I'm posting this in here as I'm having a little problem in the love department.
& was hoping one of you could help me out?
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So without further ado, i'll proceed to tell you about my current situation.
I started working with this guy on a project, he's the brother of a very good friend of mine so I've known him for a few years now, however this is the very first time that we work together.
And so for the past few months, we've been seeing each other every other day. I've grown fond of him pretty quickly and it'd be hard not to as all the time he's nothing but extremely nice towards me. he's actually extremely nice to everybody & I guess that is why he's surrounded by many friends.
the thing is, he is not just nice. he's also very flirty. He knows that I am gay and he's said and done some things that made me think he might be interested in me.
ie: one time I went to his place and he received me wearing nothing but his briefs (he was expecting me to come btw) & this didn't happen just one time but two times. he's always flirting w. me in various creative ways. he always invites me to his place for lunch and dinner, so one time i asked him why are you always inviting me for lunch & he said 'cos i like cooking for you' -he said that with a smile & a fond look on his face. i could go on & on but all these so called signs might as well mean nothing as he claims to be straight.
even tho i've never seen him with a girl. or even flirt with a girl. if anything i've only seen him flirt with other guys (!!!)
and let me tell you this guy is a fine looking man. he's in his mid 20's. he's fit/muscular, manly, pretty and smart. i'm pretty sure he could be with a beautiful young woman if he wanted to. but he's not...
i think i am a very intuitive person. i was born with a very sharp intuition but i believe i was able to polish it through the practice of meditation and yoga. and I keep getting the feeling that this person is confused about his sexuality mainly, i think, because of his environment. All his friends are straight, I don't think he has one gay friend, & they all expect him to have a girlfriend at some point. Also he might not want to disappoint his mother. He lives with her only and he never met his father.
The reason why I'm asking for a reading now is because strange and unusual things have been happening to me constantly ever since I started developing these feelings for him. like every time I look at the clock I see numbers like 8:00, 9:00, 10:00, 11:00, 12:00 etc. I used to believe that when that happened to you it means that someone's thinking of you.
And also every time I leave the house I notice that butterflies approach me now. all i know is that butterflies mean transformation.
this might as well make me sound crazy, but I keep getting this feeling like the Universe is trying to tell me something and I kind of sense it's connected with this guy. but I might be wrong. I don't know, maybe it doesn't have anything to do with a romantic relationship, maybe it's something else?
Anyway I really wanted to ask one of you guys if have any chances with this person at all. Because I really feel like I'm inevitably falling for him. The snowball that started with me just liking him has grown and now I find myself thinking about him many times during the day.
should I move on?
I haven't really made any moves on him. But I would if I knew he'd respond well.