Help! I don't think I can stand it anymore!

shadowrnmom · Post by **shadowrnmom** » Wed Apr 09, 2008 2:31 am

I really, really need a hug. I'm sorry but I can't take anymore. I just had blew up at my husband on  the phone because when I woke up I found out that he had thrown out my computer (my standby) without asking me. He dumped my brandnew $350 shampooer that I scrimped and paid for last month "Because I hadn't used it." I just got over breast cancer with a bilateral mastectomy, am back to work full time in a very stressful job, supporting him. I had another long day at work with no breaks, no lunch and was mandated to work overtime. I got to go the bathroom once during 14 hours on my feet. I am an ER nurse. The patients were rude, the families worse, the charge nurse constantly barking orders, charts piling up; we're stretched because of call-ins. No one wants to work! Don't get me wrong. I love my job. But then I come home to a pile of dishes and laundry and a messy house and a nagging retired husband who watches TV all day. I miss my mother so much but she died 2 years ago. Maybe that's why I am so stressed..... :smt073

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tourbi · Post by **tourbi** » Wed Apr 09, 2008 2:35 am

Oh my, Yes yes yes, hugs you get

Molissa · Post by **Molissa** » Wed Apr 09, 2008 2:40 am

oh.  a zillion hugs to you! big ones.  the holding kind.  You know, where you can rest your head on a shoulder for a moment and just breathe.
wishing you so much better tomorrow.

shadowrnmom · Post by **shadowrnmom** » Wed Apr 09, 2008 2:48 am

Thank you Tourbi and Molissa SOOOOOO much. I really needed that. We all need a hand to hold and shoulder to cry on sometimes. Thank you. Thank you. I hope to return the favor someday!

karlenespellman · Post by **karlenespellman** » Wed Apr 09, 2008 4:07 am

Hi Shadow,

You have all of the HUGE HHHUUUGGGSSS, positive energy and love that I can send.

You again show me why I could never be a nurse. Bless you for this most humbled job. The next one is the wife.
You are a very GRAND person for doing this.

Thank you for all you do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We are here for you to blow off steam. Keep up your positive energy that lets you be you. Be proud of yourself, we ARE!

Lots of love to you.

Karlene

Nyteshadecreed · Post by **Nyteshadecreed** » Wed Apr 09, 2008 4:11 am

Shadow,

         From one need a hug to another..

Lots of huggz!!

Hang in there hon' and I will hang in there right next to ya...

     Nyte

shadowrnmom · Post by **shadowrnmom** » Mon Apr 28, 2008 8:44 pm

Thank you Karlene and Nyte! I feel empowered and blessed. All you guys really did it for me. I'm back on track. I'll be there right back at you! Have a good one.
Men are like toddlers, aren't they? They need continual potty training!

lluvia · Post by **lluvia** » Mon Apr 28, 2008 9:00 pm

HUGS N KISSES

LLUVIA

void · Post by **void** » Tue Apr 29, 2008 4:04 am

big hug from me to you

i was very touched when I saw the responces here,,Its gonna pass

stress is fear

you need to feel good soon ,as soon as possible

visualize a content smile on your face

just writing that caused me to smile.

taraprincess · Post by **taraprincess** » Tue Apr 29, 2008 1:53 pm

sweetie here is a huge hug...much love and huggies

shadowrnmom · Post by **shadowrnmom** » Wed Apr 30, 2008 3:14 am

This is such a great place. I was so destressed when I felt the warmth from all you guys.....
Tara, Void, Illuvia, Karlene and Nyte, Thank You! Thank You! Thank You! Thank You!

I'm over my melt down and back to my therapy - quilting! But it sure helps to blow off steam sometimes. I'll be there for you sometime when you need it I hope.

God Bless You all.

taraprincess · Post by **taraprincess** » Thu May 01, 2008 5:54 pm

u are so welcome sweetie we are always here for u...im so glad u are doing better...much love and huggies

karlenespellman · Post by **karlenespellman** » Fri May 02, 2008 12:28 am

I need a quilt. LOL

Glad to hear your doing better.

Lots of love to you.
Karlene

peach · Post by **peach** » Fri May 02, 2008 12:40 am

BIG hug and kiss to you.  You are a VERY busy woman i would be stressed as well.  Just try and pace yourself things will hopefully pay off in the end. I wish the best for you!!

Nicole · Post by **Nicole** » Fri May 02, 2008 9:54 am

Your name was calling to me..
Sending you hugs and laughter...

Call a friend and go have a good lunch date...
Sunshine will be a blessing for your down time....

I see tinny hands around you..
Any little grand babies~?  :)

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