Getting very lonely at times

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bhavikparekh
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Getting very lonely at times

Post by bhavikparekh » Sat Jan 05, 2008 9:19 am

[b][size=18]Hi everyone, it's been six months that i have joined my first job as a S/w engg. I am really getting stressed out as my mind continuosly thinks that i need a Girlfriend or a true friend with whom i can share my feelings.

What should i do. Kindly suggest me solution ??[/b][/size] :smt009

Nicole
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~*~bhavikparekh~*~

Post by Nicole » Sat Jan 05, 2008 3:40 pm

Hi bhavikparekh,  :smt006

It's always nice to go out and meet new people, males and Ladies..
Young at heart and wise ones as well...

If you don't like your job..
Give it about a month. if you still say Ugh~!!
Look around and ask people what's out there to try...

Go mingle and have fun, life can be a blast with the right people to have fun with..
Go introduce yourself and show them your not shy~!!  :smt003

You don't need luck you already have it young one..:smt023

Hugs~!!

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Post by taraprincess » Mon Jan 07, 2008 7:22 pm

sweetie here is a huge hug... much love and huggies

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huuuuuge hug

Post by lluvia » Tue Jan 08, 2008 7:19 pm

:smt006 right on nicole, :smt020 hers a big hug 4 u ,go out there n show them whos the man :smt007 lluvia

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Re: Getting very lonely at times

Post by acaveyogi » Fri Jan 11, 2008 2:06 am

bhavikparekh wrote:Hi everyone, it's been six months that i have joined my first job as a S/w engg. I am really getting stressed out as my mind continuosly thinks that i need a Girlfriend or a true friend with whom i can share my feelings.

What should i do. Kindly suggest me solution ??
:smt009
Bhavik :) I remember going through what you are going through. Based on my experience, you have got to have patience. Let the "Divine" work in your life. There is the right person for everybody, if one is patient and desire that kind of relationship.

Being attached to the wrong person can actually be more painful than being by one's self  :)

Love!

acaveyogi

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suzisco
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Post by suzisco » Fri Jan 11, 2008 12:34 pm

I have to agree with everyone, you should never go and look for your mate, they turn up when you least expect it.  I would concentrate on the other things in life that are important to you like your job, your friends, hobbies etc.

A large hug to you.

Suzi

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Post by kgirlsmomma » Sun Jan 20, 2008 6:38 pm

Become your OWN best Friend!!! :)

acaveyogi
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Post by acaveyogi » Mon Jan 21, 2008 9:58 pm

kgirlsmomma wrote:Become your OWN best Friend!!! :)
:smt008

Love you!

john

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Post by jennifercrowe » Wed Jan 23, 2008 3:06 am

here is you a huge hug

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Re: Hug

Post by acaveyogi » Thu Jan 24, 2008 1:09 am

jennifercrowe wrote:here is you a huge hug
Jenn, my post could have been misconstrued :) but it wasn't!

You are loved!

john

PS: Huge "Hug" back! john (Guys, I love this messageboard, there are alot of really cool people here! I look foward to the future!)

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Post by justnara » Sun Feb 10, 2008 7:21 pm

you are stressed so do something about it. join the gym or talk to some one

about getting a girlfriend why don't you try getting a female friend first and than see how it goes.

you are still really young

have fun with life

believe in yourself more

don't self- pity


take good care of yourself

look well groomed

mostly smile often and clarify what you want in life

talk to your friends and be a person you would admire

lots of love from a beautiful girl
x

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