Dear Patricia,
As you can plainly see through my chosen emoticon, your words are like beautiful music to my ears.
I deeply and sincerely appreciate receiving your useful and positive feedback and other comments at any time, for I recognise that I am not the only person here who has their own life to live beyond or outside the Mystic Board forums. I have always thought that it is better to be later, than never to respond at all.
While it is always intensely encouraging for any reader to learn that the insights coming through him have been relevant and helpful to the person asking for the reading (often BTW called the querent) in better understanding how they tick, it is your friendship and the positive feelings and energies which you are sending in my direction which are the most self healing overall.
You never really left your parents behind you, but are continuing to carry around a vital part of each of them within your heart, and will continue to do so for many years after their deaths until your own passing.
So I believe that your boyfriend's parents may be using your well developed sense of guilt to make you fit in with their own ways of thinking and doing, but that their case is built entirely on the false illusion that you left either of your parents behind you in the old country.
It was only their physical bodies or shells which you left behind you. We are not those bodies, but we are instead spiritual beings temporarily using these physical bodies as a way of getting around in this physical world to be able to learn a series of important lessons about being more fully human, which could not be easily learned anywhere else.
For the purposes of spirit to spirit communication and communion, the physical distance between you and your parents is of no practical consequence whatsoever.
P.S.: I will keep you posted with any news from home affairs
I will be keeping a watch out for some good news with regards to this matter with your home affairs issue, under this your forum thread.
Loving regards and hugs 2U in bucket loads in return,
EoT
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