I love you but I am not in love with you.

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misty sur
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Post by misty sur » Wed Nov 03, 2010 9:51 am

a biiiiiiiig hug.

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Post by Tantagar » Thu Dec 23, 2010 11:54 pm

I know how you feel my husband, after meeting a girl online, said that she was the only one who could make him feel happy, then a week later handed me divorce papers. I feel like he went crazy and his mind went on a vacation somewhere in wackoville :/ . I realized I had been pushing him away because I was upset with him, but isn't it a little drastic to end a 5 year relationship for temporary pleasure? I guess I needed a hug too. I really feel your pain, truly on an emotional level. You are in my thoughts kindred spirit.

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Post by zeldaevolution » Mon Dec 27, 2010 9:19 pm

I think that things will definitely go back to a good start... I had a similar experience and can still feel the pain I had, like it was just like yesterday...

I hope that you and your girl can get along again, even as just friends, for there are many better things in this world that are yet unseen to happen. ^__^

So, I looked at the date, and how are things going? o__o

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Post by FaceValue » Mon Dec 27, 2010 9:35 pm

I have that going on now. She wants to be my friend, and will have me as nothing less, and yet she has me at the end of such a long pole(not a pun)that it seems like she doesn't want anything to do with me anymore, and just won't admit it.

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Post by randomthoughts » Wed Feb 02, 2011 9:31 am

Hey man I hope you and your girlfriend worked out. I know you wrote this in April but I had a similar situation - but instead of it being her mom it was her sister. So I definitely know the feeling man. Hopefully you got your chance to talk with her and profess your love for her without her mom getting involved again. I know blood is thicker than water, but in the end, when it comes to relationships.. the final decision should be made with the hearts involved..

And I hope you got that somehow.

Let us know. And I can't send you a hug cause I am a guy lol.. so here's a HANDSHAKE!

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