In need of a warm Hug.
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In need of a warm Hug.
Hi everyone I was wondering if by any chance I could get a hug, there isn't, not one living person that I know of that will give me a Hug.
So I beg of please Give me a Hug.
Thank you.
SamsonPI
So I beg of please Give me a Hug.
Thank you.
SamsonPI
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It is a sad commentary upon our modern society that you do not have at least one person near to you, who will give you a hug.
Hug deprived people are much more likely to suffer with various psychological problems (according to my own observations as well as plenty of anecdotal evidence in the literature).
But if you already feel anxious, depressed or generally unloved and unappreciated there are few things which can surpass the sheer healing power and sense of solace which comes with each precious hug.
It is not how long a hug lasts which seems to really matter to the person concerned, but rather whether they feel that the other person giving them the hug genuinely cares about them, and is not doing it for the wrong or their own selfish reasons.
Unfortunately in some cultures and situations a hug is often automatically seen to have an erotic element about it, which can have the unintended result of people being less willing to give and receive hugs, particularly if they are members of the same sex.
And so the hug famine continues, unabated.
EoT
Hug deprived people are much more likely to suffer with various psychological problems (according to my own observations as well as plenty of anecdotal evidence in the literature).
But if you already feel anxious, depressed or generally unloved and unappreciated there are few things which can surpass the sheer healing power and sense of solace which comes with each precious hug.
It is not how long a hug lasts which seems to really matter to the person concerned, but rather whether they feel that the other person giving them the hug genuinely cares about them, and is not doing it for the wrong or their own selfish reasons.
Unfortunately in some cultures and situations a hug is often automatically seen to have an erotic element about it, which can have the unintended result of people being less willing to give and receive hugs, particularly if they are members of the same sex.
And so the hug famine continues, unabated.
EoT
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