My poor family :(

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Bandit81101
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My poor family :(

Post by Bandit81101 » Tue May 13, 2008 4:33 pm

I was never close with my grandmother on my moms side, and my grandfather died years before I was born.  Instead my great aunt and uncle were more of family to me then she was.  The last several years have been very hard on them.

Fist my uncle got some wierd disease that killed off all of the nerves in his upper body, a disease the mayo clinic had only seen 2 other times ever.  He has trouble breathing because the nerves died, and they only grow back about an inch or so a year.  On top of that he got diabetes.

Then their son was in a horrifing car crash.  He was thought dead numerous times, but lived.  He needs constant care, is basically disabled for life from it. (He was thrown from the vehicle and his head was pinned under the tire and it twisted down the road.)

My aunt threw out her back and ruptured a disk with all the lifting and such she had to do for them.

They are in the process of loosing their farm, because my uncle couldn't work and they had to get rid of most of their income sources. (My uncle was the guy who never missed a day of work, and never called in sick)

Now on top of all of that, my uncle was just diagnosed with prostrate cancer.  If it has travelled outside of the prostrate, they say the outlook is bad.  His only chance is if it is just in his prostrate, and even then it depends on the treatment.

So please, all of you that can spare it, send light and love and healing to them.  They are good people, the kind that are always there for someone if they need it, reagardless of how well they know them!

Thank you,
Love,
~Toni

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Post by tourbi » Tue May 13, 2008 4:38 pm

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Sending energy for you and your family.

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Post by dhav » Tue May 13, 2008 4:42 pm

Dear Bandit,

I don't have words when read your posts.They are lucky to have you.I am sending lots of love,healing,light to them and their be back normal.Keep us posted about their condition.

lights of love,
dhav :smt006

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Post by Bandit81101 » Tue May 13, 2008 5:07 pm

As for now I know that he goes in to have his scans on the 20th and will know if it has travelled outside his prostrate on the 30th.  Thank you for your love :)

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Sending energy for you and your family

Post by heartofacowgirl » Tue May 13, 2008 5:41 pm

Our families is really and truly all that we have when it comes down to it. And I agree they are very lucky to have you.
Bless you and Your Family

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Post by WhoseLineBabygirl » Tue May 13, 2008 5:48 pm

*huggles* i hope everything works out for them

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HUGE HUGS

Post by lluvia » Wed May 14, 2008 2:23 am

:smt051 HUGS N POSSITIVE ENERGY YOUR WAY SWEETIE,LOVE N LIGHT LLUVIA
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Post by void » Wed May 14, 2008 3:51 am

Im so sorry  ,,god please bless them

& big hug for you

big hugs for them ,as well as lots of healing positive energy

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Post by soul_flower » Wed May 14, 2008 5:25 am

Im so very sorry to hear that they are going thru such an awful time...

Heres loads of *huggles* healing energy and a truck load of my love going to them all and you.


Tamara :o)

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Post by Bandit81101 » Wed May 14, 2008 1:07 pm

Thank you so much for your love and hugs!  I will keep this thread updated as we learn more.

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Post by karlenespellman » Wed May 14, 2008 4:54 pm

A HUGE HHHUUUGGG, positive energy and love to you and your family.
They are very lucky to have you.
You have us.
Lots of love to you.
Karlene

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Post by Molissa » Thu May 15, 2008 2:16 am

hugs and prayers for you and your family.

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Post by Zoddn Drak » Thu May 15, 2008 4:48 am

You know what?


HUGS


And


LOVE


And


HEALING


To your peeps.

Zoddn
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Post by taraprincess » Tue May 20, 2008 4:47 pm

sweetie here is a huge hug...much love and huggies :smt007

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Post by Bandit81101 » Sat May 24, 2008 6:03 pm

They got the results early, and are breathing a little easier.  It is contained in the prostate still, and he has started treatment.  They said in a few months they will freeze the prostate out and hopefully that will work.  Thank you for all your well wishes!!!  I hope it all goes well! :)

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