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Nicole
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To: ~*~My husband & Childhood friend~*~

Post by Nicole » Mon Nov 12, 2007 1:29 pm

My husband has Chronic back pain from a car accident back in 2001 it's a mess, long story...
He was on his way to work at a stop light and a car hit him going 55MPH..
Well he suffers bad and today he's hurting bad..
You may know him on the board in the past as m00nshadow, an other one..LoL
Just want to say Hugs to you sweetness..

Now my long life friend I wont say her name for privet reasons..
She called me on my Birthday to wish me a Happy Birthday,
and to tell me she has Cervical Cancer...
It makes me ill just hearing the word Cancer.. Ugh~!!
I have my reasons why so...
Anyhoot I want to hug my sister and say all will be ok..
But I can't tell her that,
all I can tell her is I'm here and if she needs me I'm there...
I worry about every ones wellbeing...
I could hear the fear in her voice,
I so wanted to just say it's going to be ok~!!
It's not in my hands to say so...
I know why she called,
she knows I have ESP and can read her thoughts and see head of time..
I wont with this...
All I can do is pray and wish her a speedy healing...
I love you B~ we've been through a lot growing up and made it though all that..
You will get through this as-well with friends....
I love you sis with all my heart, I'm so sorry this is happening to you...
If I could, I would take it away in a heartbeat~!! You know this...
Sister hugs to you and my hubby..

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taraprincess
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Post by taraprincess » Mon Nov 12, 2007 3:51 pm

sweetie here is a huge hug to u and your hubby and sis...u are such a wonderful person...sending lots of healing energy to your sis and hubby... and my thoughts are with all of u...i pray everything will be okay... much love and huggies

Nicole
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Post by Nicole » Mon Nov 12, 2007 10:32 pm

taraprincess wrote:sweetie here is a huge hug to u and your hubby and sis...u are such a wonderful person...sending lots of healing energy to your sis and hubby... and my thoughts are with all of u...i pray everything will be okay... much love and huggies
Your kind and true..
Thank you taraprincess for thinking of my hubby and dear friend..
It means a lot to me..  :smt020

Prayers are always welcome like good friends...
Again t/y...  :smt006

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suzisco
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Post by suzisco » Mon Nov 12, 2007 10:51 pm

A hug to you Nicole in this time.  Its hard when friends and family hurt and you are powerless to help of get them better.  I suspect my husband knows exactly how you feel.

Lots of love to you.

Suzi XXX

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Post by Nicole » Mon Nov 12, 2007 10:56 pm

suzisco wrote:A hug to you Nicole in this time.  Its hard when friends and family hurt and you are powerless to help of get them better.  I suspect my husband knows exactly how you feel.

Lots of love to you.

Suzi XXX
Thanks SuziQ,
I'm sure he and your daughter knows...

How are you~??
I worry about our little SuziQ a lot also...

((( Hugs to friends )))  :)

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Post by suzisco » Mon Nov 12, 2007 11:03 pm

Oh well not so good just now Nicole, I am not getting better.  There has been no improvement in last 3 months.  I was back in hospital for some more tests last tuesday.  good news is i have a brain lol bad news is that i may never fully recover.

Looks like i may have post concussion syndrome and i am one of the small percentage that never improves.  This means i may be medically retired which is a big blow to me.  Just need to wait and see.

Will be seeing the neurologist again soon.

Suzi XXX

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Post by Nicole » Mon Nov 12, 2007 11:16 pm

suzisco wrote:Oh well not so good just now Nicole, I am not getting better.  There has been no improvement in last 3 months.  I was back in hospital for some more tests last tuesday.  good news is i have a brain lol bad news is that i may never fully recover.

Looks like i may have post concussion syndrome and i am one of the small percentage that never improves.  This means i may be medically retired which is a big blow to me.  Just need to wait and see.

Will be seeing the neurologist again soon.

Suzi XXX
This hits home so hard for me to read my friend..
Crying even~!!

I know my mother had an (AVM) and she was born with it..
Didn't understand the moods growing up until she was 48..
Fond out it was Caner to the brain and 2 aneurisms so thin you could see the blood swirling in it...
Long story but over with...

I'll pray for you my friend..  :smt051
I like to look on the brighter side, no matter what anyone says..   :)

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suzisco
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Post by suzisco » Mon Nov 12, 2007 11:29 pm

Thank you sis.

I like the positive part better.  Hubby tells me there is a whole world out there waiting for me and new things to do.

So thats the brighter side, will get to meet new people.

Suzi

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Post by Rohiniranjan » Tue Nov 13, 2007 3:38 am

[quote="suzisco"]Oh well not so good just now Nicole, I am not getting better.  There has been no improvement in last 3 months.  I was back in hospital for some more tests last tuesday.  good news is i have a brain lol bad news is that i may never fully recover.

Looks like i may have post concussion syndrome and i am one of the small percentage that never improves.  This means i may be medically retired which is a big blow to me.  Just need to wait and see.

Will be seeing the neurologist again soon.

Suzi XXX[/quote]

HUGS from a loving brother, for what those are worth, sis...

Rohiniranjan

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Samson
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Post by Samson » Tue Nov 13, 2007 9:48 am

Here you are my friend in need, I'm sending you a Big Big Hug and my thoughts are with you, I understand how you feel for your friend and your husband because I can feel it to.

P.S. I'll be around whenever you need me to help you through this, I'm never to far away.

Your Friend,

Samson.

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Ani
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Post by Ani » Tue Nov 13, 2007 10:09 am

lots of hugs to you Nicole,
you seem to be such a caring, sweet person.
its so hard when people we love suffer and its beyond our power to change anything... I`ll be praying for your husbands quick recovery and for your friend.

much love
Ani xxx

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Post by Nicole » Tue Nov 13, 2007 10:21 am

Ani wrote:lots of hugs to you Nicole,
you seem to be such a caring, sweet person.
its so hard when people we love suffer and its beyond our power to change anything... I`ll be praying for your husbands quick recovery and for your friend.

much love
Ani xxx
Thank you Ani,
Your a kind soul also...
I'n sure she can feel this...
She lives 3 hours away from me...

Thanks so much..  :)

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suzisco
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Post by suzisco » Tue Nov 13, 2007 11:46 am

Thank you very much Rohiniranjan.  Its much appreciated.

Hope your all having a good day today.

Suzi

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Post by taraprincess » Tue Nov 13, 2007 4:08 pm

Nicole wrote:
taraprincess wrote:sweetie here is a huge hug to u and your hubby and sis...u are such a wonderful person...sending lots of healing energy to your sis and hubby... and my thoughts are with all of u...i pray everything will be okay... much love and huggies
Your kind and true..
Thank you taraprincess for thinking of my hubby and dear friend..
It means a lot to me..  :smt020

Prayers are always welcome like good friends...
Again t/y...  :smt006
u very welcome sweetie thats what friends are for...u are a sweetheart your hubby and your dear friend are very lucky to have u in their lives...stay positive and everything will be ok...my thoughts and prayers are always with all of u...much love and huggies :smt006

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Post by soul_flower » Wed Nov 14, 2007 4:49 am

Nicole  :smt006


Im sorry to hear that about your husband and friend....Heres a massive bunch of my *huggles* for your husband and a bunch of *huggles* to your friend.Also my love and thoughts going their way....Having you with them to help them is a plus because your such a wonderful person,im sure they feel very lucky to have you in their life,heres some *huggles* for you to,i hope this rough patch smoothes out soon.
:smt058

Tamara :o)

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