I need a hug and all the help I can get
Moderators: eye_of_tiger, shalimar123
- Angelique
- Posts: 602
- Joined: Sun Apr 15, 2007 3:36 am
- Location: Left field, somewhere outside the box
Honey, be proud of who you are and your family will love you no matter who or what you are. If it takes them some time to let it soak in, so be it - you'd be amazed how supportive your family can be. A sexual preference does not define the person you are, or the person you are to become just like it doesn't define one who is hetero sexual.
Big hugs for you, and courage is your friend... fear is the only foe here.
Love,
Angelique
Big hugs for you, and courage is your friend... fear is the only foe here.
Love,
Angelique
-
- Posts: 5
- Joined: Tue Jun 12, 2007 2:44 am
- Location: Port Charlotte, FL
I am set
Hey little brother I got your message ...
- gothicdragon63
- Posts: 123
- Joined: Wed Jun 06, 2007 11:45 am
- Location: Tasmania, Australia
heres hug
im shore they wont kick you out the house.you need to be up front with them. tell them when you are ready.its better than living lie.yes they will be upset t first this is normal but in a little while they will come round. they love you and will love you they way you are. its not going to be easy but it will work out in the end. goodluck to you heres big hug.
-
- Posts: 190
- Joined: Sun Jan 07, 2007 1:34 am
Hey...I am now going out with someone that is the love of my life.....his name is matt! He might join the forum so everyone give him a big warm welcome. He is 18 and he is sooooooo sexy!!! Ok...yeah......we love each other sooo much and we live for each other....I hope that everyone likes him. He is the sweetest thing on earth. You all will like him if you like me....lol. Have a great day everyone! Have a good day and thanks for all your help!
Here is a pic
Here is a pic
- lunarcraft
- Posts: 1274
- Joined: Sat Apr 21, 2007 9:20 am
- Location: South-West England
- Contact:
Congratulations
Britishfish - I am really happy for you and sending lots of hugs to the two of you and very best wishes that everything works out for you both.
Brightest Blessings
Sarah
Brightest Blessings
Sarah
-
- Posts: 59
- Joined: Mon May 14, 2007 2:42 am
- Location: Karachi
Hello britishfish
How are you? I am very unhappy to hear about your life in which way is passing. You are very young and I think no one is your adviser. Take advice from the persons from which are very close to you, but he must be sensible.
There is no problem which can not be solved. Some problem takes time to be resolved.
Hope you will overcome on your present problems and lead a happy life in future.
Accept a powerful HUG from me
Kalimullah
How are you? I am very unhappy to hear about your life in which way is passing. You are very young and I think no one is your adviser. Take advice from the persons from which are very close to you, but he must be sensible.
There is no problem which can not be solved. Some problem takes time to be resolved.
Hope you will overcome on your present problems and lead a happy life in future.
Accept a powerful HUG from me
Kalimullah
Re: I need a hug and all the help I can get
Hello dear,britishfish wrote:I am gay...as most of you know, and so my family is totally against it because they have no ability to look at things differently. So...if they find out (which they are getting closer and closer to doing) then they will kick me out of the house. Please help me!!! If you could give me some positive energy or a psyhich reading then that would be awesome! Much needed as well. Thank you! Have a good day.
listen to me... i don't do psychic readings, but all what i can tell u is: Beroud of urself no matter what happens.. Pray to Jesus, too.... He'll help u... believe me
what I'd do
Tell Your Mam, pull Her to one side and Be Yourself, If She loves Her Child She'll accept You for who you are...Your Friends already accept you 4 you don't they chuck?
Dude!!
Dude!! If they truely loved you they would love you no matter what sexual orientation you are or what race you dated or what religion you converted to ect. ect...
If they are that upset about gays then move out! Don't let them intimidate you because of what you are!!! You are gay! That's final. You can't change what is real. :smt018
Seriously though, lots of people are against gays (unfortunatly). My brother had told me that he was gay gay in '05. I didn't know what to do. He was 17 at the time and I was only 10. At the time, my dad and my mom was going through a custody battle over us and it was a very stressed out enviroment. He didn't know how to tell our family (they are veryyyy old fashioned). When he told them almost 4 months after he told me..they were pissed! He ended up moving out that week because my dad (who he was living with at the tiime) decided that my brother was not worth his time. So my brother moved in with his friend that was like 2 1/2 years older. Soon after my parents missed him a lot and they started communicating with him again. He was happy but he never moved back. But my family finally excepted it. He is gay. Plain and simple.
To put it in short, Tell them..If they really cared about you they would just accept you for who you are. They will be mad at first but soon it will blow over and if it doesn't oh well!! Then they are not worth your time.
-----------------------------------------
:smt035
Everyone can rock,just some in their own way--Luvs and Hugs: Shasha
:smt035
If they are that upset about gays then move out! Don't let them intimidate you because of what you are!!! You are gay! That's final. You can't change what is real. :smt018
Seriously though, lots of people are against gays (unfortunatly). My brother had told me that he was gay gay in '05. I didn't know what to do. He was 17 at the time and I was only 10. At the time, my dad and my mom was going through a custody battle over us and it was a very stressed out enviroment. He didn't know how to tell our family (they are veryyyy old fashioned). When he told them almost 4 months after he told me..they were pissed! He ended up moving out that week because my dad (who he was living with at the tiime) decided that my brother was not worth his time. So my brother moved in with his friend that was like 2 1/2 years older. Soon after my parents missed him a lot and they started communicating with him again. He was happy but he never moved back. But my family finally excepted it. He is gay. Plain and simple.
To put it in short, Tell them..If they really cared about you they would just accept you for who you are. They will be mad at first but soon it will blow over and if it doesn't oh well!! Then they are not worth your time.
-----------------------------------------
:smt035
Everyone can rock,just some in their own way--Luvs and Hugs: Shasha
:smt035
Who is online
Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 15 guests