Hi again,
Ok the first card out of the deck was the 5 of Cups, a not very happy card three of the 5 golden cups have fallen over and although there are still two standing the figure looks sad an unhappy. This card may be indicating an imbalance between yourself and the man in question. One of the ways throgh this is to discuss the situation and tell him how you feel, that way he won't have to guess but will have to make his own mind up how to react.
Taking advantage of the small details is a good idea right now, don't overlook small things that you may think are irrelevant as they will have an impact later on and may make you feel that you regret what you did or didn't do.
there is a strong influence from the King of Swords, powerful, dominating and rather scarey and fierce when he wants to be, this makes me feel that you may actually be missing the point somehow. The 4 of Cups shows a young person sitting under a tree daydreaming, in front of them are 3 upright cups and out of the clouds come s a hand with another cup almost as if this is a surprise gift of some kind that you have ignored or overlooked oe perhaps misunderstood and forgotten?
Perhaps both of you are putting on airs and graces and trying to impress the other, the King is not really of such high rank or so powerful, underneath he wants to have fun and enjoy time with you, and you need to relax and stop worrying about all the little things that are too late to change.
Often after a damaging relationship we need time to rebuild our confidence and to trust and become ourselves once again rather than portray ourselves as the person we think the other wants to see. Be you, smile and be happy
Cassie