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by soul_flower » Tue Feb 26, 2008 1:10 pm
I really dont think you're parents are being immature they are just worried and protective,yes they shouldnt have done that but sometimes that what parents do to know whats going on.They should respect that part of your life more....If my ex had of smoked pot i bet my dad would have tried to lock me up till i was like 28 or so lol.My mother checked my phone to ......We have all had times when our parents do not agree with what we are doing etc....Even if they are being totally harsh try to be the bigger person and not let it get to you.....In the end it is your life and you have to do what feels right.....But do all you can to keep the peace between your mum and dad because in the end if it didnt go to plan with you and this guy they need to be there to help.....Its a big world out there and when you need someone parents are always there ready to comfort and help in times of need.......My mum,dad and i still have arguments,but im thankful they are like that because i know they are looking out for my best interests....Even tho it doesnt really seem like it......I think i like to feel more grown up than i really am and thats where our heads butt....Like my dad always says...you're not 21 going on 56,i have years on you girl,dont you think i have been thru it before.....Hehe
I wish you all the best,do what you need to but always go about it with a little caution....When families fight its such a sad situation,maybe they will come around one day.
Tamara :o)
lots of hugs n good energy 