Can use a hug.
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Can use a hug.
I'm missing him today. It's been forever since I've seen him last, and am so regretting things. Now he has passed away and everything I should of done is a regret.
- Rhutobello
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A big Huugg to you....its hard when we start blame ourself for what we should have done, but never did.
My only recommendation is that you carry it in your heat, but more concentrate about the good things, the positive you two had together.
I am sure he would never wish for you to suffer on his behalf, so you honour his memory much more by doing it this way.
We all feel we should have said, or done more, when we loose a loved one, and that is a thought we shall carry along for the living, to do it better next time, because even if we believe we will live forever...none of us does.
Another biggg huuugg!
My only recommendation is that you carry it in your heat, but more concentrate about the good things, the positive you two had together.
I am sure he would never wish for you to suffer on his behalf, so you honour his memory much more by doing it this way.
We all feel we should have said, or done more, when we loose a loved one, and that is a thought we shall carry along for the living, to do it better next time, because even if we believe we will live forever...none of us does.
Another biggg huuugg!
- curlyDredLocks
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when something moves away, another thing will move closer
it is your experience to learn from. This way you will not make this mistake again. Do not suffer in regret, but live in the understanding that you are learning.
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- curlyDredLocks
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when something moves away, another thing will move closer
it is your experience to learn from. This way you will not make this mistake again. Do not suffer in regret, but live in the understanding that you are learning.
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{BIG HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
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Hi
Whilst we are linear finite beings on Earth, we are immortal souls, there will be other opportunities for you to be reunited in the spirit world or another incarnation, it is not the end and know this and it will settle any wounds and sorrows you may have.
I wish you love and light
I wish you love and light
Re: Can use a hug.
i think i know how you feel... things seemed like the right things to do when i was doing them, then when i lost him and in the last days it made me wish i would have chucked it all just to spend time with him when i could have. (my brother). JandJ325 wrote:I'm missing him today. It's been forever since I've seen him last, and am so regretting things. Now he has passed away and everything I should of done is a regret.
so super big hug!
Common sense dictates there is no such thing as common sense.
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Can use a hug.
It goes even further into what I'd call the "collaborative hug. ...
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