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by eye_of_tiger » Thu Jul 05, 2012 11:38 pm
Anup,
I am acutely aware that you have had a difficult time of it and that the wheel of fortune has often not appeared to turn in your favour, but please if you would be so kind to re-post this request as a completely new topic, under its own separate thread with an appropriate heading to clearly identify it as your own.
While it is not officially against the forum rules to add your posting to another member's thread it is regarded as being both impolite and disrespectful to that person, and also BTW greatly increases the chances that your request will be accidentally overlooked by the readers.
Disclaimer:
Be aware that any insights or advice given through these readings were never intended to replace to rather to complement you getting help from qualified and suitably trained professionals, outside of this website and in many cases not over the internet.
Although we are all different and nobody therefore either can or has the right to say how long grieving for our loved ones who have passed into Spirit is normal or healthy for you, if you are still all these years later after your father's death unable to emotionally come to terms with your significant loss now as an adult, then I would highly recommend that you should immediately seek professional counselling as well as consulting your doctor in order to determine whether or not there is some underlying medical reason for your grief having lasted as long as it clearly has.
Any reading given to you on this forum will consequently assume that you have previously or are currently in the process of looking for and/or receiving professional medical, legal and other types of help and treatment in addition to the intuitive help you have requested here. Your problems are both long standing and of a complicated nature, and you I feel deserve to get the very best help which is available and affordable to you from as many different sources as possible (both professional and non professional).
I look forward to helping you through a reading under your own discussion thread, at your earliest possible convenience.
Yours sincerely,
EoT :)