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Hurricane Shannon · Post by **Hurricane Shannon** » Wed Jun 18, 2008 5:06 am

Can I just vent before my head explodes???  WHY is it that people cannot be honest in a relationship???  It doesn't matter how much you explain what you need before you get emotionally involved, they just tell you what they think you want to hear!!!  I'm so sick of wasting my time and energy on a relationship just to have it bite me in the butt... I'd rather be alone!!!  UGH!!!

Thanx... I had to get that off my chest before I went in the bedroom with an aluminum baseball bat and hurt someone!!!  :)  And yes, I did take my meds today! Ha!

tourbi · Post by **tourbi** » Wed Jun 18, 2008 5:13 am

Tons of HUGS!!!
I think often we see ourselves a certain way and really care about the person we want to be with, we know we can be the way they see us and the way we really really want to be. Then something happens and ..............
Well.............
I've decided to keep my guy, warts and all and be happy with the good times and keep learning about myself in the good and bad.  
Anyway.
Tons of hugs for you.

Molissa · Post by **Molissa** » Wed Jun 18, 2008 2:45 pm

lots of hugs. and put the bat behind locked doors for now!
Hoping you feel much better soon.

WhoseLineBabygirl · Post by **WhoseLineBabygirl** » Wed Jun 18, 2008 3:09 pm

*huggles*

taraprincess · Post by **taraprincess** » Wed Jun 18, 2008 3:20 pm

sweetie here is a huge hug....much love and huggies

starsign20002000 · Post by **starsign20002000** » Wed Jun 18, 2008 10:50 pm

Here's a huge hug for you.  I hope you feel better soon.

karlenespellman · Post by **karlenespellman** » Wed Jun 18, 2008 11:29 pm

A HUGE HHHUUUGGG, positive energy and love to you.
I've been there. I now have a great guy. The best ones take some time to find you.
Lots of love to you.
Karlene

soul_flower · Post by **soul_flower** » Thu Jun 19, 2008 12:22 am

I don't understand why people cant just be honest too....But i have found that when i am honest they play me and then use it against me somehow......They should be honest and upfront with you and not waste your time if they arent being who they really are......Maybe somehow they think that is who they really are and in the end it isnt them at all,maybe they try to see if it is what they want and hope it will be,but again its stupid not to say it like it is......Ahh relationships scare me....Mmmm alot of "theys" in there.

Here some *huggles* and my love going to ya.

Tamara :o)

karlenespellman · Post by **karlenespellman** » Thu Jun 19, 2008 2:38 am

I think people look for other peoples fears. They can't deal with their own so they use others. It's a very easy way out.
It is a power thing. People like us trust others, so we don't look for this.
We trust and expect others to do the same.
We also can't give up on this trust, or we will drive our selves nuts.This is one of those "live and learn" lessons.
It sucks, but it makes us a stronger person.
Hang in there. It will happen, when the time is right.
Lots of love to you.
Karlene

obvious@live.ca · Post by **obvious@live.ca** » Thu Jun 19, 2008 6:16 pm

sometimes it seems that the more transparent, the more open and loving you are, people can "read" you a little better, and karma perhaps, even to a degree, starts working on you knots, makes you sure of what you like and what you dont like, want you want and what you need....

sometimes it may be part of the path, but I do wish the lessons were a little kinder sometimes, its hard to have your upsets thrown right back in your face from those closest to you, with whom you are supposed to have the best, most loving bond,

I guess I would ask myself for a kind and loving teacher, when lessons are to be taught, if there are things to be shown about myself, questions to ask myself...

perhaps its a good sign,in a way? it means that you are open and loving, and have some decisions to make? about your own happiness? its been that way for me....

obvious@live.ca · Post by **obvious@live.ca** » Thu Jun 19, 2008 6:18 pm

um. that would be "your knots" not "you knots"
that was an ill sounding typo ;)

sorry bout that =)

Hurricane Shannon · Post by **Hurricane Shannon** » Fri Jun 20, 2008 1:39 am

Oh, you guys are so great!!!  You made my whole attitude change for the better... thanx SO MUCH!  I hope you all have a wonderful weekend!!!

void · Post by **void** » Fri Jun 20, 2008 2:15 am

big hug for you

I know the feeling

I affirm that everyone around me is honest ,caring ,& cocerned about my intrest

Ill let you know if works

surinder · Post by **surinder** » Sat Jun 21, 2008 8:01 am

A huge hug and lots of love from me too

surinder

sweetbelle · Post by **sweetbelle** » Sat Jun 21, 2008 6:47 pm

Hugs to you!!
Sometimes it's good to vent!! Let it out!
I will listen. I am the queen of dyfunctional relationships so I empathize with you.

Tanya

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