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BLACKIE
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overwhelmed

Post by BLACKIE » Tue Apr 22, 2008 3:12 pm

I have some many things going on. My younger son is having some medical problem nothing to seroius right now, just chronic headache , sinus, asthma and gi stuff. My house is being done over and my dad is sick. Everyone in my family comes to me for help or advice. And I'm at a lost. I feel not clear. so Im second guessing my self.

any thought or advice?

thanks a bunch!

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Molissa
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Post by Molissa » Tue Apr 22, 2008 3:23 pm

advice:  breathe in, breathe out.  deeply.
and lean here.
lots of hugs and postive energy to you.

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Post by dhav » Tue Apr 22, 2008 4:16 pm

Hi Blackie,

I think you already know the answer but want to confirm from here.Give yourself and your son and father attention right now.Dopn't dissipate your energy for those seeking advice for now.You also got ypur own problem and you know let yourself breath freely.the fact that there are too much happening at one go is not helping you focusing on the matter fully.

Take care of your son and father until they are feeling fine.Then if you feel replenished then you can focus on giving advices and so on.Step by step resolve one by one.

Also give yourself much care and help.You mostly need it to be able to help others.

Hugs and love from me.All will be fine.

dhav :smt007

BLACKIE
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Post by BLACKIE » Tue Apr 22, 2008 4:34 pm

Thank you both! It dose help to here what you need to do from someone else.

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Post by taraprincess » Tue Apr 22, 2008 5:43 pm

sweetie here is a huge hug and im sending u some positive energy...much love and huggies :smt007

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Post by WhoseLineBabygirl » Tue Apr 22, 2008 7:34 pm

*huggles* hope everybody starts feeling better

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Post by tourbi » Tue Apr 22, 2008 7:43 pm

Do what you need to do for yourself first.  You must keep yourself full for when you are called upon to give to others.
Take care of what you can.  Give what you are able.
Turn the rest over to Divinty and trust it will be handled.  Divinity will take care of everything including you, ask.
Know you are not alone and let the energy of love and light flow to you.

I am Pagan.  I sometimes see the Divine Mother with full breasts, ready to give me all the nourishment and energy I need.  I am Her child, as are you.  She is a good Mother and will meet our needs.  Just let Her/Him/Divinity know. Then be willing to drink deeply of all that is given.
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Post by Nicole » Tue Apr 22, 2008 8:18 pm

Hello,  :smt006

I think it sounds like a time out for you huh~!!  :)
Make time for you to think fresh...
All others should give you a brake and let you be for a while..

I hope all gets well fast and things will be smooth sailing for you...  :smt020

BLACKIE
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Post by BLACKIE » Tue Apr 22, 2008 11:42 pm

thank you once again! I'm starting to feel better!!!

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Post by karlenespellman » Wed Apr 23, 2008 2:00 am

Hi Blackie,

A HUGE HHHUUUGGG, positive energy and love to you and yours.

Does your dad live with you?

Just a question. Do you live in an old house. Check for mold.
My Grandmother had mold and didn't know it. She got so sick,
she re did her will knowing she was dieing. That was 5 years ago,
and she will be 95 this year.

Lots of love to you all.

Karlene

BLACKIE
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Post by BLACKIE » Wed Apr 23, 2008 8:07 pm

Karlene- what a pretty name!

yes dad lives with me, he has deiabetes- blockage in his legs

way to go to your grandmother!

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Post by karlenespellman » Thu Apr 24, 2008 4:24 am

Hi Blackie,
Thank you.
That should make it (easier/harder) for you.
At least he is there and your not dividing yourself between 2 places.
But you still have a hard road.
My HUGE HHHUUUGGGGSSS, positive energy and love go out to you
and your family.
You are such a special person to do this. Bless you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Let us know how thing are going. But more importantly,
how you are. We are all here for you to help you.
Never forget"YOU ARE THE BEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
Lots of love to you.
Karlene

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