i hate my life im depressed and suicidal

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mysticgirl888
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i hate my life im depressed and suicidal

Post by mysticgirl888 » Tue Jan 06, 2009 9:38 pm

my life is getting worse and worse and i blame myself for everything i did wrong i need help seriously

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suzisco
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Post by suzisco » Tue Jan 06, 2009 9:50 pm

if life is so bad at the age of 16 you need real help and not the support of this board.  Do you have a guidance teacher at school, GP or an understanding parent you can go and talk to?

Its important you do this now, rather than carrying this baggage into adulthood and developing serious mental health issues.

Many hugs and positive thoughts to you.

Suzi

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Cali4niaGirlz
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Post by Cali4niaGirlz » Tue Jan 06, 2009 10:00 pm

I agree sweetie!

Teenage years are very hard... Please listen and go seek a professional to talk to. There are always free teenage hotlines.

Please...... they will help put your life into perspective!

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Nyteshadecreed
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Post by Nyteshadecreed » Tue Jan 06, 2009 11:28 pm

*hugz* sometimes life seems like it is going all wrong and you just want a way out... I have been there when I was your age... But find someone you can talk to, on-line or in real life, someone that you aren't going to sugar coat it so it isn't so bad... or anything like that, YOu need a friend you can be honest with about how you feel and someone who will let you cry when you need to, then hug you when you need that too... Things that seem so impossible right now will seem completely different in just 6 months time... Hang in there and Find someone who can be a outlet for all the things you are holding inside... you need to express yourself!! Professionals, tend to be better at listening and being just what you need... someone who isn't biased and won't judge you... But I also know how hard it is to turn to someone like that... you took a first step turning here... Keep going. *huge hugz* there are people who care and it will get better!!

Light, Love and Blessings to you,
                                                Nyte

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Post by taraprincess » Wed Jan 07, 2009 3:12 pm

sweetie here is a huge hug....much love and huggies :smt007

Career Coach
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Post by Career Coach » Thu Jan 08, 2009 11:52 pm

Hi Mystic Girl:
This too will pass.  How?  By discovering & achieving your Life's Work.
Start here:
What are your 3 best skills?
3 best values?
3 best interests?
Now, combine them and build a business around it.  A Sag without a purpose is lost & depressed.
So, get out there and do it.   :smt003

dandelion
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Post by dandelion » Sun Jan 11, 2009 7:54 am

:smt056



<3

Harmonious1
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Oh sweet cheeks....

Post by Harmonious1 » Sun Jan 11, 2009 10:29 am

16 is an age where you should be looking forward to life ahead of you.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and trust that you can keep your head above water - you truly can.

Much love &nbsp;xxxxx

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Post by Ronnie83 » Mon Jan 26, 2009 10:48 pm

I send a hug out to you! I can feel where you are coming from so hang in here!

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This too shall pass

Post by Career Coach » Wed Jan 28, 2009 2:46 am

In the meantime, use the gifts God gave you to look at the bigger picture. &nbsp;The seemingly negative things going on around you are designed to put you back on course with your Life's Work. &nbsp;See the bigger picture and read the messages just below the surface. &nbsp;As a Sag, I suggest that part of the picture is to find a God you can do business with. &nbsp;Blessings to you now and always.
Kathi the Career Coach
www.godseer.com

gina_love_21
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Post by gina_love_21 » Sat Apr 04, 2009 4:59 am

Sweetie, I really hope you are okay. I have felt that way many many times. Like I just don't want to go on anymore. But, as my fiance always tells me, it's always darkest before it becomes light. Hang in there. If you need someone to talk to, feel free to email me @ gina_love_21@live.com. Also, please try to talk to a specialist that may be able to help you sort out your difficulties in life.

HUGS!

Nanna
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You needing help

Post by Nanna » Mon May 18, 2009 5:29 am

I know you have heard this many times but I must say it againg. You have so much going on at your age. First your hormones are recking havoc with nerves and everything seems distorted because you are going through a wild growth spurt that won't quit. This can make you feel like screaming and banging your head one moment and laughing hysterically the next moment. It is so wonder why you wouldn't have feelings like those you have expressed. This is the time when you do need to share your feelings with someone that is objective and will help you sort your feelings out. I am standing behind you and proud of you for reaching out for help.
Please take a deep breath and never surrender. :smt056

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thegirl
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Post by thegirl » Mon Jun 15, 2009 10:22 pm

i was like you some time ago.. now im better because you have to choose between accept your life or suffer. so,do like i did, accept your life and move on to find hapiness

goddreaming
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how?

Post by goddreaming » Fri Jun 19, 2009 2:26 pm

How are you thinking of ending it? &nbsp;I'm in a similar mood right now... &nbsp;Things are really bad. &nbsp;I have thought about all my options and I'm thinking suicide could be valid depending on how things go. &nbsp;I'm just thinking, what's less painful...

Seriously, any advice is welcome.

Stephen.

peewee350
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Mystic girl and Goddreaming

Post by peewee350 » Wed Jun 24, 2009 9:20 am

Hello I am &nbsp;new to the forum and I have just read the upsetting posts by Mystic girl and Goddreaming and the responses to them.Can any body tell me if they are both alright now I was really upset and concerned about them.
It is always sad to hear of people that want to end there lives or at least are thinking about it , but when you are so young it somehow seems that much worse.
I do hope that they both managed to see that there is a whole journey ahead of them and there really is the potential of a wonderful life for both of them. What they see as life is not the only reality it is only theirs at the moment .
I send my love to both of them
&nbsp;Pete

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