In need of a hug

nmcaldas · Post by **nmcaldas** » Thu Oct 18, 2007 2:19 pm

Ty all for that.....

suzisco · Post by **suzisco** » Thu Oct 18, 2007 2:46 pm

Oh thats not good you feel that way, so a hug for you.

Perhaps this is something you need to talk to a friend or indeed your wife about.  Its something that needs alot of time to talk about thats for sure.  Perhaps there is something thats missing.  I wish you well.

(((((Hugs)))))

Suzi XXX

soul_flower · Post by **soul_flower** » Thu Oct 18, 2007 3:07 pm

Heres a big *huggle* from me to you and my positive,loving thoughts also.

Im sorry your feeling like that,you probably should talk to your wife,let her know how you feel as its not good you feeling like you are.

Heres another *huggle* to help you.

Tamara :o)

lunarcraft · Post by **lunarcraft** » Thu Oct 18, 2007 6:10 pm

I am sending you one of my HUGE hugs - I hope it helps a little.  Are you able to take your wife out for a romantic evening?  Some time away from the kids, just for yourselves, to give you an opportunity to reconnect with each other - vital in any relationship.

I wish you well and pray that you have a very happy future ahead.

Brightest Blessings

Sarah

Suzanne888 · Post by **Suzanne888** » Fri Oct 19, 2007 4:30 pm

Life's a trip....try to enjoy the ride!  Big Huggies To You!

Rhutobello · Post by **Rhutobello** » Fri Oct 19, 2007 4:59 pm

A big Hug to you.....and maybe a thought too....

You say you love her more then life....but you are feeling you are not getting what you are giving?

When you love someone....then you give....give without putting up scales to see if we get equal......by wanting to have an "higher" respond then what you get, you "beam out" impulses that tells you are not satisfied....this is picked up by your wife....who will feel that she don't live up to your expectations...which again might lead to a decrease in both feelings for each other
Since you have got this thought...it will only grow and slowly consume your trust and love for her.

If you love your wife and trust her.....then do so...with open heart....always try to give good comments about her work...show her love...but never or seldom ask for confirmation....it shall be natural.

On the other side....if you feel that your wife don't love you....or you don't trust her in anyway....then it is much better to discuss the matter with her....clean the air....this way you avoid to be eaten up slowly by thoughts that aren't real.

Good luck....and the advice is only given in best intent

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