Need a hug...Very confused
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gothicdragon63
I personally want to give you hug. I have noticed that many of us have intimacy and trust issues -- based on past negative experiences in relationships. Our ego wants to protect us by sending us messages to refrain from future disappointment.
The problem is, we will not only protect ourself from disappointment, but from joy and the thrill of truly being loved for who we are.
Love,
Glenn (gsryoga)
I personally want to give you hug. I have noticed that many of us have intimacy and trust issues -- based on past negative experiences in relationships. Our ego wants to protect us by sending us messages to refrain from future disappointment.
The problem is, we will not only protect ourself from disappointment, but from joy and the thrill of truly being loved for who we are.
Love,
Glenn (gsryoga)
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the biggest hug possible
This is all new for you...you have been alone now for quite a while and having met someone that you click with is a beautiful thing.....its not very offen that special someone comes along and makes you feel alive....you deserve happiness and if this is the one,,,well....grab it by the horns and enjoy the time that you have......
you're a very special person and you love and care for the people around you...now its you're turn for that special loving....
you know that we are here for you gothicdragon63...anytime you need you know what to do...
HHHHUUUUUGGGGGGGGS FOR YOU you're an angel....now their looking after u
you're a very special person and you love and care for the people around you...now its you're turn for that special loving....
you know that we are here for you gothicdragon63...anytime you need you know what to do...
HHHHUUUUUGGGGGGGGS FOR YOU you're an angel....now their looking after u
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Lots of hugs for you, gothicdragon!
If there is one thing I am learning in my life, which may or may not help you, metaphorically speaking of course, is when you're on the roller coaster don't worry about the mechanics, like how they put the rails together, how the motor operates to get the car moving, who designed the roller coaster, just enjoy the ride. The most important thing is enjoying the experience, not how it works... if you're busy paying attention to the mechanics of what makes it tick, you've missed the ride. Just be ::smiles::
If there is one thing I am learning in my life, which may or may not help you, metaphorically speaking of course, is when you're on the roller coaster don't worry about the mechanics, like how they put the rails together, how the motor operates to get the car moving, who designed the roller coaster, just enjoy the ride. The most important thing is enjoying the experience, not how it works... if you're busy paying attention to the mechanics of what makes it tick, you've missed the ride. Just be ::smiles::
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Update for those interested
I know this topic is over 3 months old but thought I would just let you guys know what happened.
I now think the person that I originally posted about was sent to me to do exactly what he did, break down my walls, to allow me to accept a new partner into my life, albeit with a few complications lol, without all the confusion that I felt when I first wrote this post. I still talk with this guy and we have become firm friends, which I really cherish.
I'd like to thank all of you who sent me hugs, I really did feel them coming through and they helped me enormously when I needed it so here's one for all you wonderful people who make up Mystic {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}}}}}}}}
I now think the person that I originally posted about was sent to me to do exactly what he did, break down my walls, to allow me to accept a new partner into my life, albeit with a few complications lol, without all the confusion that I felt when I first wrote this post. I still talk with this guy and we have become firm friends, which I really cherish.
I'd like to thank all of you who sent me hugs, I really did feel them coming through and they helped me enormously when I needed it so here's one for all you wonderful people who make up Mystic {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}}}}}}}}
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Re: Need a hug...Very confused
Go for it, dont analyse yourself too much, its very difficult to find someone you can open up with. Dont think of the ifs but of the nows! LOL
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