Your face is telling me that you no longer believe that there is a special man for you, and that you have accepted that the chances of this happening any time soon (if at all), are well below the average level expected by chance alone (50%). It is as if you are defeated before you have even started your campaign to find a suitable partner who will give you the true and lasting love which you so richly deserve.
I am telling you this not to discourage you even more about your chances, or to make you beat up more on yourself for sending out these mixed messages. Because your facial expression is largely controlled by your unconscious mind, by definition it is to a large extent outside of your conscious control to change, especially during a relatively short period of time.
In order change those negative unconscious body signals to something more in line with what you want them to say, you will need to somehow modify and improve your deepest beliefs about yourself, and in particular whether you believe deep inside that you are lovable and that you deserve to be loved by the right man for you just as much as any other woman deserves to be loved and respected.
In a nutshell you must learn to love yourself more (value and respect yourself for who you really are), human weaknesses, mistakes and all. There are many ways of achieving this, some of them only being available to professionals, but you could do a lot to help things along by the use of regular positive affirmations plus a shortcut which many people automatically reject as being too simple and somewhat childish, and therefore ignore as not being worthy of their time and effort.
Do whatever you can to make out that you already believe these things and love yourself, and eventually your mind cannot tell between the real belief and your rehearsed belief in yourself. There is always a certain amount of fear and anxiety associated with beginning any new relationship, the biggest fear being that history will keep repeating itself and that this man and relationship are not going to work any better than all your previous ones did.
Work with and around understandable fears, instead of trying to escape or ignore them. Feel your fears but do it any way, as if you wait for the fears to disappear completely you may well not live long enough to see it happen.
Courage is not the absence of fear.
Start by doing something to bring out or emphasise the good points about your appearance. I see behind your mask considerable inner strength and a woman who would make an excellent mother if she indeed wants to have children. Do not make the common mistake of overdoing your make up or makeover. Get professional advice as to how to do this most effectively. The eyes are sometimes referred to as the windows of our souls, and when you are looking for love your eyes (their brightness, clearness, the way in which they move) can be a powerful signal or message of invitation or attraction to a man who is able to recognise it as being such.
The reading ends by concluding that it will only be through you using a combination of cosmetic and dress improvements (your outer self) in addition with simultaneously changing your inner beliefs about yourself and practising greater self love that your chances of finding him this year are going to move into the more positive zone.
There is no doubt that 2014 is going to be a busy and challenging year for you in many life areas, but it is in the area of your close relationships where it is felt you have the greatest opportunity to make some significant forward progress through proper preparation both upon your inner and outer selves. Both an inner and outer makeover will be needed to turn things around for the better in the love romance zone, but you are not expected to do this entirely by yourself. Get what professional help that you can find and afford in doing this, use the resources of this magnificent website and particularly upon your many friends (myself included).
Thank you once again for the privilege of your friendship and support as well as yet another excuse for me to boost your self confidence and self respect, both of which no offence intended have been seriously lacking lately. Communicate to the right man for you not only through your words but also through your body signals and specifically your face and eyes that your words have some real substance.
Increased self love and escaping the common worldly belief that loving yourself is the same thing as being vain and self conceited (it is definitely not the same thing) will act as the catalyst or the spring board which you have been looking for to more true love and romance than you could have ever imagined was possible only weeks before requesting this reading.
It will take great courage, determination and patience on your part and possibly help from other people as well (professional and non professional) to reach your goals, but fortunately there is no shortage of any of these available both within and outside yourself, if you are only willing to make the journey, and keep asking for other people's help if or when needed. Asking for help (as long as you keep helping yourself at the same time) is NOT a sign of weakness, but rather it is a sign of inner strength and an ongoing commitment to making the best out of whatever cards life has dealt you.
Love, Light and Healing,
EoT
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