unproven
methods.  You are an explorer and an innovator.  Openness to too many
peripheral influences limits and frustrates you.  You are self-reliant, confident, and
energetic.
   You possess executive abilities and are most successful at owning or
independently managing a business.  You need the freedom to make your own
decisions, based on your own ideas.  You can be an astute politician.  You also
possess the ability to influence the opinions of your milieu.
   The number 1 symbolizes the front-runner, pioneer, warrior, risk-taker, and
daredevil.  Generals, top politicians, successful businessmen, self-made
millionaires, religious leaders, inventors, activists, and avant-garde artists are
often born with a 1 Expression.
   Strength and perseverance are central to your success.  You must be willing to
travel the frontiers of life, away from the beaten path.  You possess a great
reserve of willpower that must be directed at your goals.  You do not give up, but
relentlessly pursue your aims.
   Toni, you are quite opinionated.  People tend to be inspired or repelled by your
strong personality.
   You have great powers of concentration and the ability to visualize your goals,
thus making them more attainable.
   You stand up for your convictions and hold your ground.  All of these abilities
enhance your chances of success in life.
   There is a tendency to be self-centered.  You can be domineering and, in the
extreme, a bully.  You can be highly critical of others, complaining that people lack
the industry or determination you possess.  But this lack of understanding can
alienate friends and family members from you.  You must learn to control this
tendency to maintain harmony in relationships.
   Once you are convinced of the inherent correctness of your ideas, you
stubbornly -- and sometimes rigidly -- defend and propagate them.


   Avoid obstinacy and antagonism.  You must cultivate balance, compassion,
and perseverance.
   You easily assume the role of protector.  You spring into action when
leadership is needed.
   Pride can be your downfall.  You so powerfully identify with your goals and
ambitions that you sometimes refuse to see a potential flaw or weakness in your
well-laid plans.
   Toni, you possess strength and determination, which, when applied to any
endeavor you are committed to, will lead you to great success in life.

Your Expression's compatibility is 8 and 1  
 
More than any other number in your chart, your Expression number reflects who
you are as a person.  Earlier, you read about the Life Path number and how
important that number is in your chart.  However, the Life Path number reflects
“the path you walk on,” and should be seen more as a powerful influence than as
a part of your personality makeup.  Your Expression number on the other hand,
reflects a deeper part of you.  It is more difficult to overcome possible negative
traits you may have recognized in yourself when they are found in this part of the
chart, than when they are found under the Life Path description.

It can’t be emphasized too much how important it is to realize that numbers in
different areas of the chart affect you differently, even when it is the same
number.  Sometimes, you may read something that seems to directly contradict
earlier statements.  Yet, if you take the time to think about them carefully, you will
probably recognize that you, as a human being, are extremely complex and full of
the same contradictions.  This is simply the way we are.  You may be organized
in one area of your life, while chaos rules in another area.  You may be tactful and
sensitive in one setting, and direct and confrontational in another situation.

Your respective Life Path numbers make you two strong-willed but at the same
time, somewhat stubborn people.  Often, when you are both around, it is like
having two captains on a ship - your conflicting orders can lead to explosive
arguments, which, in turn, may lead to uneasiness, discomfort and even distress.  
Therefore, willingness to compromise is very important in your relationship,
otherwise small arguments can be blown out of proportion.  
Ryan has a remarkable talent for managing financial matters.   Therefore, Ryan
should be the one controlling the money.  You both have good business instincts,
which could result in very successful shared endeavors.  Should you decide to go
that way, make sure you keep each other’s duties and responsibilities carefully
separated so as to avoid any type of personality conflicts.  Whatever your
decision may be, it is important that you have faith in each other’s abilities and act

independently.  However, since both of you like to do things your own way and
neither of you is good at delegating, you should be aware that this will not be an
easy task to be accomplished.  
Neither one of you accepts anything less than full respect and an equal playing
field.  Similarly, neither one of you can be dominated or would accept being
someone’s sidekick.  
However, while Ryan understands the material world and needs to see material
results and rewards, Toni is more attached to the satisfaction that comes from
knowing you did a good job.  

Although you may have your differences, it is important that both of you
understand that you have a lot in common as well.  The one and the eight are
very compatible numbers and you will find you have many interests in common -
many more than you thought.  Another positive aspect in your relationship is that
you love to share your experiences, and sharing experiences has, most of the
times, proved to be quite enriching.  But the fact that you are both more sensitive
behind that strong and independent facade than you let on opens the door to
possible hurtful comments and increases the danger of doing each other, in the
heat of an argument, more damage than either of you realizes.  Therefore, always
keep in mind that the keywords to this relationship are compromise and
communication.  If you are both able to compromise and communicate in your
day-to-day life, you will also be able to enjoy a pleasant, rewarding and happy
relationship, taking advantage of the many interests you have in common.


Ryan, your Heart's Desire is 9  

 
   Ryan, you want to be of service to the world.  Your deepest satisfaction comes
from knowing that you have advanced the cause of humanity.
   Your ideals are of the highest order.  You are a perfectionist.  You strive to
make the world a utopia; to make each person's lot in life better; to become
perfect yourself.  One of your challenges in life is to strive toward your lofty goals
and at the same time recognize the good you are doing.
   You like and are fascinated by people from all walks of life.  Human nature is a
lifelong study for you.  You are highly intuitive, but not an especially good judge of
character.  You are a bit naive, as well, thinking perhaps that all people have the
same values as you.
   You dream of having the resources to immediately relieve the suffering of
others, whether it is economic, physical, or psychological.
   You are gifted with a good mind and a great deal of wisdom, which makes you
a natural teacher, counselor, or healer.
   As much as you desire to be of service to others, you also crave fame and the
approval of the masses.  Much of the energy you expend in life is directed toward
putting yourself before an audience, most often as a salesperson whose product
provides some social good; as a philanthropist; or an artist.
   Ryan, you are attracted to the arts as a vocation, especially as an actor,
photographer, or writer.  But whatever your profession, any involvement in the
arts, even as a hobby, will provide you with a deep and lasting satisfaction.
   Secretly, you dream of having a big impact on the world.  Others may see this
as egotism, especially when you are still young.  But your concern for others is
genuine.  You must apply yourself in this direction in order to become
psychologically whole and personally satisfied.
   Your vision is on the crowds of people, which can cause you to overlook the
needs of those closest to you.  You need personal love as well, but have a
tendency to put your needs in the background.  Still, you are a loving person, and
only need to be reminded to direct and demonstrate that love to those nearby.  If,
however, you are focused exclusively on the masses, people will perceive you as
distant and a bit aloof.
   You are emotional, and sensitive.  You can also be moody and critical.  You
have high expectations for yourself and others.  This can cause you much anger
when your expectations are unfulfilled.  One of your most important life lessons is
to forgive.
   Because you are striving hard to attain high ideals, you may think of yourself as
superior to others.  Arrogance is a trap many 9s fall into.  The danger is that
arrogance cuts you off from the thing you love the most: people.
   Ryan, your happiness and contentment are therefore highly dependent on the
ease with which you are able to serve and influence mankind.
   It is the paradox of your Heart's Desire that you receive by giving.  Both your

material success and spiritual satisfaction are made possible through service
and sacrifice to others.

Toni, your Heart's Desire is 19/1  
 
   Toni, your overpowering need is to be independent and to direct your own life
according to what you believe.  Your dream is to become the leader of whatever
field you enter.  Whether it is in business, community, or in your general area of
expertise, you are driven to be the reigning figure.
   You have the courage and the confidence to lead others.  You believe firmly
that your judgment is preeminent over all others.  This gives you the confidence to
make bold decisions and carry them out, even when other lives are greatly
affected by what you do.  You rarely look back once you have made a decision.
   You possess intelligence and wit.  You are keenly insightful and are good at
evaluating the abilities of others.
   You are supremely individualistic.  In your manner and dress, you like to project
your own unique persona.
   Consequently, you don't mind being controversial, and can even enjoy the
attention and impact you have made on your surroundings.
   Toni, you dislike routines, or anything that limits your freedom and
independence.
   Whenever you commit to something you truly love, you are absolutely
tenacious in your ability to endure difficulties and overcome obstacles.  You are
highly responsible; you hate passing the buck.  You possess remarkable
willpower and a strong drive to succeed.
   You are always looking for innovative ways of doing things.
   Because you seek to be the boss in any endeavor, you have a tendency to
dominate others.  If you are not careful, especially in dealing with your
subordinates and family, you may become ruthless in your decisions and
behavior.  You can also fall victim to impatience and intolerance, particularly if you
grow conceited or superior.
   Toni, you are the pioneer and the ground-breaker.  You love the foreground, the
hot-seat of responsibility.  You have all the talents to succeed.  As long as you
maintain balance in your life, allowing others full expression of their thoughts and
abilities, you will easily rise to the top of your chosen field and realize your
ambitions.

Your Heart's Desire's compatibility is 9 and 1  
 
Compatibility of the Heart’s Desire numbers is very important in a relationship -
few relationships last beyond the initial stage if the Heart’s Desire numbers are
not compatible.

Due to the fact that both of you have a tendency towards arrogance as well as to
being somewhat egocentric, this is a very difficult relationship, as far as romance
is concerned.  At least in this aspect of the chart.  It will only work if a certain
amount of distance is maintained.  Each of you has to live your own life.  
Ironically, although difficult, this is not a bad combination for most other kinds of
relationships.  Friendships, parent-child as well as business relationships, often
work very well with this combination.   Precisely because the numbers stand on
opposite ends of the spectrum.  They complement and balance each other.  
Together, they represent a lot of talents and useful qualities that ensure a
powerful combination in most relationships, except in romance.
It is in romance that these numbers tend to be challenging.  
The solution lies in mutual understanding, not to get in your partner's way, not to
expect your partner to always be there for you, and certainly not to expect your
partner to live the kind of life you feel is right.  
This combination has a much better chance of surviving if Toni and Ryan have
the number two and/or six among their other core numbers.  
The numbers one and nine are far apart and this is reflected in Toni and Ryan's
understanding of each other.  In many areas of life you are so different that you
can't even relate to the other person's view.  And, as with every romantic
relationship, these shared views are required.  We feel secure in the knowledge
that our partner confirms what we feel and think.  And, if the relationship between
Toni and Ryan is of the romantic type, there will just not be much of that.  
Very often, when a one and a nine engage in a romantic relationship, the people
on the periphery think it is very funny to see them together.  Together but yet so
different, so unique.  Neither Toni nor Ryan tends to conform easily to the rules
and expectations of society.  And that is one of the few characteristics you have
in common.  However, you probably dress very differently, have very different
tastes, and consider different things important.  Chances are that you are each
other's polar opposite.  And, while we say that opposites attract, the trouble is that
they also tend to push each other away when they get too close.  
There are no easy solutions or foolproof guidelines that work here.  If you have
been together for a while and your love is strong, this love will keep you together.  
If the relationship is fairly recent, your focus should be on your heart, your pure
and unconditional love for your partner.  And here is the most important advice to
make this relationship last: Don't expect to change or influence your partner.

PERSONALITY  
 
   Your Personality number is derived from the consonants of your full name at
birth.  Your Personality is like a narrow entrance hall to the great room that is your
true nature.  It is those aspects that you feel comfortable sharing with people at

the outset of a relationship.  With time and trust, you invite others into the deeper
aspects of your nature; you reveal more of who you really are, in effect, your
Heart's Desire, Expression, and so on.
   Your Personality number often serves as a censoring device, both in terms of
what you send out, as well as what you allow to approach.  It discriminates in the
kinds of people and information you let enter your heart and mind.  For this
reason, your Personality is usually much more narrow and protective in its
definition than the real you.  It can screen out some of what you do not want to
deal with -- people or situations -- but it also welcomes those things that
immediately relate to your inner nature.
   Your Personality number also indicates how others perceive you.  No one can
be objective about himself or herself.  Even our closest friends and relatives have
trouble describing how they see us.

Ryan, your Personality is 17/8  
 

   Ryan, you appear strong and powerful.  You have an impressive personality
and can influence and even intimidate through sheer force.  You have natural
authority.  Your competence and enthusiasm attract people with resources.
   You radiate confidence.  People defer to you because they sense your
sureness and effectiveness.
   You also exude a kind of controlled benevolence.  People sense that you are
generous, once you are convinced of the worthiness of the cause.
   It is important for you to dress well.  You radiate a kind of raw power and able
ness, which needs to be refined and enhanced by your clothing.  You may even
dress a bit flashy, but that will not harm you.  Quality is among your highest
priorities, and should reflect in your clothing.
   Although most eights have a strong constitution, they can be prone to
indigestion, ulcers, and heart disease due to their reckless eating and drinking
habits and their propensity to be workaholics.
   Ryan, your Achilles heel is your capacity for an egocentric attitude.  The
negative side of your personality can cause you to be ruthless, greedy, and
intensely lonely.
   Conversely, you can be spontaneous and excited.  You are essentially warm
and jovial.  In your heart of hearts, you want everyone to be as excited and as
happy as you.  Those who are around you often sense this.  Your coworkers and
employees usually like you.


Toni, your Personality is 18/9  
 
   Toni, you have an impressive and aristocratic bearing.  No matter how tall you
are, you appear noble and upright.  You are very much in control of the image you

send out to others.
   Many actors, dancers, and other performers have a 9 Personality Number.  
You are elegant, graceful, and charismatic.  Many admire you.
   You have the kind of stature that pulls people to you or repels them intensely.  
Some are jealous of you and may seek to belittle you.
   You may encourage this to some extent by the amount of arrogance you
radiate.  This is a caution for all 9 Personalities -- they are sometimes aloof and
hold themselves above the world.
   Your challenge is to come down to earth with your fellow man.
   Conversely, you have a great compassion for humanity and want to dedicate
yourself to improving the lot of others.  You are better when dealing with the trials
of the many than the trouble of a single person.  You are more capable of working
on the grand scale, addressing the needs of society, than on a one-to-one basis.
   Toni, you are kind and sympathetic, helpful and compassionate.  Behind the
controlled and calm facade, you are sensitive, vulnerable and emotional.
   You have excellent taste.  There is a good deal of artistic talent in you that
shows in your home environment and your clothing.
   You tend to see yourself as a guardian of society, a benevolent leader, guiding
and directing your community toward a better world.

Your Personality's compatibility is 8 and 9  
 
Quickly recognized when two people first meet, not many relationships even get
started unless the Personality numbers are compatible.

Ryan and Toni, this part of the chart reveals two numbers at completely opposite
ends of the spectrum, which have nothing in common and are not considered
compatible.  However, they are often strongly attracted to each other; an
attraction that lasts and forms the foundation for a relationship that can remain
interesting and fresh for many years, because there is always something new to
discover in each other.
A go-getter with big dreams and expectations, Ryan has a good chance to turn
some of those dreams into reality because Ryan is highly motivated and willing to
put forth enormous effort to reach a goal.  Toni is equally focused but driven by
completely different priorities and motives.  In fact, as a rule of thumb, the eight in
Ryan’s chart reveals a need to work and direct energy towards accumulating
wealth and power.  This is the nature of the eight, and therefore healthy and
necessary.  The nine, as found in Toni’s chart, should be motivated by the work
and the way it affects the lives of others, never by financial gain or any other form
of worldly success.  A nine will never find happiness or achieve success when
motivated by worldly desires.  Rather, it will find personal reward and tremendous
success when driven by humanitarian motives.  As you can see, your priorities

are as different as night and day, yet both are as they should be.
Many times you will find yourselves at opposite sides of a discussion.  You rarely
agree when it comes to practical matters.  You will need to recognize and respect
the big difference between the two of you.  If you take each other for granted, and
start to feel you can predict and control your partner, your relationship will
certainly break down.  The keyword in this relationship is respect.  As long as you
respect each other, disagreements - of which there will probably be plenty - will
not be able to weaken the foundation of your relationship.

PERSONAL YEARS  
 
    Your Personal Year number is a strong indication of the trends and
circumstances you will experience during the year ahead.  Your Personal Year
cycles are based on the Universal Year cycles and therefore run concurrent with
the calendar year.  Transit and Essence cycles are based on the letters of your
name and run from birth date to birth date.      
    There are nine personal year numbers, which makes up a complete Epicycle.  
Each Epicycle reveals the progression or evolution of a specific part of your
growth.  Ryan, your progress along this Epicycle can be seen very logically, from
the infancy or beginning of a growth period in your life, to the conclusion or
culmination of that process.  The 1 personal year indicates your first steps in a
new direction.  The years that follow indicate your progress along this path,
concluding with your 9 Personal Year, which completes the cycle.  Below is a
description of your current Personal Year.  It indicates where you are on the 9
year Epicycle.
    The Personal Years form the building steps that mark your progress through
life.

Ryan and Toni, you have the same Personal Year cycle number. The text below  
therefore applies to both of you. Due to the fact that Personal Year cycles  follow
each other in an orderly fashion and in a 9-year sequence, you will  always,
throughout your lives, have the same Personal Year cycle number.

Ryan and Toni, your Personal Year for 2008 is 7  
 
   Ryan, you will experience a strong tendency to spend more time alone, to delve
inside and find some answers and to reach a better understanding of yourself.  
This is not a year for social activities nor is it a year to try and reach goals on a
material level.  You will find that the necessities of daily life seem to be taken care
of by themselves.  There is no need to be overly concerned regarding your
material needs.  Without slacking on your daily duties and responsibilities, you
can afford to give more attention to yourself.  This is a year for inner growth.  It is

your spiritual and mental presence that requires attention.  Improve the quality of
your life, read, contemplate and gain insight in yourself.  You are important now.  
Rest and attend to your health.  It is during this year that you strengthen the
foundation of your life, after all your success in all matters rests upon the strength
of your inner self.  There will be many strange and unusual events inspiring you to
take a closer look at life and an opportunity is there to experience the joy and
beauty of life without any artificial or exterior involvement but purely the growing
awareness of yourself.  To much concern and desire for material rewards, Ryan,
will turn this period of your life into a very bad experience indeed, while a "let go
and let god " attitude will make this such a fruitful and pleasant year that you may
find yourself wondering what you did to deserve this.

Your Personal Year's compatibility for 2008 is 7  
 
Compatibility is as important with the cycles as it is with character traits.  It is
possible for a relationship between two people with otherwise very compatible
charts to break down as a result of encountering one or more incompatible
cycles.  However, it is much easier to overcome or avoid possible pitfalls
resulting from incompatible cycles than from incompatible personality traits.

Ryan and Toni, this is a cycle during which you have a lot of control over the way
you experience your relationship.  In this day and age, the seven cycle is perhaps
the most difficult to live up to.  Not because it is demanding, but because it asks
you to back off from the daily grind and struggle.  This is a time you should be
devoted to your self; to your deeper spiritual and intellectual needs.
This is something society does not, as a rule, inspire.  Yet, without these periods
of self-examination and self-discovery, a person could get lost among all the
mundane stuff and never be able to step back and appreciate what this life is all
about.
And it is your willingness to step away from the rat race, Ryan and Toni, which is
the deciding factor in how this cycle will affect you and your relationship.  If you
have learned how to be together quietly, without demanding each other’s
attention, you have a big advantage, because that is precisely what this cycle
asks from you.  You are both experiencing a time when you need to be alone
more than usual.  You may find that you have little patience with those you
perceive as intrusive, and this does not exclude your partner.  Hence, Ryan and
Toni, it is important that you use your abilities to fulfill this need to be together -
and yet to be alone - during the span of this cycle.

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Post by Rhutobello » Sun Mar 16, 2008 9:14 am

Another thing to take into consideration is both your ages.
As said you two have a good relationship number, but you yourself feel that that is not the case......don't judge it to early :)

My wife and our eldest daughter was as cat and dog, true my daughters whole childhood.

When she passed 20 everything changed, for the last 24 years they have been more "best friends" then mother and daughter, so let the time do its work.

Many times we do silly thing towards those we love, especially in our teens :)

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Post by Bandit81101 » Sun Mar 16, 2008 8:43 pm

Thank you very much for ur help and insite.  Some of that rang true, and I will have to work on it and make things work.  Hopefully in time this too will pass :)
Fairytales don't tell children that dragons exist, they already know that dragons exist.  Fairytales tell them that dragons can be defeated.

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Post by NAAANEE » Sat Mar 14, 2009 5:59 pm

9-6-1994 Ryan Wesley Fradella
3-30-1980 Toni Marie Fradella
for Ryan numbers-8,2,9,8,1 dob-9,6,5,2
for Toni numbers -1,6,1,9,7 dob-3,3,9,6
generally people  born on 3 dates are people who follow rules & also expect others to follow them.in your case since the total number is 6 you are more likely to be strict with your family members especially on those younger to you because of your love towards them.
your brother a 2 number person seeks love in a soft way.due to 5 & 9 in his dob he cannot tolerate restrictions on him.your brother numbers are falling in fire triangle & yours is falling in water triangle.here the compatibility is not at all matching.you people will be good when you are far from each other in location.When you become close to each other the problem increases.it is better to live far away from each other & love each other then fighting with each other by living together.the numbers are showing natural attraction for each other,but due to above number properties it is clashing the real happiness.i wish you will overcome it.
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