Falling in love with your best friend sucks

[FutureVizions]

So I discovered I'm in love with my best friend when we went to bed together.  Didn't mean for it to happen, but it did.  Now, I just want things to go back the way they were, because I'm jealous and lonely.  I just need a hug.

[kgirlsmomma]

Well, I'm sorry for the difficult lesson.  You aren't alone by the way.  

The question is, what did you learn?  Since you can't go back, only forward..what lesson will you carry with you?  Think & dig deep.  The answer can only be about you, contain only you in it, and no one else.  "HE/SHE" didn't do anything, make you do anything, make you feel any way...only "YOU'.  So therefore "I learned.............about myself."

[taraprincess]

sweetie here is a huge hug....much love and huggies

[firetopaz]

Big Hug!  kgirlsmomma hit it on the head.  You can't go  back and change it, so you need to figure out where do you go from here?  

We all make mistakes and some hurt more than others.  Might it be alright to talk to this person about it?  Let them know how you feel?  If you are true friends, your feelings will be important and they would take more care not to hurt them.