Is it if charts dont match then it cant be love. can astrology tell if its love ???

[atypretty]

hi
  first tym im posting in mystic board. i hav little knowledge in astrology but iv intrest in it.
  if a persons kundali or bith charts dont match can it be that love cant happen ??? like once i askd my frnd an astrologer 2 match and he said "iv seen 4m all angles and it dsnt match , it cant be love ". few months later he asked me if im still wth the guy as he had predicted that we wont b together.i was wth him all this while and it gonna be three years in sum days.although i hav a lot of things which upset me ,a lot of insecurities i love him a lot and i just want him 2 love me lots too.
   can anyone plss help me understand this. wen i read linda goodmans love signs in the intro she said dat if 2ppl hav bad compatibility then it dsnt mean it cant be love, love is independant of it.
  my birth date is 12th may 1990(a saturday) , time is 5:35pm and his birth date is 30th april 1984 and time is 2:18pm...
  can anyone do sum analysis and tell me something pls im vry disturbed...

[AriesJupiter]

You need to provide the birth location (city & country) for each of you, in order for someone to look up your chart.

[atypretty]

my birth place is kolkata (calcutta) WEST BENGAL, INDIA  and his birth place is mumbai  locality-doombivali,MAHARASHTRA , INDIA

[StormGirl Blue]

Hi Atyprety,
fortunately your statement is not correct.  
I have a deep respect for astrology so I will not diminish the accuracy a skilled astrologer may provide in presenting a birth chart.
But the atoms that create "love" are almost endless and is determined by far more variables than a birth chart can provide.
An in compatible birth chart dose not automatically  spell disaster in a relationship...
It does not factor in an individuals personal chemistry for starters, it does not factor in highly individualistic circumstances or energy.